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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    It’s not often that I’m free to fulfil my dreams of a full blown erection, it’s even less likely that I’m free to enjoy that erection in my own company.

    I believe in the last two years I’ve probably racked up about 2 maybe 3 weeks of freedom in total.

    So to find myself with the opportunity to not only enjoy that erection, but also masturbate if I so wished… well I did what any man that has been locked so substantially in chastity would do: I reached for the tape measure.

    I’ve lost an inch in length! Wtf?!

    Now, this wouldn’t worry me as I know that things tend to go back to normal a day or two after I’m set free. However, this is actually the third day of freedom and it’s not back to normal.

    Maybe chastity can cause shrinkage :confused:.

    Just for the record, I’m not on any medication. I’m not at an age I would expect a normal reduction in size. I’m not a fantasist.
     
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    I shouldn't worry, it should return to normal.
     
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    That's been my experience too, but we're not all the same.

    I was recently unlocked after 105 days locked, because I got bitten by a flying insect and was swelling in the cage in a not sexy way. I also reached for the tape measure and found an inch was gone, measured the next evening and 1cm had already returned.

    My past experience was that a week or so without the cage and all returns.

    Maybe @IB-Chaste is one of those guys where his dick does genuinely get smaller the longer he is locked.
     
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    Well now you find yourself in a situation where your KH may actually have less of an incentive to unlock your now smaller dick. Which of course means more denial in your future.

    Congrats!
     
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    It seems generally known that there is no actual loss. The cells, tissue, skin, everything is as it was. You will lose flexibility or more precisely elasticity. This will be regained after a period of unrestrained stretching.
     
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    Weight gain is also a common missed variable. But yes, it can take up to a week to return; been there.
     
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    I lost a couple of inches. To be honest I could afford it with 8 to start off with.

    I was told it didn't matter because it wasn't used much anyway.

    But It was great. I could get it all in and body bump her spot. Totally new experience for me. But it does start to recover so have to be quick.
    Worth staying locked just to stop it growing back.
     
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    It will return
     
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    You'll return to your full length, but 3 days isn't near long enough... Everyone is different but most people say it takes them a couple weeks to fully return to normal, so try this: Stay unlocked 24/7 for an entire week, then measure yourself and then stay unlocked (again 24/7) for another full week and take another measurement. If your KH wants to relock you before then, just tell her you have to do this for medical reasons, mainly to ensure there's no permanent damage done to your cock. I can almost guarantee you there's no actual damage, but the point is you need time to return to your full length and a few days just isn't enough.
     
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    Yeah I thought I lost some length too but it came back to full size in about a week and a half. And unfortunately that was right when I was told to go back in.
     
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    Well, shit...
     
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    Right? It's like she knew...
     
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    Did you tell her or say something to tip her off?
     
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    Nope we had came back from vacation on a Monday she didn't have me lock back up till the Sunday night before I went to bed. I was let out for tsa reasons, we had kids with us and I wasn't about to try to explain why I got pulled aside, before we left so 1 week when we were on vacation and 1 week when we came back.
     
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    Oh I see. Yeah, that makes sense.
     
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    Whew, what a relief! Mrs. KyDave was glad to read about your shrinkage, even if only temporary. She says my cock is waaaay too big for her to take. Did it affect goth as well?

    Kidding.

    Hope things go back to normal.
     
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    The penis is mostly spongy tissue, relatively full of voids that fill with blood to cause an erection. Stop having erections and it collapses on itself, it hasn't physically changed, it's just compressed into a smaller space, and the construction tends to make it more able to shrink lengthways than widthways. After some reuse it will resume it's previous size.
     
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    So the shrinkage is in imperial measurements and the regrowth in metric… is this some kind of dimensional flux situation…like, your cock is slowly entering the European Union? Interesting.
     
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    I'm the same.
    After a week and a half or two weeks it's back to normal as my erections return.
    Then I get erections again every night for over a month after being locked up again.
    I really don't like that part of it.
     
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    Yup. It happens. Apparently not to everyone, but it definitely happened to me.

    My wife is happy about the result, because I used to cause her a lot of pain (going in too far), especially when she rode me. Now, I don't cause her pain.
     
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    If I had a pound for every time someone said that, I'd be 0.2lb short of a kilogram.
     
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    WTF3.png
     
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    It's a reply to a post, that uses a version of humour called sarcasm. It also mixes units of measure.

    I know that both sarcasm and the metric systems are things that yankees don't understand, so I can see why you are confused, Willis.
     
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    Update

    For our own personal reasons we’re taking a little break from the cage. After the initial enjoyment of being able to freely masturbate I’ve brought myself back round in the honour system for now, life is just better without masturbation.

    Anyway, there’s good news:

    I’ve gained two extra inches!!


    Of muscle mass around my chest. My penis remains still a whole lot shorter… I’m sure it will come back at some point.
    The positive side of this whole experience is that my wife has jumped on board, quite literally, with the SPH. Climbing from her riding position she declared, “it’s still hard to get off of even though it’s so small now.”
    There’s been a few comments like that, light hearted banter that works for me way more than it should.

    Every cloud and all that.
     
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