Hi all, I'm fairly new to these boards and haven't posted before. Have been dabbling in a bit of self-enforced chastity recently. Haven't managed to go beyond 4 days without cumming yet (both times managed to cum wearing a chastity cage). Anyway, I'm on day 4 again now. Mind you, I don't wear the belt 24/7, I usually take it off at night - I'm not brave enough to experience the night time (morning) struggle as yet. Anyway, this has probably been asked here before but I've heard that eventually there will be a steady flow of precum when one hasn't cum for awhile. I was just wondering how long it usually takes to get this point? For some reason it really fascinates me, and sounds very frustrating! On a side note, I've seen the question asked before about what is the appeal of self-enforced chastity. In part for me, it is the fantasy - 'pretending' you're not allowed out or to cum etc, perhaps by using online 'may i cum today' type things - or by browsing TD related content online. But the other significant part of it I find addictive is the almost constant arousal. I find after a few days, the normal things that would get me aroused (say porn that I might usually watch or pics) take on a whole new level. Rather than looking at a pic of an attractive woman and thinking yes she's attractive (I'm trying to be PC with my language here), after not cumming for a few days images of women are absolutely captivating. It's as if the appreciation of women's beauty goes up significantly and I can find myself mesmerised by simply a picture online. I love that feeling. I'm not quite sure how well I've described what I'm talking about there... Sorry this turned into a bit of an essay. Have lurked here for awhile and really enjoy reading these boards - so thanks everyone!
Thanks for posting! Don't worry about writing essays either, it's nice having something interested and thought provoking to read. With regards to your first point, it's going to depend entirely on who you are of course. When I've been locked before I used to get a bit leaky after only 3-4 days. So if you're like me, you're pretty much there.. but I'm sure there are some people here who go much longer before it kicks in. I love your second point about how women become so much more captivating! It's one of those things I haven't really considered, but as soon as you pointed it out I it seems obvious!
The thread you were referring to was started by me. And please write as much as you want. I totally undestand where you are coming(!) from. I never masturbated as a teenager, so I am trying recreate that time of sexual desire. I too now find nearly all women desirable. Which is a great feeling! In mind and body!
Leaking? You're leaking OMG get a plug, quick!!:confused0068: No, it happens i've been locked away for going on 5 months, next Friday is the last day of college and my projected release date!!! i just have to think or see something and i start dripping. It has got to the point where Mistress has me buy and wear my own pantyliners, i have to wear one everyday it seems. Welcome aboard, ozchastie:welcome: Don't be afraid to ask questions, that what we are here for.