Just wondering how others handle this. When my wife lets me out for some fun, I am not allowed to cum. She likes to get me close many times before locking back up. She always tells me that if I don't warn her in time and anything squirts, the punishment will be 2 months of total lockdown. That is enough of a deterance for me. Does anyone else have consequences like this?
No sir, I've been careful not to spoil a good thing. Besides, my year end release is coming up any day now. I just wondered how other key holders discouraged "accidents".
You should also have a backup plan where, if an edging session does go too far, she knows how to make it ruined, so at least the unauthorized emission won't do too much harm.
Rest assured, she would IMMEDIATELY cease all sensations if she detected a release starting. A ruin would be the most I would receive, followed by 2 months of lockdown.
My wife determines denial duration by a spinner with a possible ruin at the end, real orgasms are a date she picks. If I have an “accident” she says she will add the time passed already to both. For example I’m 10 weeks into 11 weeks of denial with a real orgasm possibly coming in February. If I cum tonight it would be ruined, I’d get another 10 weeks of denial immediately added as well as 10 weeks added to the date in February. It’s enough of a deterrent.
The spinner is an interesting random decision. In my case my Mistress/wife will tease even vibe me on my cage for her fun/pleasure. If I orgasm without permission, ruined or not, I "report" my failing to my KH. Since I am locked the vast majority of time, my KH will assign various punishments such as clamps on nipples and or balls for a give period monitored by Mistress. The more often I fail/violate...and I do from time to time...who can hold out forever ,,, the punishments can get more intense and longer. Always a reminder for me.
The rare occurrences im edged Madam and I will use the 1-10. 1 being just hard, 10 being ejaculation. I have to tell madam once I pass a six, as if I’ve been very good she will take me up to a nine.
Yes she tells me a year but it would stick to the norm of 2 to 3 months, but I still abide because she could very well push that far. So I usually end up with a ruined heavy stream and 2 days later right back where she likes me.
Weirdly, just on Boxing day. I was cage edging with permission, and out of the blue she calls in from the bathroom. "If you have an accident it's 2 months" I nearly had an accident... Then thought about it some more, and... Came... To my senses... I think she meant it. It would be a doddle for her. Double for me.
i have serious consequences if i make a "mistake" as we call it when i climax without Her permission (ruined or full). 1) New Record: my next climax will automatically be longer than my previous longest chaste period, so i will have to set a new "record" before She'll even consider allowing me to climax again. 2) Humiliation: Domina will have me report to one or two of Her Girlfriends who know about our FLR dynamic that i climaxed without Her permission. That is humbling indeed to see Them giggle and "tsk, tsk" me. 3) Forfeiting a Future Climax: This was added this year from a suggestion by one of the other Superiors i serve. Domina has set a maximum number of climaxes for me for the year, and when i made a "mistake" in May by milking too far and going over the edge, She reduced my allowed climaxes for 2022 from 6 to 5. That one really hurt. 4) Trust: i have given control of my sexual climaxes to Domina, so when i climax without Her permission, that trust is broken. It's not serious in a way to cause any real relationship issues for us, but it does take time and dedication to repair the FLR portion of our dynamic. It's a violation of the "game" we play, so like a technical foul or red card, takes time to repair. asa