Consequence for edging gone too far

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    Just wondering how others handle this. When my wife lets me out for some fun, I am not allowed to cum. She likes to get me close many times before locking back up. She always tells me that if I don't warn her in time and anything squirts, the punishment will be 2 months of total lockdown. That is enough of a deterance for me. Does anyone else have consequences like this?
     
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    Is this still hypothetical or are you in trouble?
     
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    No sir, I've been careful not to spoil a good thing. Besides, my year end release is coming up any day now. I just wondered how other key holders discouraged "accidents".
     
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    You should also have a backup plan where, if an edging session does go too far, she knows how to make it ruined, so at least the unauthorized emission won't do too much harm.
     
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    Rest assured, she would IMMEDIATELY cease all sensations if she detected a release starting. A ruin would be the most I would receive, followed by 2 months of lockdown.
     
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    My wife determines denial duration by a spinner with a possible ruin at the end, real orgasms are a date she picks. If I have an “accident” she says she will add the time passed already to both. For example I’m 10 weeks into 11 weeks of denial with a real orgasm possibly coming in February. If I cum tonight it would be ruined, I’d get another 10 weeks of denial immediately added as well as 10 weeks added to the date in February. It’s enough of a deterrent.
     
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    The spinner is an interesting random decision.

    In my case my Mistress/wife will tease even vibe me on my cage for her fun/pleasure. If I orgasm without permission, ruined or not, I "report" my failing to my KH. Since I am locked the vast majority of time, my KH will assign various punishments such as clamps on nipples and or balls for a give period monitored by Mistress.

    The more often I fail/violate...and I do from time to time...who can hold out forever ;),,, the punishments can get more intense and longer. Always a reminder for me.
     
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    The rare occurrences im edged Madam and I will use the 1-10. 1 being just hard, 10 being ejaculation. I have to tell madam once I pass a six, as if I’ve been very good she will take me up to a nine.
     
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    Yes she tells me a year but it would stick to the norm of 2 to 3 months, but I still abide because she could very well push that far. So I usually end up with a ruined heavy stream and 2 days later right back where she likes me.
     
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    Weirdly, just on Boxing day. I was cage edging with permission, and out of the blue she calls in from the bathroom.

    "If you have an accident it's 2 months"

    I nearly had an accident...

    Then thought about it some more, and...

    Came...

    To my senses... I think she meant it. It would be a doddle for her. Double for me.
     
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    No thank God my wife demands that I do cum
     
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    i have serious consequences if i make a "mistake" as we call it when i climax without Her permission (ruined or full).

    1) New Record: my next climax will automatically be longer than my previous longest chaste period, so i will have to set a new "record" before She'll even consider allowing me to climax again.

    2) Humiliation: Domina will have me report to one or two of Her Girlfriends who know about our FLR dynamic that i climaxed without Her permission. That is humbling indeed to see Them giggle and "tsk, tsk" me.

    3) Forfeiting a Future Climax: This was added this year from a suggestion by one of the other Superiors i serve. Domina has set a maximum number of climaxes for me for the year, and when i made a "mistake" in May by milking too far and going over the edge, She reduced my allowed climaxes for 2022 from 6 to 5. That one really hurt.

    4) Trust: i have given control of my sexual climaxes to Domina, so when i climax without Her permission, that trust is broken. It's not serious in a way to cause any real relationship issues for us, but it does take time and dedication to repair the FLR portion of our dynamic. It's a violation of the "game" we play, so like a technical foul or red card, takes time to repair.

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    Same. My biggest issue is she really likes seeing me cum, so the denial aspect is a difficult one...
     
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