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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    As of this weekend, it's been one year since I've had a traditional orgasm. I've had discharges while in my cage and being taken with a strap on by my beautiful wife/KH, but no unlocked orgasms. We celebrated with dinner, a very nice champagne (Laurent-Perrier Brut, NV) and a discussion of where we are in our sexual relationship. A little background: I've been locked more or less 24/7 for almost 4 years at this point, and I please her with my mouth/hands/toys most nights, much to both of our satisfaction.

    She came right to the point, and asked if I really even wanted a traditional orgasm, as opposed to being pegged. After some beating around the bush, I admitted that I'd come to enjoy pegging Then, the bombshell: "How would you feel if we were both taken by a man?"

    This one stopped me cold. After some discussion, I had to admit that I'd fantasized about that very thing. My beautiful wife/KH nodded and reminded me that she'd mentioned wanting real PIV from a man with a large cock for a while. We previously discussed it, and decided against it. Now, however, we both seemed to be considering the possibility of an additional sex partner, preferably a well-endowed male.

    We laughed and cuddled at that point, but the ice was broken. The idea of bringing in another sex partner was out in the open, and we both acknowledged our potential interest. I don't know where this will go from here, but I thought I'd share.

    It's ironic to look back at how vanilla we were 4 years ago. Now, my cock is pierced and locked in a cage, I wear female panties all the time, my legs and groin are shaved, and we are discussing the idea of inviting a man to f&%k us both. We've come a long way.
     
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    Life's a journey!
     
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    congratulations and good luck, if that's the road you decide to go down.
     
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    Congratulations on your milestone!
     
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    Congratulations on your milestone and in the exciting plans for the future.

    The kink journey does continually bring changes and challenges and good for you to be open to that.

    asa
     
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    It does seem like an amazing journey. But you also seem content with the progression your relationship has made. Change isn't always unsettling sometimes it is what we need. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    I once went 6 months and that was more or less forced on me. My other records are 40 to 60 days, but could never imagine a whole year. Congrads on a significant milestone!
     
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    Congratulations on reaching that milestone!!!! Nice work!

    And double congrats for her introducing the idea of another male for both of you!!! I hope things continue to progress for both of you in a direction you both find exciting. Hopefully this will help to build your already great relationship with your Loving Wife & KeyHolder and take you both to new heights of love and passion.

    Today marks Day 233 for me, and I've had no release of any kind during that time. My Lovely Wife and KeyHolder has mentioned she might let me out to have an orgasm for our 30th Anniversary (still over 200 days away!), but she is also hinting on denying my orgasms for a total of 1,000 days.

    Even at this point, I don't miss my orgasm at all, and if she said "I think this will be permanent for you.", I'd be OK with the idea. I think. As we are now, I share in her orgasms and enjoy them and get more pleasure from helping her have earth-shattering orgasms. I feel the same rush as she's coming as if it was myself, but the advantage is afterward, I'm still HORNY as heck and hold, massage, lick, kiss, etc. her all over after he orgasm. Back when I used to come, I'd usually just want to roll over and go to sleep. Now, SHE often does that, but that's OK. I helped her achieve OUR orgasm.

    She hasn't started pegging me yet, though I've suggested it a few times. I think she's talking herself into it. She also hasn't suggested yet that we find another real man to give her PIV. I frequently use large (well, much larger than me) dildos on her sweet pussy and tender ass. I enjoy filling her that way, and it just drives her wild....over the edge. She loves anal. I do hope that one of these days she might suggest another male join us. We did that before, back in our "swinging days", but since menopause, that desire seems to have faded away for her. But I can HOPE it makes a rebound.

    Again, congratulations. Keep us posted!

    ~subrick
     
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    Honestly and communication!
     
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    Thanks to all. So far so good. We'll have to see how it goes. If it's anything like our previous steps in this chastity journey, it won't happen right away, if at all. But I must admit it's been fun.
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    So far so good. Change can be scary, and it has been at times. We'll see.
     
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    The whole concept of "permanent" is interesting. It gets thrown around a lot here and elsewhere, usually related to a video of someone welding or super-gluing their cage in place. In reality, those of us here(at least the veterans) know that's not realistic for a variety of reasons. But it doesn't mean "permanent" isnt a real thing. I am pretty confident now that chastity is "permanent" for us, in the sense that we won't go back to vanilla sex, ever. I probably won't have a traditional orgasm or PIV again, either, as long as we're both living. To me, that's about as "permanent" as it gets.
     
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    a lot of sliding door keep you there
    Congratulations on reaching that milestone
     
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    Great question.
     
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    SubSnuggler Owned by Fiona with the Magical Velveteen Pussy

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    My and my Miss have been together a long time. She's in her 40's and she told me when she was 25 she wanted to see me with a boy, and she still fantasizes about that. She also wants me and a male partner to entertain her in a MMF scenario. Never done either, but she thinks about it! ;)
     
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