So today my wife sent me some sexy photos of her in some very nice lace panties and bra. All day I had the urge to masterbate. And no I wasn't wearing my cage. As some as I got.home from work I showered and locked myself up. And this is what I text my wife. I am hope that she understands and isn't mad or upset or any crazy feelings, but I know it was a lot to take in, and she will need to feel what she feels and process it. She knew I would use chastity for porn and masturbation addiction from my past. She does not know that I use it currently from time to time. What follows is what I sent her via text. So I have a confession to make. I've been looking at your pictures all day today. And I have really built up the urge to play with myself (which I have not). I have had addiction to porn and masturbation in the past and it's a very slippery slope for me. And more so I don't want to play with myself looking at pictures of you when I'd rather share that intimate moment with you rather than myself. So I decided to put one of my cages on to not allow myself to masturbate or I guess I should say orgasm with out you being there, being the person to make me orgasm, and or saying i can. I know you're probably thinking that I should have enough self control to not do that anyways with out the cage, and yes your right that is something I need to work up to and get better at. But for now if wearing a cage while I'm not with you helps me keep my self from masturbating for the time being than I think it's a positive thing. Again id much rather save that part of me for you and only you, rather than lessen my desire bc I played with myself. I desire only you and I want to only make that desire grow and become the strongest it can. I give my self to you. I give all of myself to you and only you. You control all of me to include my sex life, orgasms etc. Just like a commitment in marriage I commit myself to you this way as well which I hope will keep me addiction free, and being us closer together. I hope you understand and aren't upset or anything. I know that if I did masterbate especially if we're planning a weekend to ourselves I'd feel like I would have cheated you, us and our relationship. And that the last thing I want to do And I hope you don't stop sending me pictures. I love it when you do. And it really only makes me desire you more baby. And that's exactly what I want. So I am currently all locked up, and I will stay that way till you unlock me, because I am all yours, all aspects of me is yours alone baby. That's what I sent. I have not had a response yet. She is a nurse and works long shifts and deals with alot. I know this is something I should have had a face to face with conversation but I know I am a.much better communicator in writing than when the time comes to share and talk. Any advice or thoughts as to how I should proceed from here. Obviously the ball is in her court. And I will update this post as the situation develops.