Completely new and just told the wife!

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    Hello everyone I hope all is well. I have always had this fantasy. I just had the guts to tell my wife the other day (probably the hardest thing I have ever done.) I have always portrayed the tough guy image on the outside, but I had this fantasy I could not get off of my mind for years. She has never been the one to be the dom or controlling type whatsoever. I brought it up to her the night before she left for vacation. She instantly loved the thought of it “ I would have bought one before I left on vacation, and taken the key with me” her exact words. Like I said I am completely new to this. I hope I can share many more experiences with you guys in the future. Thanks for reading

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    You’d be surprised how much she may get into it... sounds like you’re in for a ride. :)
     
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    Welcome to CM!

    I don't even know you but I'm proud of you for having "the conversation". I know they can be difficult and it takes courage to do. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

    Awesome story and keep us updated as things progress.
     
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    Thank you so much! Telling the wife is not easy! There was so many emotions, the scariest part is not knowing how she will process the information. This may sound a bit corny, but I feel like there is a huge weight lifted off of my shoulders. As always thanks for reading!

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    You've done the right thing, keeping it a secret is not only harmful to your health but also to the health of your relationship.
    Congratulations for being so brave and for having a most loving wife that has a full understanding of your needs.
     
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    Thank you! Yes my wife is amazing. I feel like I am the luckiest guy in the world. We have been together for quite some time. Telling her this makes me feel so much closer to her. It’s an amazing feeling and I can not wait to see where it goes from here! Thanks for reading

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    Now that you are on the road, it is time to embark with us in this adventure, bring your wife and you two will be rewarded with the emotions of the FLR, be her sub and do your duties to please her.
     
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    I know exactly what you mean. I hope you have a wonderful time exploring chastity with your wife! You will be amazed at how much fun it is to focus on your wife's sexual pleasure whilst you remain locked and your orgasms are controlled by her! It truly is better to give than receive.
     
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    congratulations and welcome
     
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    +1 Like. Im all for open communication as it makes the relationship that much stronger or just emphasizes that it wasnt meant to be. In your case it sounds like the positive side of things. She might have been having secret fantasies of her own with how eager she seems. Youre going to love it! Just remember to keep the communication going. Once you experience things tell her what you liked and dont. This is key to actually making your fantasies come true.
     
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    Welcome to CM and I’m so happy your wife has taken to your desires so well! I’ve always believed open honest communication is best as well. I’ve been open and honest with my wife of 26 years about chastity for 2 years now. She’s definitely not been as into as yours but I know as we continue to communicate our feelings are known and she’s become more and more accepting of my desires. She has not fully taken to it but hasn’t said no either. So the dialogue continues and we try to find the happy medium. Good luck, welcome and please keep us updated.
     
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