College chastity

I'm a freshman in college, 19 at that, and am just getting into chastity with my boyfriend. We're actually working towards our first device; looking at the cb6000 actually. I believe that as time progresses, bdsm will progress further and further down the generations til it's reaching teens on a full-blown level. Whether that's a good or bad thing for irresponsible teens... only time can tell. But I can tell you that I'm proof of it trickling down the ages. Even at 14 and 15 I knew I loved bondage. While I refused to practice much, I adored the idea of it and had elaborate fantasies spelled out in hidden notebooks.

Concerning a group or outreach for people like us in college? I'd love one to have one. I sincerely doubt, and know for certain for a few of them, that nearly none of my friends would understand or accept our kinks like we'd wish. That's part of why I looked for a forum. I'm not bothered or lonely regarding this yet, but I know that in the future we probably will be, even if only slightly. It's nice to have a group that will understand and not criticize.​

 

Goddess surah

im proud of you

i think that you will do just fine with or with out the cb tho much better off with the cb.
Do both you an your bf pratice bdsm at all do you have any close frinds that may do so.

may i ask if you have or will have your bf wearing panties along with the cb once you get it
how long doyou plan on keeping him lock

yes more teens are getting into it and wish all teens were involved with someone else holding the key

 

Aw, thank you

We practice, yes. Nothing truly harmful. And our group of friends is, to say the least, an interesting bunch. One, we have a suspicion is a domme, but a rather abusive and manipulative one. She's incredibly disrespectful to myself, as well as my bf, and is really only in our group of friends because she's dating a close friend of ours. We respect her, and are 'political' friends if you will, but it goes not much further. We both believe though, that if we were to let our interests get out, she'd pull some awful dirty stunts. She already has attempted to when I'm not around my darling little slave, so I've unfortunately become increasingly possessive and protective when we're around her. Any of the others in our circle, aren't so much into it as we are looking to be. A few experiment with toys, but it's really very vanilla and they express no interest beyond.

I've been letting him remain free for the mean time though. Once we get the cb (hopefully within the next 2 months!) I want to let him adjust to it on his own time first before completely taking the keys. I'll probably set day limits, and let him out at night at first. That way it won't mess with his sleep (he works terribly long shifts.. and I worry about his sleep.) I'll then bump up to sleeping with it on his days off, and just keep increasing. I'll have to see where his breaking point is first though, before I truly set a schedule.

Afterall. I don't want to be too mean a Goddess... at first. ​

 

Goddess Surah

seems like you just may be keeping things to yourself.
Your bf must learn to sleep with it also i know you want to be nice but dont you think that after the break in period he can wear it for few days 24/7 an if things ok then full time.

Now this one overpowering so call girlfriend is she the type that would be rude enough that when you not around to grab his balls you know cat away mouse play type thing then it would be all over campus if she does,,,just something to think about also

being in chastity is nothing to be ashame about but then not all are into things that others like also i know that for fact.

 

I agree about the chastity. I'll know for sure once we have it though. Perhaps I am being too nice about the length of time... I'll have to ponder this some more. Ahhh this just makes me itch to get it more!

Regarding the other girl, she's very much the cat in that scenario. She's often tried to get him to come over to her place when he got off work when I was asleep in his bed waiting for him to come home. I remember a night very clearly when she decided to run a knife 'seductively' down the side of his leg. I just about jumped across the table over that one, save for the fact that I'm too nice a person in public to do something like that. So I'm afraid that for the time being, we're going to be quiet about our interests amongst our friends.​

 

Goddess Surah college chastity

yes i really do think that yo ushould after periof of time to get adjusted keep him lock 24/7

one you never have to worry about is he or is he not,never have to worry about that cat getting to him after work.

maybe she will tease him if she does try an finds she cant have him cause of it or tell everyone

but keep things quite of course allways best if you have a close gf want to tell thats ok
nere know who will find out who is interested

 

I'm 23 and in college full time. My boyfriend keeps me locked in my cb-6k. Until recently I was never locked more then a few days or even a week sometimes. However, hes been upset with me lately and has decided that I should stay locked up indefinitely.

I'm going on two weeks now and my hormones are going WILD! I'm so horny I could scream. I still give him oral sex and take care of him, but he just teases me and tells I have no chance of release for a long time.
Actually.. We have one locked without a key dubbed the "permanent lock" which was always just a fantasy. However, now he says I'll be going into perma-lockdown in the next day or two. I get so turned on by the idea of not being able to be unlocked I'm good we might cut the lock off in a few months. I'm so excited and nervous at the same time!

 

Haha, Yeah im 18. I love chastity. Even though sometimes its torture, but its mostly because of my exploring kinks. and I think this is my fav one yet hehe.

 

You all were very lucky to have someone to keep you chaste in college. I searched, but never found the right person to key hold.

 

Hi, thought that I would chime in.

I'm 28 and so is my girlfriend. I'm recently out of what could be considered college but really isn't because our educational systems works in different ways. Wasn't in chastity back then but the idea really turned me on and has done for a long time.

Last week I brought up the subject with my girlfriend, a dominant person both in and out of the bedroom. She'd been pressing me for some time about what really turns me on - I've never been good at talking about it, guess I've been suppressing my fantasies, never really enjoyed sex with my girlfriends all that much because I wanted just a tad more. Well, luckily, regular vanilla sex with her is amazing and the best I've ever had, which is sort of odd, considering my age, that I've been having "bad" sex for 13 years or so. When I met her I could instantly tell she was rather dominant, but I also learned quite quickly that she had no experience what so ever compared to me. So, recently, after about 6 months, I've begun caving in and telling her about all this stuff. Reluctant at first, afraid of what she'd say/think/feel. Happily she's all in, hence the chastity, which became a reality in the form of a curve this Thursday and a rather enthusiastic keyholder.

Anyway, "young" man here, with Ds/BDSM/etc experience since the age of 19. I agree with some of you in the thread, it's teh interwebs - that definetely made it easier for me to get my interests up (which were originally sparked by a documentary and some hardcore BDSM porn mags I found somewhere) and find people of a similar mindset, but never anyone I wanted to form a relationship with. Luckily, now, it seems, almost by accident, I have a very dominant girlfriend, that without prompt uses the words "BDSM" and "slave" - something that has been very very hard for me up until just last week. I am, for the first time in my life happy on all fronts in a relationship and it's all because of her unrelenting drilling into my "true" sexuality, which I'm pretty sure she sussed out the first time we met.

(god, I just can't keep my posts at an acceptable length)

 

I would say that I fall under this category as well. I did not start college until I was 26, but I am 27 now and my Mistress is 25. She has me locked up 24/7 and I can tell you the first day of going to class with my cb6000 was a rather self conscious day.

 

Ill be in university from September and ive been searching for a chastity Mistress/Ruler to really train me good and proper while in University and just exploit the situation that I'm into to the max.

I cant think of a more sexually charged thing then being locked up while in the experimental time of uni.

I've found it difficult to find a Mistress even though ive had a month lock up under my (chastity) belt and I own a very restrictive CB6000S



Any advice?

 

i'm 24 years old and in college over here as well though its a phd program now. i've started playing with chastity last year but mostly its just with myself as i can't convince my girlfriend to take complete control over my penis. for right now, she just holds the keys but basically unlocks me before bedtime so i'm never in chastity for more than a day.

 

Say what Uni your're in..you never know there may be someone there on this site...else try e.g. 'keyholderfinder'.

If you want to think laterally, you could be a bit short of cash at Uni...have you thought of a small loan agreement, say over three years, with security where it matters down there, so no chance of sex till you graduate and redeem...?

 

Regarding finding a keyholder, another option is to look in Fetlife for a TNG (The Next Generation) group near you. There are certainly a few in the colleges near me. They restrict membership for people 18-35, to try and limit the creep-out factor of going to a munch and meeting people your parent's age. :lol: Oh wait.. that would be MY age. :blink:

mikecb

 

My boy and I are both college students as well. I learned of his interest in chastity several months ago and we recently bought a cheap device... sadly it fit him poorly, so we've been unable to keep up any sort of regime. We still very much like the idea of chastity, though, which is why I'm here. (We've started saving up for a CB-6000S.) Nice to see some fellow collegiates here!

 

I love this topic! Sadly, I'm way out of college, yet this discussion fuels memories of being in college and having decidedly kinky thoughts and experiences. I can only imagine what it would have been like to be locked up at that age. Talk about wonderfully frustrating! And the games that can be played... like how about the GPA game? You have to keep your grade point average up if you expect to be released after finals. LOL! So to all you college students out there having chastity fun, I say good on you! Have fun with it!

 

I'm 19 and in college too. Working on a MBA in Crime Scene Investigation. Ive been kinky all my life, and recently my girlfriend, who IS the Dom, no questions asked, made me buy a cb3000. Im getting used to it, the only problem is I have to be able to keep a key, as I am a firefighter, and crawling around on the floor with it on could be bad, but I dont unlock myself unless we have a call at the fire dept. or once a week for cleaning. I am saving for the 6000s cage, as 1. I am able to pull out, and it looks like the s cage would help, and 2. I am an average size guy* when hard, but when soft, not so much, so it would help at urnils.

*well, girl. My Mistress recently asked me if I wanted to go sissy full time. My answer was H*LL YES! So now she calls me her baby girl, her slut, and my new name, Sarah.

 

im not in college, been working full time, but my one friend has had me wearing a cage since just after my 18th b-day, now 2 1/2 years later, ive only been let out to have an orgasm maybe 6 times, right now its been 6 months to the day since my last cum

 

I'm so jealous. I'm 21 but I don't know where I would find a girlfriend who is interested in a Female lead relationship.

 

If you are just looking for a dom, try looking online.

 

Im 19 and currently in college. I had a cb6000 when I was 18 but it cracked within a year. So im saving up for a mature metal.

Just wanted to share

 

I'm in college and into chastity haha. It really is hard to find someone else near by that is too, though

 

what chasttiy device do you wear
how come you wish to be in chastity at such young age

me i wish when i was in college i know of chastity i would glad to be lock them

 

any special reason that at 18 you wanted to be lock