Anyone been chatting to another member on here and the member abruptly stops chatting: not even a goodbye, or I've got to go now? What do you think may be the reason?
Boring conversation, not being included, one way conversation, topic becomes consistent and not one they like, using phone and quickly had to run, someone else arrived that they don’t get along with, wife suddenly got home and doesn’t approve that’s just off the top of my head
People don't want to chat and need to find out how to end the chat function. It took me two days to figure it out, I was not interested in chatting with anyone.
Wouldn't know how to start chatting let alone stop! I don't think I'd know what to say either! My typing is also very slow indeed! Not exactly something I could ask my daughter to show me either!
was it in the big chatroom or the little chat where you just chat to one. if it the big one then a lot of folks in there just go in and dont chat and just look. if it the little one then I dont know but anything migt have happen. might wanted to go quick to the loo.
The little chat (one to one) and most of the time they initiated the chat. I suspect they were masturbating and once they have cum they have lost interest. Or maybe they lack basic manners.
Maybe they weren’t supposed to be “chatting” in the first place and their significant other came home so they closed it out quick? Or maybe they were spanking it and they finished and thus had no further need for the chat stimulation and closed it out with that all too familiar Feeling of guilt that often follows a wank session? Or they have really shitty internet!
I always try to say goodbye when I chat in either big room or one-on-one. Many times I have to leave quickly, due to many of the reasons above, including going to the loo - lol. Often it is simply My Lady or Misses calling for me. Try not to take it personally, as CM members have a whole range of society skills, similar to the real world. I always feel special when someone asks if we can chat. Much like someone at a bar striking up a conversation. just try to get positives from it.
Chat etiquette might not (and I have to believe you, as I wouldn't have guessed that), but politeness does for sure! This isn't about the need to explain the Heisenberg indeterminacy principle before leaving, but just about some "bye" "n8" or such!
If I am chatting on the computer, and my wife comes into the room and starts speaking to me, politeness requires me to pay attention to her. I don't tell her "Please be quiet for a moment, dear, while i text a few more words." That would be stupid.
Dam , i was just that person , with bad internet and no good bye, really it cut out, , But i consider myself mannered. though , i just say we should all take it lightly , but yes its manners, when eye contact is not their it changes everything , thats why blogs can go wrong ......
I rarely initiate chats, but lately have been approached several times. In two cases the approach amounted to "I want to use you as wanking material," and in one case they expected me to carry the conversation. No thanks. Mom. I strongly suspect it's usually mom who comes home and interrupts the "chatting."
It's common practice to be approached by male subs who have talked for hours and promised the earth, then they disappear. Some have even turned up 2 years later and carried on the conversation like nothing happened.
It's incredibly sad that in our hysterical society one should even feel the impulse to say that. Unfortunately, being even slightly misunderstood on one of the points of hysteria could mean the end of one's reputation, livelihood, social connections, family, and freedom. Seems reasonable. An off-hand joke about 30-year-olds living in mom's basement can, sadly, be ruinous. I'll see if I can correct it and be smarter about how I phrase jokes in the future. <joke about Catholic priests deleted> <joke about 40-year-olds STILL living with mom deleted> <joke about local Attorney General deleted>
You didn't say 30yo, even if you were thinking it. And it's perfectly reasonable for someone to close down their chat quickly if their parent, or their child, or their housemate comes into the room.
Um... yeah. Exactly. Thus the desire to correct the oversight. Had I been explicit about that point, would there be an issue that I needed to correct? Did I in any way indicate that it was not reasonable?