Chastity & WFH Masturbation Issues

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    rings are usually measured by diameter. If your circumference is 4” then the diameter is 1.27” or 32mm which is super small. Take a zip tie and cinch it around your balls and penis, close to the body. Make it slightly snug and cut off excess. Wear for a few hours to make sure it’s not too tight. Use some small wire snips and cut the zip tie then measure it for circumference. From there it’s just calculating diameter.
     
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    No, I mean a diameter of almost 4" i can stretch a 2" hair tie around but it pops off so maybe with a tight fitting solid metal ring it would be in the 3" area. I dont know.
    Im a very big guy.
    Im 6'5" and about 300lbs. Think NFL lineman.
    I will try your zip tie method I like that idea.
     
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    I am like Johnny1 above. I was home during the week while wife was at work. I started locking up in the mornings and removing it after she got home. I got way more done during the day. We did this for over 2 years and I was rarely not locked when she was gone. Surprising how much time we waste "playing".
     
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    I tried a few knock offs from ebay and amazon on husband (then boyfriend) before settling on the CB-6000 with an anti pullout device. Once I'd settled on that, I bought the real thing for husband. I did try a few others. There was one knock off on ebay that was obviously inspired from the CB series, but it had a different ring you could adjust. Husband couldn't pull out of it. Unfortunately, it wasn't put together too well so it came apart eventually..

    I tell people to start by trying the knock offs just to see if Chastity is going to work for you and to see what cages work best for you. Once you find one you like, get the real thing. The knockoffs aren't made real well. They could break and if the wrong thing breaks, there could be injury.
     
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    You may want to have her instal parental controls on you computers to keep you away from porn when she isn’t home. Bad Ass Workroom also makes high quality and affordable custom devices after you figure out your size.
     
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    Sounds familiar :D
     
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    Good advice. i am kept in a BAWR titanium custom device (see pic in my second album). If you are kept 24/7, you will want an open design (like a bird cage design) for easy hygiene (without removing cage) and don't be afraid to spend as much as you can afford once you have all the measurements sorted out and finalized. my Wife told me to spend what ever it takes to be as comfortable as possible as She wants me to want to wear it always. She does not want ANY negativity in any way when it comes to being in kept on the cage. She does not use chastity as a punishment, EVER.
    Hope original poster gets it figured out as i know they will both be very happy with long term locking, if they choose.
     
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    Yes, Chastity devices do cut down on masterbation very effectively. The do not, however, take your mind off sex and porn. On the contrary, for me. I find myself viewing porn about as much as i used to waste time on youtube etc. way more than i did when i would just watch a bit of porn for a wank before bed.

    But its a different experience watching for the lust of it and not doing anything about it. You notice things, and appreciate aspects of the performance that you did not notice before. Like, for instance, I never noticed how skilled some actresses are at blowjobs, with small motions of the jaw and subtle head bobs to enhance the experience for their partner. not just a hole to be used roughly.

    When you introduce your SO into the mix as keyholder, you will probably not have a willpower issue staying locked. it was hard for me at first as a self locker. when a week might as well be a million years. Now that ive done more than 4 months at once, i laugh at my former struggles and feel like i could wear the thing forever.

    Just get the fit right and your good.
     
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    I'm curious and perhaps a little nervous; what's the "dreaded KTB?"
     
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    KTB = Kali's Teeth Bracelet. Be afraid, be VERY afraid.
     
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    This seems very scary but effective at preventing any inappropriate response. We just ordered one for my own training. Thank you for pointing us to this device.
     
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    I have WFH for the last 15 years. For me chastity devices don't cut down on masturbation per se. There are still many things I can do with it on, It's just that there is no fulfilling erection and satisfaction of stroking. Which presents different level of frustration. It's still a mental exercise to keep the hand away.
     
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    This is Iz. Thank you for pointing us to KTB. Just now, I caught Geoffrey watching porn outside of our agreement. I took off his cage and locked on the KTB. I'm thinking this lasts 24 hours. Is that too long?
     
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    Yikes, 24hrs sounds rough, I'm sure he'll get the point throughout the day enough to learn his lesson.
     
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    This particular punishment is rough for me. I generally like pain, so there’s a bit of a feedback loop. To make it worse, she said that if I want to watch porn then I have to watch it mow.
     
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    I think he'll get multiple points throughout the day, lol.
     
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    I survived, even with the "aversion therapy" of being forced to watch porn while wearing the KTB. For anyone else who is thinking of "straying," 24 hours is a long time.
     
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    a great solution!
     
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