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    Hi All chastity lovers

    i remember seeing a simple strap tie around the waist to keep cage up. i searched on eaby and amazon but could not find it at all.

    wondering if any one has the link or the key word to search on internet?

    Thanks for all inputs.

    Y
     
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    I have a Kinklab harness that I use for my homemade devices and am currently working on adapting it for my permanent chastity device. The side buckles can be bothersome under pants, I pull them up above my belt.
    There is a photo of it in my gallery.
     
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    What are you doing to adapt it? From the pictures, it appears to be leather. I would definitely want a waterproof material so you don't have to take it off to shower. I would also want the base ring locked or permanently attached to the harness so it can't be removed without detection.
     
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    That was my earlier experimention with chastity, and it isn't lockable. I ordered another Chinese knockoff device but it's been severely delayed with this Covid19 pandemic. My thought was to drill out the lock hole and run lockable hardware and replace the snaps on harness with permanent fasteners.
    A waterproof version made of rubber would be great. Maybe I can use this one as a template for a waterproof version. While I am now in permanent chastity, I wear this harness more as a decorative piece rather than a permanent chastity device.
     
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    Would you mind giving me an @ if you find something relatively cheap. I'm curious about this as it may help with night issues.

    Thanks.
     
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    A rubber (waterproof) belt for my mm jailbird is something I've been searching for without any luck. The main problem with just getting a leather harness is the jb's locking position of 12 o'clock, requiring a strap connecting to the base ring on either side. Has anyone seen such a rubber harness?
     
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    I've tried many materials, including leather, rubber, plastic, coated cables, tubing, and rope. All the plastic or rubber straps trapped moisture and sweat, and the natural materials didn't handle the moisture well (developed a mildew smell).

    For the last couple of years I've been using 550 paracord on my jailbird 24/7, and have been completely happy with it. My current strap has only come off for a couple of hours in the last 14 months or so, and is holding up great despite daily showers, exercise, yardwork, etc... The secret is to buy 100% nylon paracord (MIL-C-5040) instead of the cheaper polyester cord. The nylon dries quickly and doesn't smell bad.

    I use an adjustable knot to set the tension and ride height of the cage throughout the day, you can see what that looks like and how to tie the knot in my gallery.

    Good luck, I hope whatever you end up works well for you.
     
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    Thanks, that looks like just the thing I've been looking for. Does the webbing fit comfortably against the scrotum?
     
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    Thanks for the tip. It's an oddly overlooked accessory considering how popular chastity has become.
     
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    theres 3 snaps

    one on the bottom, two for the sides

    so the scrotum should hang over the ring with some contact with the strap. Ive found a little electrical tape covering the strap fixes the problem

    but if you have any allergies or easily irritated by some fabrics, do some research to see if its safe

    I havent had any problems

    if your worried about the 'thong' aspect, its not too uncomfortable, but to get used to it, wear some briefs, pull the cage thru the front hole part, then attach the strap

    you can get used to the fabric and tightness without irritation

    plus it wont be directly touching your asshole and stays cleaner
     
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    It seems like you've covered all possible issues. I've just ordered one. Thanks again.
     
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    I think it's all down to body type. Some of us benefit greatly from a waistband/strap, others don't need one at all.

    I really like the ability to adjust mine high and tight to the body for bed, lower for wearing pants (lays more flat in the front), and very loose and pointed down for using the toilet. A non-adjustabe trap doesn't give that level of flexability.
     
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    Right now I'm using a leather harness I've McGyvered to suit my needs except for showering. You can see it's evolution in some of my photos.
     
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    I really like the dog tags in several of your photos!
     
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    its possible there are better ones out there, so keep searching
     
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    Thanks. They say my name, In Chastity Since 01-01-09, Private Property
     
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    what?

    sorry, Im new here. dont know if thats code for something
     
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    It's the date My wife said no to ever having sex again.
     
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    So I was in chastity before I'd heard of it.
     
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    no sex since 09?

    what about releases? I dont mean being let out the cage
     
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    Initially I felt free to masturbate whenever, then discovered locking and did trial and error with different cages, my wife recently agreed to participate as kh and it's been decided (mostly by her) that Other than for hygene and any time it should become necessary, I remain locked. As for release, that's at her discretion under whatevr rules she comes up with. Last time she had a random timer whose alarm was set to go off anywhere up to 15 minutes. I started when told to and stopped when the alarm sounded. To her amusement it went off after 6 seconds. Had to lock up right away very frustrated.
     
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    I've been locked steady now for 200+ days.
     
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    In that time, no releases. Submission.
     
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    200 days is insane

    my personal record is 2 weeks on my own, Im locked in a Nub now

    2 months forced, but still had some weekly drainings
     
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