I am not sure how to phrase this without probably offending a large proportion of the members here, but here goes anyway. I am submissive, and my greastest wish is to be able to give up control and ownership of my cock and orgasms to a Mistress, hence the chastity fantasy. But I hadn't realised until I came here that it seems that most men that are in or want chasity also crave sissyfying as well, which is the one thing that does not push any buttons for me at all. Is there a link here and I am just an exception, or is it more a coincidence that the two aspects of submission occur together more than the average? I would like to add that I am not knocking feminising as I am a great believer in you should do whatever floats your boat. Hagan
i have been a slave for over 2 years now. neither Mistress nor i have any interest in feminization. i think you either need to have an interest in it or you get into the humiliation aspect of it.
Hi Hagan You are not alone, it is just the sissies here look a lot nicer than naked slaves, and they have a lot more to assorise with, so there are lot more photos and chat! My Mistress oocasionally has me wear panties to remind me of my place, but she isn't into feminisation and neither am I. We are more into chasitity, orgasm control and making sure I understand that she is in control at all times. Nice to hear from another man slave! Regards, Richard
It’s a question asked many times before. Here are a few previous posts that may help you understand a bit more. You should never be afraid to ask or offend. Hope these help. http://www.chastitymansion.com/forum/showthread.php?t=615 http://www.chastitymansion.com/forum/showthread.php?t=826 http://www.chastitymansion.com/forum/showthread.php?t=441
Thanks SlaveKris, I apologise for being lazy in the first place and not searching those threads out for myself, but they certainly covered the subject well and gave me a lot to think about and maybe some little reassurance to. n
No problem it’s only because I could remember there being a few post that I found them. Glad to be of assistance.
Hagan, it's not possible to be in the *wrong* place here... we are all very different in our views on chastity, punishment, discipline, feminization, and we (usually) all agree to disagree! You will notice I have posted in all 3 of the threads kris found for you, and you may also notice that none of my 3 answers is identical!!!! :animal0017: It's one of those things you may never consider, or you may wind up getting into! Who cares... life is too short, do what you like and ditch what you don't! Enjoy :animal0008:
Hello and thank you Mistress Watchful, I have only been here a few days but I like the welcoming and unjudging astmosphere very much.
Hello hagen and welcome to the site. As has been stated...everyone is different and have different interests so never feel you are in the 'wrong' place. My hubbie pet is not a sissy, yet he loves wearing My panties so I threw out all of his male underware LOL He says it makes him feel close to Me and it is very erotic for him. So....to each his own. Have fun, thats all that matters!!! Mistress Michelle :sex020:
Same, Mistress has me wear panties, and a little lingerie thing for when she has me cleaning like a maid, but neither of us are into feminization or me being a “true sissy”. The panties humiliate me, and keep me feeling like her little bitch. I actually don’t mind them, once I’ve been wearing them for hours, but I would never choose that myself. She knows this and uses it against me to bend me to her will and keep me in my place
I see you let me know these things a lot. It is ok, the posts were interesting, and maybe we’ll continue the conversation with others…just not the OP.