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    #1 Knightnight89, Jun 8, 2016
    Hi there,
    I'm new to chastity, but not to the BDSM scene. A friend of mine(and current keyholder) put me on to the site.
    Looking forward to getting to know this new interesting world of people :)
     
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    #2 Mistress Jules, Jun 8, 2016
    Welcome to the Mansion, I am sure you will have fun as you learn all about what is possible.
     
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    #3 Knightnight89, Jun 8, 2016
    Thanks for the warm welcome. I'm very eager to learn
     
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    #4 lockit, Jun 8, 2016
    Welcome to the Mansion
     
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    #5 DonnaSue, Jun 9, 2016
    Welcome, Knightnight, to CM! I trust that you will find it to be informative and enjoyable. Please share your experiences with us.

    I'm happy to see another sub with BDSM interests! Although I have been feminized over the years and quite enjoy the sissy side of things, my yearning for BDSM remains and I'm always hoping that Mistress will include some BDSM activities in her search for ways to control and to torment me. She has recently included some CBT activities and, while they are somewhat painful, I'm trying to keep my mouth shut and to see what evolves. (I must use caution there as "topping from the bottom" is a strict no-no in our relationship and results in me wearing the dreaded KTB for a time!)
     
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    #6 Knightnight89, Jun 9, 2016
    Hi DonnaSue, thanks for the welcome. Currently on day 5 of my lock up. I'm getting increasingly more comfortable with having my cage on (Bon4M) despite it being to large for me (girth is fine, just having issues with the length). If I'm good I will be getting released on Saturday.

    I'm a huge fan of CBT but alas do not have much experience with that either. I love to practice it on myself, but have yet to find someone to take control of that for me.
     
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    #7 DonnaSue, Jun 9, 2016
    I got my first BDSM exposure with a pro domme about 20 years ago and have always dreamed about it. There are some aspects of BDSM that I don't enjoy, but some that I relish. The trick is to suggest them to Mistress very carefully through discussion so that acting them out becomes her idea of a fun way to torment me. While technically it would be considered by some to be topping from the bottom, I figure that, if it becomes her idea without me openly begging for it, then it's just the result of good communication in the relationship!
     
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    #8 Knightnight89, Jun 9, 2016
    That sounds like great advice, thanks :)
     
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    #9 jemima, Jun 9, 2016
    hello @Knightnight89 welcome to here and i hope that you like it.
     
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    #10 HollyC, Jun 9, 2016
    Welcome to our mansion @Knightnight89 - bravo for giving enforced chastity a go :)
     
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    #11 jshackleton2016, Jun 9, 2016
    Welcome! i hope you get as much out of this form as I have. Best wishes!!
     
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    #12 Knightnight89, Jun 10, 2016
    Thanks everyone. I'm coming up to my first release date tomorrow, meaning 6 days in chastity. Next stint I'll be testing a smaller base ring size, for a longer period of time.
    I'm really excited about getting out. I've been like a tap with how excited I've been getting the past couple of days. I can only imagine how longer lock up sessions will do to me
     
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    #13 Bound4life, Jun 10, 2016
    Welcome to the mansion, it is a great place. Hope you find all that you want on here. I would be interested to hear the story behind your friend (keyholder) mentioning this site to you and how you first brought it up.
     
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