I am not sure if this is an appropriate question to ask on this forum but I am curious to know if anyone has any suggestions for a professional mistress in the NY area who has a specialty in chastity play, tease and denial. On a bet with an ex-girlfriend, I have been self denying for almost week with three times daily edging sessions but am frankly loosing control and the need to ejaculate is approaching desperation. For the first few days I could calm back down in a few minutes, but now I am hard for hours afterwards and need a bag of ice to get flacid again. I am leaking pre-cum seemingly all the time, and cumming is all I think about. I am hoping with the hope of a few sessions with a local pro-dom I can achieve my goal of going from masturbating 2x per day to a 14 days of no release. Thank you for your help. I am quivering as I write this, I can barely take it, I have never felt such aching desperation but yet need contact with a professional even though I know it will only make things worse.