Chastity Mistress in NYC? Help State of desperation

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    I am not sure if this is an appropriate question to ask on this forum but I am curious to know if anyone has any suggestions for a professional mistress in the NY area who has a specialty in chastity play, tease and denial. On a bet with an ex-girlfriend, I have been self denying for almost week with three times daily edging sessions but am frankly loosing control and the need to ejaculate is approaching desperation. For the first few days I could calm back down in a few minutes, but now I am hard for hours afterwards and need a bag of ice to get flacid again. I am leaking pre-cum seemingly all the time, and cumming is all I think about. I am hoping with the hope of a few sessions with a local pro-dom I can achieve my goal of going from masturbating 2x per day to a 14 days of no release.
    Thank you for your help. I am quivering as I write this, I can barely take it, I have never felt such aching desperation but yet need contact with a professional even though I know it will only make things worse.
     
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    Hello chet,

    welcome to the forum and yes, this is definitely the right place to ask questions regarding chastity. I am sure there are more subs with the same problem.

    As i use to say, chastity starts in your mind, not between your legs. I am not sure whether a whole week of denial with 3 edging sessions daily is the right start for you. May be a day is enough for a start and from there the time of chastity can be increased over a long period of time. Try to take your mind off chastity while the device is locked on you.
    I know, new things are always fascinating by with a bit of patience you will get used to be denied and even if your desperation will not vanish completely, it will become bearable.

    Good luck

    maid katrin
     
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    Wow - you really have jumped in at the deep end!

    I can't offer much help from the male point of view, but welcome to the site. Hopefully more subs will be along shortly to help you in your dilemma.
     
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    aching desperation...

    Oh - I do like the sound of that. What a wonderful state to be put into to. I would imagine at his point you would agree to almost anything to be allowed release and relief... And isn't that the point? To have your aching desperation put to good use? What isn't clear to Me is what the goal is - in your case...

    Welcome to the Mansion and enjoy your time here.

    As for a pro domme - I have no clue. But I suggest googling for it - you'll find many I think. I'm just not sure it will be an experience you will be happy with afterwards. But do let us know....
     
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    Thanks!

    Thanks for all the comments! This is so much harder than I expected. My ex and I who are still "friends w/ benefits" I guess would be the phrase and is my partner in this, just left. She had been traveling so the today was the first time she really saw the effect it has had first hand. We Looked on line and think we found some good pro dom possibilities, but still open to any additional references. But I think you are right, 14 days might have been too aggressive a goal.
    She has offered to let me out of the challenge or shorten it, but I am going to try to make it, though it is really minute by minute at this point.
    She is enjoying my distress more than she thought. Tonight was the biggest challenge yet. We spent the afternoon at a strip club. She took great pride in telling the dancers of my perdicament and the dancers were surprised and felt bad for me but ultimately showed no mercy. They all agreed that they thhemselves could not go 24 hours without an orgasm, and to prove the point one orgasmed using the belt for stimulation.
    Following that, it was back to my house for several "free hours" The goal was to "edge" 25 times but after about 15 it was clear that I just wouldn't make it. After a shower (together so I could be well supervised) and about 15 minutes of ice time it was back in he cage. After spending the past 2 hours satisfying her orally and otherwise the ordeal for this evening is over but I am not sure how I will get to sleep. I swear my actual sac is twice its normal size and I have tried in vein to orgasm through stimulating my balls alone. My final instructions for the evening is this post which is supposed to request devilish techniques for increasing the state of my frustration even further figuring that you all are the experts and not to turn off the porn video she left playing in my bedroom. So, with reluctance, I ask for abusive techniques to make this experience even more frustrating. I would ask only that you go easy. thanks again.
     
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