Chastity makes me submissive

I am the same totally different feeling when wearing the cage. I think it has to be a mental thought that when you are caged and it is wanted by your Mistress you have no choice and there is nothing you can do about it, certainly you can't play with your self and I think this just makes you even more desperate and horny. I bit like the excitement when she locks the cage the buzz it gives you in that moment.
Mentally you have lost the power and control to your partner and deep down even in a week or month if your Mistress does not let you out, you know you will be a horny mess so this definitely plays on my mind when locked.
A bit like if your Mistress says lovingly I want you to be locked for the rest of your life and wants to make it permenant it makes me hard in my little cage. All in the mind but that's what makes it work.

 

I don't need a chastity cage to obey my wife. I am on the honor system.

 

Being locked by your wife especially when she wants it and makes you wear it. It's special and there is nothing like it. And if my wife laughs and enjoys my pathetic position and teases me, that's the epitome of being locked for me

 

I agree!

 

I agree, I can't explain why but when not wearing the cage I don't feel at all submissive. I guess it's because I can take matters into my own hands so to speak. When locked I know that not being obedient and bad behavior will lead to lack of rewards. My wife doesn't punish me actively, she just interrupts sensual play if I don't obey. As a result now I'm doing most of the chores (she still waters the plants and cooks meals often) and walking the dog 75% of the time.

It's kinda crazy how it works, now it is a turn on to obey, especially when it's been some time since the last orgasm.

 

My partner introduced me to chastity, and she always says I'm a totally different person. A lot more submissive.
She also says that pegging helps with the submissiveness.

And if I'm not in chastity for a long time, I tend to be dominant again.

 

Having the cage definitely, helps being submissive, you do as your told if you want to get out.

 

I'm a submissive. I stated a short time ago and am being gradually led into the submissive world. Last week I was put in a cock cage by my mistress. It's a steel cage. The other day I was told I'd have to wear panties with the cage. I started with nylon briefs and it works well. Problem though is I find wearing pantyhose while caged doesn't work to well so I asked mistress if I could try a garter belt and stockings. That will be tonight I'll know soon enough how that works.

 

This is fascinating to me. I am on the honor system and am always horny because of long periods of denial, and that generally keeps me submissive. However, that alone is not sufficient to maintain strong feelings of submission. My wife will have me do corner time and will also use me as a footstool regularly. Little things like that keep me in submissive mode. If she stops doing those things my submissive feelings begin to subside.

 

chastity and feminisation makes me submissive

 

My mistress uses ankle and wrist cuffs on me, either leather and locked or conventional cuffs and shackles. I'm on a leash a lot even when we go out. I like to wear nylons so if I'm caged I get to wear a garter belt and if not it's often pantyhose. Leather shakes are better if you aren't wearing stocking or pantyhose that way the nylons won't get torn

 

The cage definitely helps me stay more submissive, in the past when my Wife allowed me a few days of freedom I’d start to get too penis focused and not as attentive to my Wife’s wants and needs.
I’ve noticed my freedom has disappeared this past year

 

Yea I am the same way. I dunno, it's male psychology. It's the draw and attraction to this whole male chastity cock cage game. Just go with it.

Why is it this way? Because you agreed to give up control of your genitals and orgasms to your woman. You know how they say men think with their dick? Well now we know for sure.

 

In the long run to really transition to a FLR with obedience 24x7x365 for life this is probably the better way. No toy prop needed. But that's a tall order for most couples to work thru male assertiveness and get him to be submissive without caging. Requires a patient woman.