First time posting on this site. Have been locked in chastity 24/7 since November '20 by my Wife who is my Keyholder. Excited to be coming up on 1 year in chastity. Had a question for the group to see how their Keyholder handles temporary releases for cleaning, etc. I am released for 15-20 minutes typically on every Friday in order to clean my cage and shave my genitals. I am expected to allow her to lock me back up immediately after I shower. My Keyholder still enjoys sex and has been gracious during the week with releasing me for her pleasure with the understanding that I comply with being locked back up after sex. For those of you with an actual Keyholder, how often are you released for hygiene, shaving etc and what is the re-locking process like? Also, I have experienced the greatest difficulty with being locked up after orgasm What tips or tricks do those of you in the group have for overcoming this? Thanks
Firstly welcome. My wife and I shower together every day so I get a daily caged wash, and then I’m released every 7 days for a full cleansing which she will do, very thoroughly, as I’m only allowed to touch myself to shave. When we’re finished she will either tell me to stay unlocked if she wants to use me, or if she says nothing then I know to lock back up before leaving the bathroom. If the latter then my wife expects me to come to her after leaving the bathroom, stand in front of her and place her key on its chain back around her neck then show me her locked property to make sure I’m nice and smooth and properly secure. Re locking up after being used for sex, I always have to go straight back into my cage, especially if she’s allowed me to cum. She will allow me some cuddle time and then she will go to the bathroom run some warm water in the basin, then when she calls I have to go to her and she will gently wash me while all the time quietly telling me what a good boy I’ve been. Then when I’m dry I have to lock back up again. It’s not easy mentally of course, but I know it’s for the best as I never suffer from the post orgasm blues, and I know that the next morning my wife will be happy to see a full cage after teasing!
I am also having my chastity anniversary on November... the 16th to be exact I am am out for a couple of mins once a month for clean and check...been in a MM jailbird it never really needs a clean but the check is always a good thing I think lol