I’m married... locked 24/7 this spring has been crazy... random women have been flirting with me daily... a female co-worker slapped my ass when I was bent over (totally inappropriate but that’s another story) I’m convinced since I’m so full of sperm and don’t masturbate, women pick up on pheromones... the biological need to reproduce and they approach me on a subconscious level The female attention is killing me, to the point I’m dressing like I’m poor but that’s still not solving the problem
Since I have been locked in my cage. 1 year this Aug. (95% of the time). I have noticed this also. It felt like my Wife(KH) had set these women up to come and flirt with me.(She hadn't), but it seemed that way. I also have noticed that I find all women very attractive too and feel like I should drop to my knees and kiss their feet or submit to them.
Is it that women feel less threatened on an instinctive level by guys that subconsciously are not trying to pull every woman they meet ..... if only because there is no point. Not feeling threatened by such guys do some women then feel more comfortable with them. Which raises the question for them if I feel so comfortable with him WHY is apparently not interested. Which in turn may possibly generate behaviour by her to encourage thim into showing interest just to appease her own ego Never let it be said that people generally are not complicated and women, it would seem, are even more so.
I think this is spot on, I’m not sure being full of sperm affects your pheromones, I think that a prolonged high state of Arousal might, But I definitely agree with filltee, A few months a female co worker was completing about her back, and saying she needed a massage, I mentioned that I always give my wife a good massage, and she asked me to massage her, She said it was the best massage she had ever had, and pointed out her husband would one do it for a few mins at most before he tried it on, she told another co worker, and another, and another, now I have a queue of women wanting back, neck and shoulder massages!
Oh my! Well maybe I don't give off pheromones anymore as I was snipped years ago so no more sperm! Mind you I'm so bloody daft I wouldn't know if a woman was coming on to me or not! Apparently (according to Mrs Chaste) I am still very attractive to other women! Not sure if I quite believe it though. I've never been a "ladies man" even in my youth. I was very fortunate indeed to find Mrs Chaste and have never wanted another!
For me chastity increases my awareness of needing to be courteous to women in general. I don't think it changes the way I find certain women attractive, but it does raise even higher than normal my desire to serve Miss A.
I can't say I've noticed any more attention from other women towards me when in chastity. I'm not the kind of guy who ever got much attention anyway from women: I'm thankful I've got my Wife
Being caged naturally makes me more aware of women, their mannerisms, and how they treat me. That can be very sexy in itself. Also, there are several women who know that I am caged (Mostly SA's at Lane Bryant) and it seems that such knowledge makes them "let down their defenses", as if all men were out to attack them. Hose women treat me so friendlier and nicer than the general population. I think there are several things that may be going on that make you feel that women are flirting with you. Do any of them know (or have suspicions) about your being in chastity?
Many of Miss A's female friends know I am caged, but I don't think that necessarily changes how they respond to me. I think it is more about whether you listen, are polite, make them laugh, and generally are pleasant company.
Nobody would know I’m locked or have the slightest idea... I’m 6’3 240 and hit the gym regularly... before I met my wife and played with chastity meeting ladies was never a problem It’s hot as fuck when she gets bossy since she’s half my size... thats another topic Since my wife and I started doing 24-7 I’ve noticed an uptick in attention... women check me out everywhere, like I’m a piece of meat... Random women chat me up everywhere 24-7 has cocided with a Marrage eight months ago.. and I’m not sleeping on the fact the wedding ring on my finger might be the draw
I find this phenomenon very curious! Pheromones, better manners, attentiveness, desperation...maybe all factors? @Ma’ams Slut
46 days in without orgasm, I find the exact same thing happening to me. I’m finding most all women I see so attractive and feeling so submissive inside knowing I would probably kneel if ordered.
I suspect this is the case. I am transgender and prescribed hormone treatment. I recently had my second dosage increase (most endocrinologists will ramp you up over time) and my testosterone level had significantly dropped and my estrogen level has jumped. It’s now quite difficult for me to get an erection (which is great, I hate them) and my interest in anything sexual is quite low. If I want anything it’s just to cuddle. And yet in recent weeks I have noticed women being unusually friendly to me. Also finding that I find them looking at me more. You know how if you are admiring a woman and you look for even a few seconds they will turn their head and look at you, even if you are directly behind them where they couldn’t possibly know you are looking at them? Well, that’s happening to me now with women. I just get this feeling that somebody is staring at me and I turn to look and it’s a woman staring at me. I suspect that somehow they can sense that I no longer have much testosterone in my body and don’t pose a threat, and that makes me interesting to them.
Well some people don't respond well to be being told they can't have or shouldn't even want to have something... and their reaction is oftenat least increased interest
Had some similar experiences also depending on what I wear underneath my clothes. Maybe it changes personality somehow since "we" are aware of our situations we kind of on the surface sends a different signal to our surroundings that woman might pick up?
Now we are on this topic i would have to say yes to the fact we are much better behaved being locked. I have had recently 2 women i known causally through volunteering come up to me and greet me with a hug. That has never happened to me before.