Chastity for 1 day, then couldn't get hard after let out.

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    Yesterday, we bought a CB6000s, and I put it on at around 10am, then last night I had my key holder unlock me after a lot of teasing, but I couldn't get hard, all though I felt hard.

    I have never had a device before, let alone never had one on me before. When I put it on, of course I was never fully flaccid. It did pinch and hurt a bit. And I watched a bit of porn to get me to try to see how it would feel, but i think that i was the same before and after, still feeling like I was bulging.

    So, did I put it on wrong?
    Do I really need to be fully flaccid, and was that what caused the issue?
    Was this just me being a first timer?
    Could it have been too warm in the room?
    Was I too anxious?
     
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    I suspect that if you were badly fitted there would have been pinching and such.

    Sometimes after release I will not immediately erect, or not fully. The main drivers for me are
    1. How long has it been since fully erect (probably not your issue)
    2. How much sleep I haven't been getting
    If I've been really wound up (teased or horny), I find that takes energy that is no longer available to erect readily when released. Holding a bulging-against-the-cage semi-rejection would use a lot of bodily resources.

    Relax. Rest and eat well, your plumbing will work just fine.
     
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    If this was immediately after taking it off, that seems to be common. For a lot of guys it can take several minutes after unlocking to be able to achieve an erection.

    I remember the first time this happened to me. It was one of the rare occasions when my wife felt like letting me have intercourse. I had been locked up for about a month. She unlocked me and told me to get in her. We had the lights off and I felt like I was plenty hard. I was probing around with my penis trying to find her vagina, when she reached down to help guide me in. When she felt that I was totally limp, she asked why I didn't say I wasn't excited. I was shocked, and said I was very excited. I reached down and touched myself and sure enough I was limp.

    It was a big shock for me to feel aroused, and I was certain I was rock hard, but my penis was totally limp. She said if I could get it in, I could have an orgasm. I tried and tried, I kept pressing my limp cock against her vagina, but I couldn't get it in because it was limp.

    After about a minute, she said play time was over and to lock back up. Just about then I was starting to get an erection :(.

    So, either your wife can use this to her advantage and tease you in a new way (not being able to get hard is super frustrating), or she can give you a little more time after unlocking to get back to normal.
     
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    But Shephardsflock, that should'nt happen too often I hope? I think Ossian, you are correct that I used all of my bodily resources, and I was very anxious.
    Also, when I put the ring on, i kept the simi that I had at the time through out the day, and I am sure that alone used my bodily resources.
    I will try it again tonight or tomorrow. I am a bit excited to take it to work, and have my wife tease me with texts
     
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    I'm not sure. My wife hardly ever lets me be unlocked for sex. I think I've been allowed intercourse twice since then, and both times she had me unlock at the start rather than right before penetration.

    I think your body gets accustomed to only being allowed to grow to a certain size, and your penis also kind of gets tired from straining against the cage. These two things, I believe, combine to create a temporary impotence after removing the cage.

    I know back in thebeginning when I was still super tempted by masturbation, I was unlocked washing myself in the shower when I became tempted to masturbate. I had been locked up for a couple of weeks at that point. I had just removed the cage to clean myself and I started trying to masturbate. After about 5 minutes of futile effort, I couldn't get hard enough to do anything. I gave up and continued with my shower. Afterward, when I was drying off, I started to get hard.

    Maybe it's all psychological, or maybe I'm just weird, but I can't get hard for several minutes after unlocking. It always takes a while.
     
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    Don't underestimate the mental / psychological impact of chastity.
     
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