Chastity devices for both of us??? How dat work??

Discussion in 'Novices and newbies' started by hermeticallyCaged, Oct 20, 2019.

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Should we both try wearing chastity devices?

  1. Wear them both at the same time

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  2. No

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  3. Switch positions every so often

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  4. Throw your keys away

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    #1 hermeticallyCaged, Oct 20, 2019
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    So my SO jokingly made a comment about getting herself a chastity belt which got me thinking a bit. Has anyone here ever been in a relationship male female relationship where both people were wearing chastity devices.

    Neither of us have been into this long so I had no idea if people actually did this or not. Which is why i posted this on the novice and newbies thread. If anyone knows a thread that would be better for questions like this let me know, I'm not trying to mess up the order of things.

    I was just curious on how the dynamics would work. Would you swap keys, put them in a timed safe, have a third party KH,etc? Could there be a dominant and submissive? How would you make it more interesting?

    If she wants to try it I'm all down I really just don't have any idea how it would work out. I could definitely see her being into it though.

    Right now how I imagine it would go down is we would swap keys but she would try to go back to being submissive most of the time. She usually has a slightly higher sex drive than me so I could see everything being mostly in my control which I didn't really want to happen with this. I kind of wanted to be her toy or I guess chair would make more sense.

    Maybe we could do some kind of thing where we switch positions every once in a while. Idk what are some thoughts from you all. Also I know nothing about female chastity devices so if anyone has some basic to dos and not to dos or maybe suggest a previous thread or site or something that would be great thanks.
     
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    If she was to wear one. She would be giving up control and that is not going to happen now that she is learning what being in control is all about .
     
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    You may be right I have no idea, haven't really brought it up ir said anything after she mentioned it. I was really just curious more than anything. I like how it is right now anyways so i hope you are right.
     
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    I like the idea of switching, certainly if she wants to try it then try it.
    Always abide by your lady’s wishes.
     
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    I would ask her if she meant what she said first of all. If she did then what s the harm if you are both in chastity, each holding the others key? It doesn't always have to be about being submissive, sometimes it can simply be about having fun with each other.
     
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    When we started I got a cage first then one for my wife. We were going to switch from time to time.

    Now she says no way. She likes being the boss in control. And that's pretty hot!!
     
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    Sorry. I was talking about my wife / KH .
     
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    No way would that ever be an option in the Chaste household!
     
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    I put some thought into this in the past and I came to the conclusion that being mutual key holders almost certainly wouldn't work unless you're both sadists or you're both extremely competitive and you make it a game.

    The issue I decided is that a woman could deny a man because she is not in the mood when he asks but a man would struggle to deny a woman because her being in the mood is liable to put him in the mood. Maybe not literally every time since guys can legitimately not be in the mood, but after an extended period of denial, that's unlikely unless the guy is bone weary.

    It might work if the two stubbornly compete to see who can go longer without cracking. I imagine that the man would end up losing pretty consistently because the horny woman could easily fight dirty and seduce the guy which actually sounds like it could be really fun for a couple.

    To practice denial rather than mutual control, you almost certainly need a 3rd party or a timed safe.
     
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    I loved the responses on this one great insight. If anything come of this I'll be sure to update but as of now we're still trying to work out some of the problems with my chastity device so even if we decide to try something like that it would probably be a while.
     
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    this was Our idea to! But as madam more controlling and insisted on cuckolding me, it never happened.
     
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