Chastity Device - Erectile Dysfunction

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    Hello!

    I am not only new to this site, but I am also fairly new to chastity. I have played on and off with a device over the last few years. However, I typically just wear one for a few hours during play and then would release, take it off, etc.

    I just got a new job and the thought of discreetly wearing one under my suit pants around the office really excited me. Thus, I bought a new device and today actually had the courage to wear one to work! Needless to say, I have absolutely loved the thrill and so glad that I finally overcame my fear of wearing one out in public….

    My question is…..as much as I love wearing one and want to continue doing so, I don’t want to lose my ability to grow a strong erection. Now obviously I am not popping erections at work, but when its time to get intimate, what are the chances that my member will continue to grow and be as strong as usual (pre-chastity)?

    Thanks!
     
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    Sorry to break the bad news to you but you're already too late. Once you wear it out in public, there's something released in the chastity device that reacts with the outside air, it's absorbed into the penis and you'll start the ED process....it's already in your bloodstream.

    Unless you wore it 24/7/365 for years, I'm sure you'll be okay and it will bounce back.
     
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    Lol

    if you have a daily erection nothing 8s going to happen to anything. Even a weekly one…
     
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    Thanks! That is what I am hoping for. Typically, most mornings I wake up with morning wood. I noticed when having sex after I used to wear one occasionally, the erection wouldn’t be as strong…but could have been other factors, etc.
     
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    The end effect varies.. that “end” effect itself varies too from time to time according to your physical and psychological adaptation..
    we used the chastity device to improve our sex when we got married and she was trying hard to conceive.. i was a chronic masturbator and the idea was to abstain from self gratification behind her back, create a build up of testosterone and better sperm quality of 3-5days instead of flushing away daily.. it was a kinky idea too in bed whete the penis was only for her to unlock and use..

    And yes.. erection was not as hard once immediately uncaged.. it takes time for the penis to get its veins, valves and channels dilated unrestricted again with blood inflow.. but phychologically, it did create an anxiety to perform.. and such tendency to rush over love making tasks resulted in early ejaculation.. specialist may call it PE.. but ejaculation happened inside the vagina.. my wife wasnt the type who enjoyed fucking with endless hard pounding over an hour.. so it was a perfect way to end the chore of baby making (those who have gone thru this will understand)…
    So this was my account.. keep being locked.. do share us your account.. allay your fears aside.. if that is your nett result.. there are various ways to satisfy her..
     
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    I definitely have performance anxiety now. I noticed after the first times of being in chastity that I sometimes could not get an erection when we started to play. She would get so frustrated and angry at me. Mainly because she felt self-conscious that she wasn’t sexy enough to turn me on anymore. Truthfully, it was rough on our relationship for a while because for the life of me, I could not make myself get an erection and she isn’t a fan of oral so definitely was challenging.

    But thank you! I will certainly keep you updated on how this goes.
     
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    I am far from being an "expert" or a 365 chastity device wearer but I wear one enough to be able to offer some insight.

    Sadly I self lock as my partner is not at all interested in being a key holder for me. She has no interest at all in anything chastity related either with the lifestyle or the device itself. That said she has also said on occasions where I haven't wore it for a while that she is surprised I do not have it on, go figure.

    So with that I wear the device for myself, by myself 25 plus days a month with it coming off mostly for running and biking and then after my shower it goes back on. I will put the key on a timed lock to prevent myself from giving in to my temptations to masturbate. If I do not bike or run then I can be locked without release for up to a week.

    Thing is I rarely have an erection either by myself or with her playing with me. Her sex drive has fallen terribly, we have had piv 4 times this year, she is not into any other type of sexual activity so it'a piv or nothing. This has been devastating to me but the self locking helps, but does not cure the relationship strains. So to say there is infrequent use of my penis is an understatement.

    The good news is, I am 49 but in good shape so my blood circulation is healthy. 2 weeks ago she said, "would you like some sex?" It took approximately 2 heart beats and my willie was trying to push the cage off. I asked her to play with me while caged, a first for us, and she did, I am sure I almost broke the thing, steel, when she touched me. When it was time time to perform I struggled to get the lock undone as the pressure from inside was making everything tight and jammed. When the cage came off the ring was stuck on and the hardness I had made morning wood seem like cooked spahetti!! When I orgasmed, after hers of course, I am sure my finish lasted at least 2 minutes!!!, not an exageration. She said she thought I might have passed out during my orgasm, it was close.

    From my recounting you can see that even though I am rarely hard as I am caged and more or less forgotten about, my mindset is when its go time its fxxken go time!!! The physical side is all good, no reduction in size, girth or performance ability. It can take a while to get to mentally knowing that your prized member is safe in his little cage, just waiting for his chance to play and then let the caged beast show just how eager he can be to please and be pleased.

    I had gone thru some of the same mental challenges when I started this 3 plus years ago. I can assure you once you make peace with the cage and it's ability to make sexual play way more fun any ed and performance anxieties will slip away and fun will be so much funner!! Time locked away makes the pent up frustration very very high, when it is released finally it is like an explosion or damn burst.

    Enjoy getting to know chastity and all it can do for you.
     
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    Its always a win-win for the male if he is in chastity and unlock for sex.. if you become a fast shooter due to pent-up anxiety, she will feel that she is still too sexy enough for your fast ejaculation… if you develope difficulty in ejaculation and take prolonged duration due to some lack of sensitivity of non-use, she will enjoy the session while you can slowly take your time pleasuring her.. if you end up losing hardness in the middle of the session and she opened her eyes and asked why the fuck are you doing… just apologise and start giving her some great oral orgasm of the century…
    Ok, i belong to the third group.
     
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    I can only speak for myself...

    My longst continued lock, that is without the key going in the lock for any reason, was 70 days.

    After 70 days the cage came off and my D was as strong and as hard as ever, like nothing had changed at all.
     
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    Wow! That is great for you! Congrats….I am not so lucky. Obviously new to this, so wore for the first time for 8 hours straight. I was “hard” (or my member was trying to get hard) while I was caged for those 8 hours….by the time I took it off for the day, I tried getting an erection after and couldn’t. I barely rubbed on it, I looked down thinking I had an erection, but was completely flaccid. I tried stroking it, almost in a panic like “uhhh ohhh I cant hard” then immediately ejaculated completely soft….definitely a little nervous about wearing it again. Since that day, I have been able to get a little bit of morning wood back.
     
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    Sounds like you have hurt yourself. I'd suggest a visit to the doctor, just to be sure.
     
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    i wouldnt say this is due to an injury, this is in your mind… you’re so worried about getting erect and performing you’re stopping it happening.
    Just relax.
    Next time your out of your cage with your partner do it blindfolded. You’re not looking at your penis then. Just sit back, relax and let her play. Think about the things she’s doing, not what your body is doing. You’ll soon spring back to life when you stop pressuring yourself.
    If she’s going to get mad at you she’ll only exacerbate the situation. Just let her cuddle you and stroke other erogenous zones. Enjoy the feel of her body against yours. Enjoy being together and it will all click back in to place.
     
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    I think you hit the nail on the head. I definitely have been putting too much pressure on myself to perform for her and not being able to relax & enjoy the moment. I’m constantly thinking “omg, I have to stay hard or she will become insecure like she’s not doing something good enough”, etc.

    Thanks for the input.
     
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    lol!
     
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    @ATL2NYCuck , your username implies you shouldn't be having PIV yourself anyway.
     
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