I can't believe I'm saying this, I just spent 24 hours in a device with my wife's knowledge, and she is "into it". Wow. She is still asking questions and until yesterday had never heard of it until last week when I showed her a device. Last night she was asking questions like "do you need to clean it" and I offered to take it off and she was like "no, leave it on, it keeps me "safe" from you". She's been super huggy kissy since realizing I had it on and the key was in her possession. Its still on her night stand and she admits she's afraid to hide it because she is so forgetful. I have not told her about the other key. I'm so excited and scared at the same time. with the help of a wonderful drink called "wine" I slept through the night with it on. My wife ground against it and seemed to kind of like it. wow. I am totally shocked that Mr's Vanilla with with "Dominate me" fantasies is going along with this.
I would be a bit miffed if ian had another key. The whole point to us is that he has no way Of unlocking . I keep one and my g/f has the other, so it's highly unlikely both would be lost. Jane
If you are locked up then your wife is indeed safe from you, she probably had a great sleep last night knowing that you wouldn't be pestering her for sex at night or in the morning lol. As for the other key, at present I would advise keeping it with you. It can be very easy to get an abrasion when you first start wearing a device. I have seen a few occasions when the device has had to be removed rather quickly. Probably best tell her there is another one and get her to put it in a sealed envelope or something so she knows if you have used it. Until you are used to wearing the device for prolonged periods a safety key is always wise.
Its just a Chinese HT2 knock off from Amazon, my 2nd I also have a CB3000 but I find the lock so bulky and that whole device pinchy. This plastic HT2 is "ok". I did have to sand some burrs off of it. If my wife enjoys and gets into this I am going to get a custom metal one of some kind.