Chastity cheating

Right up until you start cheating, yes.

 

We keep the emergency key in a nice wooden box on the Queen's bedroom dresser locked with a plastic numbered lock. I could just cut the lock off but my KH would know. With a bit of experimentation I found the plastic lock could be pulled apart with a good tug and after cheating the lock could be put back in place.

I think many men are under the opinion that masturbation is not cheating, but I feel it is if you have a commitment with your KH to not do it without her permission.

Then I got to thinking with the big head again and ask myself why lock up if I am just going to cheat behind my key holders back. After all this was my idea to cut back on masturbation. I got to feeling guilty about the cheating and super glued the lock shut (on the wooden box.. never the lock on my cage... lol).

Now I am asking... WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO THAT FOR?!

As I have heard in here over and over, 'be careful what you ask for...'

 

There are so many ways to cheat. It feels so good in the moment but later guilt happens.

 

An analogy is say you enjoy bondage. Is inescapable bondage more exciting than the silly bondage you see on TV where the villains can clearly wriggle right out? I find inescapable bondage to feel quite different.

Having said that, I think a good fittîng device that is a tight fit and holds everything in place for days to be close enough for me. Something about being locked in chastity that I can't get out of makes me want to be obedient. (the ball trap part is very rigid and sized to be comfortable but inescapable.) So I'm not inclined to see if I can cheat & "pull out", and probably couldn't get the shaft back in, as it's quite challenging getting the shaft in both parts in the first place. Of course, I could never get my balls out regardless.

 

In the beginning I wouldn’t have felt bad about it, had thought about it, but things were so fun I didn’t want to ruin anything. Then her opinion on all this changed to an expectation, and she felt that me touching myself was like cheating her n her, not on a chastity game. That turned it from playful to emotional, and not something I would ever do to her. A wank isn’t worth hurting her.

So I can see someone just giving in and trying again for the next lock up if it didn’t matter to her, but once it gets to a cheating on her or trust issue, I can’t imagine ever messing around.

 

Quick thrill for some sissys

 

Sometimes a woman does not know what's best for her sub, so the sub takes matters into his own hands in order to keep the dynamic going without a conflict or argument. This way the spirit of the relationship lives on.

 

You might need to give more of an explanation of this. I fancy most on here would argue that a woman does know what's best for her sub. It's kind of a given in this type of relationship.