I am curious as to the level of chastity play. I read a lot of 24/7/365 lockup periods. I don't think that's for me. The longest I've ever been caged is three full days and two nights. I wouldn't mind "pushing the limits" and seeing how long I could go, but I don't think it would be longer than a week. I have a hard time concentrating at work and such. The appeal of chastity to me is when we are being sexual. For example, I love to service my wife and enjoy her climaxes while I cannot even get erect. I see playing with the chastity belt as a special and very fun extension of bondage. Some of the hottest experiences we've had are when I am bound spread eagle while being locked up and either servicing her orally or being forced to hear/feel her come with toys. Very hot!!! I personally would like to incorporate lockup more in our relationship, but I don't think my wife is as "into" it as I am. We do have some designated times that I am, to some extent, expected to lock myself up. And she gets quite excited about and is really playful; for example, she will pretend to throw away the key and such. Another reason is that my wife has become quite into ball torture. She seems to like torturing them when they are freer to move around. I think she likes the access and gives her more torture options. I am really quite excited by the "double standard". She is massaged and climaxes all she wants and in return she smacks my nuts. This isn't to say that I am not under chastity. We started our first "denial" game whereby my sexy wife, following a satisfying set of climaxes, rolled a die and that's how many orgasms she must obtain before I am allowed release. I know this is probably tame by a lot of chastity practicioners, but hey it's a start. It was really quite arousing to me that she was "rooting" for a high score. Anyway, she seemed happy with her '5' role. So I am chaste but not locked up.