Chastity and work

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    I'm really wishing I could find a solution to my problem, so I walk a Lot at work, like 30 miles a night and chastity isn't really compatible with this but I feel really uncomfortable without it at this point and because it's been so long since I've had a true unlock horniness is quite an issue when I'm free, does anyone have any suggestions of some kind of solution?
     
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    What exactly is the incompatibility? 30 miles is a lot of walking but with a well fitted device and supportive underwear it shouldn’t be impossible.
     
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    It's mostly the rubbing honestly, the cage is a damn near perfect fit, and I've tried the supportive boxers but the cage just rubs my legs and balls and I end up with sore spots after only like 2 hours
     
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    what are you wearing as a device?
     
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    Forgive me, have you tried underwear that goes between your legs and your privates? Like tightly whities or boxer briefs? Failing that, and this may not be your cup of tea, I can recommend full cut female briefs to prevent contact and rubbing on long walks simply because they hold things up and away from your legs. The tight fit also tends to hold the scrotum against the cage, preventing rubbing there too.

    Hope this helps!
     
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    Have u tried lotion? I use it over the balls and other problem areas.
     
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    You are probably going to have to try different styles of underwear until you find something that works with a your chastity cage. That may include styles that wouldn't necessarily be your first pick.
     
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    The fit of your cage and your underwear go together. You not the only one that lives an active lifestyle, I’ve found that you need underwear that has a pouch for your cage that holds it secure to your body. When I use to wear boxers I all so noticed to much movement which caused comfort issues. Good Luck
     
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    I have but that usually is absorbed too quickly to be useful to me
     
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    The female briefs are an interesting idea I'll have to give that one a try thankyou!!
     
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    It's featured on my profile I don't know the name of it sorry
     
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    Skin is impervious, lotion cannot be absorbed, simply evaporated or spread too thin.
     
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    I had the same problem with lotion. I now use baby oil gel, which lasts all day for me. I don't walk 30 miles, but 3 days a week I go to the gym, and most days I have a 4 mile round trip walk to work, and no problems since I got a cage that fits well.
     
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    Anyone who runs many miles and stays locked could chime in with recommendations.

    It looks like my future will remain locked so I need to buy more supportive underwear as well... tag for interest
     
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    I would recommend male pouch panties. Or you could go with women’s boy shorts, bikinis or thongs.
     
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    For some reason, as pointed out by many, women's underwear are infinitely better than men's. I think I must have tried every possible option there is. For me, I found a ladies or men's thong seems to contain the goods pretty well. Fabric should be not too stretchy not too tight, a little more lycra for support. The ladies full cut briefs are also a great choice. They keep things separated. Too much cotton will stretch and not spring back so they start out ok and then everything goes downhill from there. Nobody has mentioned this I think, but I sometimes use a bodysuit or leotard. Now your shoulders are assisting in keeping things up. Thong under it for added support. They have snap bottoms so you can go to the bathroom easier. Conveniently, a bodysuit also says, "say no to crack", quite well. We are not all plumbers, but sometimes....
     
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    When I used to go to the gym , I would wear cycling shorts , this held everything nicely in place
     
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    Bodysuits are awesome! I love wearing them as often as I can.
    To answer this gentleman question: simple answer is to get a good jockstrap. That’ll pull you in tight and your ass will be accessible to!
     
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    I also walk quite a bit for work, and I've found that dual pouch boxer briefs work well for me.
     
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    I’d suggest underwear with a pouch to separate your balls from your thighs. There are multiple different brands. The ones I wear are called obviously underwear. Just google that. I like them a lot and it has completely eliminated any chafing or discomfort in that area.
     
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