Chastity and trying for a baby

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Have you had a baby while practicing chastity?

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  1. Subhub101
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    I don't think me and my wife are really in a chastity relationship. We were getting into it September of last year but then her mother passed away unexpectedly so I didn't feel like it was right or fair as it is my fantasy and my wife wasn't really into it and the passing of her mother hit her really hard.

    Things are settling down a little now but she still gets upsetaupset abouttabout her mum. We are also trying to have a baby. Sadly without much luck. I think I had been drinking a bit too much. I'm not an alcoholic but I was drinking a lot. I've now basically cut it out(the regular sex helps) but I do still long to be locked up.

    What with working from home I am tempted to masterbate a lot but an sort of edging and when it gets too much I'm self locking (sad I know)

    Like I say I've stopped drinking (and stopped drinking coffee as she said that doesn't help) and I am just wondering if anyone else has been in a chastity relationship and still managed to have a baby. I don't think a cage would hinder things but I imagine my wife will say that it won't help.

    I'm not sure why im posting this but I guess just to see what people think. I'm quite submissive to her generally and I think she doesn't see the point of a cage when I'm already submissive but in an oddly non kinky way. I treat her like a princess and love her so much. All her friends are a bit jealous as their boyfriends are generally dicks . Hope this wasn't too long. It probably was lol.
     
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    I understand her point if you are already submisssive since chastity is just another spice that could be used to control.
     
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    I have put this a few times before, i do wonder if the cage might cause problems for temperature regulation. But how much effect it would have, i dont know. Id love to know what any medical people think about this.
     
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    The cage will cause problems due to it preventing your testicles from doing their job, which is to regulate the temperature of your sperm.

    Take off your cage
    Start wearing boxers
    Cut back on the Coffee drinking but, Drink a cup of Coffee before making love (it helps the little one swim faster)
    No alcohol
    Start eating healthier, no fast food.

    But most importantly talk to your doctor.
    They can put you on a schedule of when the best times and window in which you are both at maximum fertility.

    Good luck.
     
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    When we was looking to conceive the mrs came off the pill and we went away to the lake district. I spent a week eating dry cured bacon and eggs from the chickens running around the farm. It did the trick, we might have just got lucky but i will always blame the eggs for putting my guys on top form.
     
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    Perfectly put!
     
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    Sylophine She has my key and I have her collar

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    We had a child while in a chastity relationship. Didn’t do anything different. Just unlocked when she was ovulating and had sexual at the appropriate time. We are both in our 40s and the conception occurred in the second month of trying.

    Don’t know what else I could say to convince you that nothing will be impacted.
     
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    Conception really is hit and miss, with our first took about 5-6 months of actively trying before it happened. When We decided to try for no2 I was looking forward to months of baby making, but, seemingly first time up to bat.... As she was pregnant within about 6 weeks.
     
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    Also keep in mind that ‘fresh’ sperm is much better!
     
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    On a lighter note thank goodness you did not give your key to your mother in law to mind.
     
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    Timing with ovulation is the most important part.
     
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    We had 2 kids while she was locking me quite regularly. No problems whatsoever.
     
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    Thanks for all your responses guys, fingers crossed we will get pregnant and she'll lock me up for the next nine months :)
     
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    Carful for what you wish... if it’s anything like us, when your wife gets pregnant, she might as well lock you up for the next 5 years!! :eek:
     
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    Well here my suggest
    I got baby after 3 month in chastity(very dicipline..1 week release)
    I already have 2 kids..now its number 3

    Dont masturbate,cause it will only make ur sperm have low quality,give key to her and make only 1 release after 1 week(4 days its okay)..say to her its for the sake to get kid,i hope she will help u with keyholder
    Eat more meat(if u want boy).eat more vegetable(if u want girl)..i got all boys...i dont like vegie at all
    Before you get sex on sunday,dont get exhausted or sleep overnight on saturday..keep ur stamina for sex with her...
    Do sex 30 minute(minimum) or 1 hour...then cum...
    Good luck
    Sorry for bad english
     
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    Perhaps focus more on the control that chastity gives her and less on the denial and submission it gives you? I have a hard time thinking that chastity impacts the man’s fertility much. On other hand, she knows her body and it might prime you to be ready when she is.

    Also, when she is pregnant, and certainly after you guys have a baby, she might not be into sex for a while. There is plenty of time for denial then. Believe me, it was some of the most intense denial I experienced.

    Everyone is different, but little kids don’t make things very sexy In a marriage for a while, and if you both can get around that, chastity can add a little spice to more complicated times. But be patient with Her!

    Good luck!
     
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    Just an update for those interested - we are now pregnant. I'm over the moon and trying not to get too excited as it's early days.
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    That’s great news! Congratulations
     
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    Mazel Tov!!!

    Welcome to Fatherhood!!!

    If you need any Dad advice, shoot me a message.

    Iso.
     
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    Welcome to the club.
     
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    Didn't see the good news until now! Congrats, keep us posted if you are allowed!!!
     
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    Congratulations! New possibilities await.
     
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