There are a few members here that have proposed to their KH's and are planning to marry or already are married, congratulations to you all! This got me wondering if there are many more couples here that have been living the chastity lifestyle and then went on to get married. Most stories I've read regarding chastity and relationships usually have to do with couples using chastity to help reignite some lost passion in their long years of marriage. My story isn't too different from what I just described. So if you met your gf or bf and things led to chastity and then marriage please share
I introduced chastity to my wife about two months into dating. Been locked ever since, including the wedding day of course!
We had a great sex life already, chastity has added to it and made her happier and more satisfied. My orgasms are much less frequent but a lot more enjoyable. So for us it was something added to our relationship before it even started to stale, which will hopefully keep things exciting for longer. We will be getting married once I have saved up enough money to have a somewhat decent ceremony and reception. We’ve also talked about us both waiting for sex for a long time before the wedding night, perhaps months. We’ve had lots of fantasies about the honeymoon, like will I cum or will I be teased the whole time, but at the point that’s all just fantasy since I’m such a long way from having the money.
We met online, I had played a bit with chastity and her profile said she wanted FLR . I knew she wanted me in chastity 24/7. We planned to meet after chatting online for a month or so.. I got cold feet and basically said couldn't commit to full time chastity and we went our different ways without meeting. I soon regreted , we got on at so many levels online, so after 4 weeks I went back online to see if she was around. Politly struck up conversation and we pretty quickly agreed to meet for lunch a couple of days off to see if chemistry was there. Lunch date was best ever. Locked up 3 days later, proposed within 12 months will be married 2 yrs after lock up
My fantasy, if I was to get married now instead of 46 years ago, would be to remain chaste until marriage and then be told that I would have to forgo my orgasms for another year just to make sure I was devoted enough. The marriage would be consummated orally or by hiring an escort for the wife with me assisting or being penetrated too. Ouch!
No, but if you have a girlfriend/fiancé that likes chastity, it might be a really fun way to do things. I know my wife wishes I would have been locked before marriage and could have kept me locked afterward. Water under the bridge now.
We got into chastity in 2001 as a game (that I was more interested in) and the game slowly shifted to FLR (where her interest lay) in the years afterwards. Got married in 2005.
I dated my wife for for 7 years before we got married and we played with chastity for about 6.5 of those years. She even kept me locked during our ceremony and reception. I think the age demographic of this website tends to be older than other forums like reddit where you see a lot of younger guys locked with girlfriends or fiances holding the key.