Does anybody else ever suffer from sexual boredom from chastity?! I can end up going for 2 or 3 weeks with no activity in anyway and I don’t get more and more horny... just bored. I really do want chastity to work for us.
It really depends for me. Sometimes I’m busy with other things and time just seems to slip away and it’s no big deal. Sometimes I’m horny and can’t think of anything else.
Lock and leave is bound to be boring! Even if we don't get to have a "proper playtime" for a week or 2 Mrs Chaste still manages a tease most days. It might only be a minute or 2 sometimes but it certainly keeps me frustrated and ready! It's not just for my benefit either, Mrs Chaste enjoys teasing, it turns her on. So in effect she is teasing herself! Mind you when we do get to play, I still don't cum! Oh no orgasms are reserved for Mrs Chaste! But then that's how it's meant to be!
Yeah I think if absolutely nothing happens it's boring. It's not the lack of access that makes chastity good, it's holding onto that frustration high because of the lack of access. Nothing to excite you and there's none of that. Just boredom and possibly a building resentment.
I do start to get a little bored. Only started week plus long lockups recently and get very little to no teasing what so ever. When I do feel boredom starting I think to my self that this is truly what she wants and I am only here to please her whenever she gets the urge and that is unknown to me or her. But that thought alone is enough to tease my self. I'm straining even writing this lol
If I was just locked and not teased I would get bored with it but when you have someone teasing you during the time your locked the more intense it gets, at least for me. So I feel there has to be some interaction and teasing to keep he interest up
The first 7 to 10 days is no problem with me . The wife is going through the beginning of her change of life and there hasn't been much sex of any type here . I get horny to the point of waking to thinking about sex of some form. Even if it is a good padding . So yes I get bored and that is when I have to go take a nap for a couple of hours in the afternoon , just to clear my mind of sex. It works until the next morning . She will take pity on me when she sees I am losing my consecration on every day things and will give me a orgasm just so I can function again .
I would say I get more arousable. Like @Chaste J. It is never one sided. At least for us we have more interaction now than before. For her it excites her to see me aroused. I have a full belt so I never have discomfort. More often now it is a big turn on even when she doesn't think she wants anything. As @buildup said. If you are being forgotten may need to communicate that to her. I don't get alot of Os myself, but I sure do like pleasing her. It takes two to make it work well.
I prefer teasing but the fact I can't water my sexual energy forces me to focus on my wife. I get mixed emotions about it but end up coming to the same realization. I should be providing her pleasure and focusing on her if I wish to have my desires considered. I get aroused and leak when going down on her so that alone is a tease for me while locked
As someone who can get bored easily one of the things I don't find boring is chastity. It's much more interesting being in a relationship and being teased. I'd be more likely to find it boring if I were own.
Last sentance outside the edit time limit. In case it's not clear, it should be: I'd be more likely to find it boring if I were on my own.
Chastity is supposed to INCREASE intimacy in partners! That intimacy just becomes expressed in different ways then it did previous to being caged. If it’s not then a conversation needs to happen between you and your keyholder. Also what changed this for me was everyday when I would usually get home from work and pleasure myself, I would find myself unable to and that would be frustrating but I found that if I started doing things around the house that I knew would make Her life a little easier and happier I felt such gratitude and contentment for Her taking control. This reinforced the behaviour and I have begun associating household chores with Her happiness and my submissiveness to Her wants and needs. It is a delicious cycle. The other part is that without quite so much housework to do Her time is freed up and She has more time to relax and to appreciate life which usually puts Her in a much more likely state of mind to want to be intimate. Remember the purpose of your chastity! Suffer with purpose, to make your KH’s life better, or else just suffer.