Chastity and Autisim and/or ADHD

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    Hello everyone. My wife and I have been experimenting with chastity on an off since last summer. We both believe it has had many positive impacts on our life. During this time, however, we found out that I am most likely autistic and ADHD. For me chastity seems to help with a lot of the difficulties I encounter as a result of the above two conditions.

    I am curious if there is anyone else on this site who is Autisitc or has ADHD and if so how they feel that chastity has affected them in relation to those conditions.

    I can provide more detail on my own insights but don't want to bias anyone else's comments or thoughts should they choose to participate in the thread.
     
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    Hey

    I also have Autism. I've been experimenting self chastity over the past few years, but in September I found a beautiful Goddess who keeps me caged 24/7.

    I've also been in therapy for 5 years. Over the past few years I've made a huge amount of personal progress with self worth, confidence, self esteem, ambition and I've become a completely different person.

    In my experience, chastity hasn't been the catalyst for my growth, but rather therapy allowed me to be confident enough to try out my own kinks, interests.

    Maybe, by experimenting with chastity, you've been able to feel a little better about your interests?
     
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    I'm an aspie, and I can safely say that through (KH enforced) chastity (and the insane horny that comes with it) I have learnt to better control my thoughts, which otherwise would rage and spiral out of control.

    Combined with meditation practice I am much calmer now than I have ever been.
     
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    Wow, that's very interesting, I never thought about it but it's probably helped me as well.
     
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    Yes, chastity cured my IBS. Appreciate it’s not quite the same… but no less worthy of a mention.
     
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    I have a longtime friend with an adult son who is severely autistic and has a masturbation problem. She knows I am chaste and she’s curious if male chastity might be of help to him.

    Can you comment or advise please?
     
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    We’re going to confine a severely autistic person in chastity?
    Please tell me that’s not a real thing.
     
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    Short answer is no.

    Id soak to the son but chastity has to be done with consent and that appears lacking.

    Also I think I may be autistic I do not know for sure I am.

    Even if I was sure id be one example and not an expert who could comment.

    Lastely, I think dinner if the avatars I've seen are related to autism, but moreso to add which I am much more convinced I have. That makes sense though since add is a problem with dopamine and chastity send to have effects on dopamine levels.
     
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    I've seen enough of your posts that my into incredulousness had subsided at seeing who posted. I'm curious to hear this story if you wouldn't mind sharing. How did chastity cure your ibs?
     
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    I said she was curious. This is the first I’ve heard of someone besides her connecting the dots of chastity and autism. I was seeking more information.

    Stop jumping to conclusions. I didn’t bring up the topic.
     
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    Sorry, my wife works closely in this field so i genuinely was surprised that a parent would suggest this. Although, degrees of autism vary massively. I know little in truth, but delivering routine is something I’m aware is essential.
    Whether the cage would form a new (dare I say) more productive routine, or create a very difficult situation is a very good question.
     
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    Cure is subjective. Also, not actually diagnosed as such, but have seen some incredible benefits on this front.
    I did some research (not related to IBS) and came across the effects of ejaculation on cortisol levels. Cortisol has been directly connected to function of the digestive system. Simply put, not ejaculating could have been beneficial.

    The ‘IBS’ could have been a consequence of my slightly anxious disposition. Anxiety levels whilst in chastity have definitely improved. I feel far more confident and relaxed than ever before.

    There’s actually no scientific studies into this. Probably because it’s not particularly of interest to most, but the deeper you read on the hormonal changes while chaste, the more you can connect the dots within your own behavioural changes.
     
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    I to will apologize though I stay true to what I said above, it tried to. Autocorrect really got me. I will discuss how I think it's been helping me.

    1) sensory benefit. I've always enjoyed our washed to wear diapers, the chastity cage provides a compression similar to that I like about diapers.

    2) memory. I've been working hard to remember people's names. It seems a lot easier when I am in chastity.

    3) better communication with my spouse.

    4) better focus on general.

    5) I'm more attentive to others and tend to Manopolize the conversation less.

    6) I'm less forgetful.

    7) it easier to be motivated

    8) I do better with my hygiene
    9) I'm better at organization

    10) I'm better at cleaning.
    11) I watch less television or am less interested in it.
    12) I have better and more meaningful interactions with my kids.


    These are what I have seen. Others may recast much differently.
     
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    I can definitely see your logic here. I am however one of the strange ones on this forums as chastity is not really my kink. Now i saw that, i was the one who introduced it to my wife. It was simply a curiosity of mine. something that I have seen interacting with my core fetishes and thought it would be interesting to try out. It is sill not a core kink of mine, even though I think my wife and I have effectively agreed on germinate Chasity (not organism denial just chastity) I only come out when she wants me to. The reason we chose to stay with it though is not because of our sex life. We have both agreed to stick with it because of all the positive affects it has had on me. She was worried that it would hurt me or cause germinate problems. I was worried about not organizing all the time. It turns out that I actually think about sex less when in Chasity than i do when i am not in Chasity. We discovered this over the last two months when I was out of Chasity over thee holidays and one of my work trips. I thought she wasn't interested and so i just stopped doing it, that was followed by me not doing a lot of the other things I had been working on with our FLR, even with her still offering to engage in my core fetishes with me.

    We have tried several things that have worked since last summer. None of them, with the exception of chasitty, have had any lasting impacts or effects. For us chastity is just the most useful tool we have found in our newly and still being defined FLR. It has had been impacts on helping me improve in areas than even engaging in my key fetishes and kinks has. Ultimately though if it stops working and having those effects, i think we will both just walk away from it and be no les happy other than we miss the positives.
     
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    You must be a lot of fun at parties.
     
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    I am also a Aspie, I do think chastity helps me relax. At least I do not waste a lot of time and energy on porn and masturbation. At first it was scary that I lost control, but now it is actually more relaxing.
     
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    I don't think this is going to end well.
     
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    Agreed the topic would be sensitive. A decision was made to do nothing in that regard. As most would agree, way too many potential problems for this to be practical. Ethics, etc.
     
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