Chastity a good tool for porn addiction?

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    Sorry to hear about his passing, it his very good of you to keep some of those "traditions" sounded like you were very close.


    The watersports storys were very interesting, I feel I am a tiny bit on the Bi spectrum and would like to to try giving a blow job do a guy to see what it is like.

    Thank you
     
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    Its funny.
    For all of our Manly crap Talk about Take This Fukin Rocky Cock boy and stuff, its a tender soft and loving act on a body part that only another man can understand, appreciate, and stimulate properly because of that.

    An erect penis is a truly beautiful thing in form and function and i never tire of just looking at their individual differences and similarities.
    The skin is like none other on a mans body. The way it slides and wrinkles along the inner shaft, its thinness and translucency, the vascularity beneath, the fascinating independent motion of the testicles as they become excited and role about in preparation of orgasm...

    Stupid society has no clue of the enjoyment it denies itself with its arbitrary ignorant and superstitious prohibitions.
     
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    Yep I am definitely interested in experimenting with another guy with some I feel comfortable with.

    But I do have a fantasy of slowing another mans cum I do like the taste of my own.

    But when the time is right I will try it but would prefer to be with a women first
     
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    Having recently experienced 31 days with zero unlocks I can say, for me at least, that for short lock periods of a week or so porn still has interest.

    Around 21-25 days in it totally lost it's interest for me.

    So yes, for me, chastity was a good way to break the chain of porn.

    Of course 31 days is too short to break a bad habit.
     
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    Jay, can you speculate why it has lost your interest?
    In my case it seems to go the opposite direction.
    Deprivation makes me crave stimulation from every other available source.
     
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    That is interesting, I have only been locked for 4 days maximum and had mixed results
     
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    First I think takes time for the mind to adjust. A week or so being locked and then unlocked for erections and sexy fun times is not enough. I've done a month with weekly unlocks and porn was still interesting to me.

    It's hard to explain to be honest but just sitting in front of the screen looking at porn (or whatever your favourite stimulation is) is nothing. It's an entirtely hollow and empty experience. Literally a complete and utter waste of time.

    At some point the mind just accepts it and then treats it as it truly is; Just a waste of life.

    I could see that, if I could have stayed locked for another month, then porn would mean nothing to me now.
     
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    i can understand that.
    Porn was only a visual part, of a physical exercise for me.
    It was a partner, in absentia, while i provided the physical stimulus needed.

    Yes, as i sit here and rethink this, porn will be useless if it cant jack off or something.
    I do have my new E-Stim anal trainer from Fort Troff.
    That would make it more fun.

    ive rarely been able to cum in chastity unless im being fucked, and i mean fucked hard.
    So im not sure even that trainer would help with an orgasm.
    im going to see after ive been locked for longer.
     
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    I was locked up for about 46 days to observe Lent and my wife had me watch a hot Janet Mason porn movie. This was the night before my unlocking and she was teasing me. Her hope is I would have a caged orgasm so the next night when I’m free I’ll last more than 10 seconds. While I may need ED drugstore maintain and erection, I was breathing pretty heavy while watching the movie and listening to my wife telling me how she was fucked like that many years ago.

    the combination of the porn, my wife’s hand rubbing my balls and cage, and her in my ear had me shoot off. Maybe is all three things together, but watching Janet does the trick.
     
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    Yes, but works even better when my KH does the teasing etc, as then don't even go and look!!!

    Inet usage for that down since locking up, and more attention on her.

    I'm calmer, more focussed and, well happier.

    My KH seems to be enjoying it as well!!
     
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    That is a very interesting experience, ngl I wish I could expirance that
     
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    Samer really.

    I didn't need or want porn. I didn't feel guity or anything if I did look at porn, it just lacked it's satisfaction, it was hollow.

    I just wanted her.
     
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    Yep if I was in a relationship I would definitely want to keep well away from porn as it can bee seen a cheating.

    I try to only watch it once in a two week period, I also try p spot stimulation to avoid touching my cock
     
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    I'm coming real late to this party, but this hits home for me.

    I would identify my self as a porn addict. Before chastity, my routine of watching porn (vids/images) would be a normal part of my day - drinking coffee, taking a shower, eating, etc. It got to the point where it become more of a chore and it desensitized me. It sounds bad but think of it as like those functioning meth addicts that go to work lol, I'm still able to function pretty normally all things considering. But with the recent life stuff, I was back into a deep dark spiral.

    Wearing my cage has actually curbed my interest in looking at pictures (I would be on Imagefap 2-3 hours a day, but now its 2-3 every other day). But saying all that, at the end of the day, an addict will always be addict - transferring that addiction to something else. Even though my addiction to my typical porn has decreased, my addiction for chastity, edging, ruined orgasms, and such are starting to grow immensely.
     
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    Not even close for me. Being locked just enhances the desire to seek out something fun to look at. Even if I can't masturbate in a "normal" fashion, there are still ways to enjoy myself. That hugged feeling down below is a constant aphrodisiac.
     
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