Chastity a good tool for porn addiction?

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    Hello bit of an odd thread but just wondering if any one else has used chastity to help fix a porn addiction or any other addiction?

    I first started chastity in lockdown last year and found it helped me staying off adult sites.

    I am not currently in chastity at the moment as I am looking to develop my first relationship, but will get back into chastity if the girl I am seeing is interested as well.

    Thank you
     
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    Actually, yes it is.

    I have been using one to curb my Masterbating addiction.

    It is a great tool.

    Iso.
     
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    Thank you for the reply, I was also experimenting with anal toys which helped distract me.
     
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    Being caged doesn't really keep me from looking at images that excite me. In fact, not cumming sort of accelerates my desires and at times actually increases the time i spend enjoying visual stimulation or reading sexual stories. With no relief, desire just boils inside me. But if it works for you, go for it.
     
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    Ok so it sort of acts as a kind of edging?
    Do you try and watch just femdom porn, if you don't mind me asking?

    I used to like watching a lot of Virgin humiliation porn but stoped as I was worried it was affecting my self esteem.
     
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    #6 cagedfellow, May 3, 2021 at 2:05 PM
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    It depends for me.

    I tend to look at porn with masturbation. Inside my cage, my urges are very strong and there is steps in my journey.

    I would say the first 10 days I'm very aroused and I feel I would bump anything.

    Then a time comes where It starts to calm down and more emotional though get through.

    I'm very sensitive and need more attention. It becomes rollercoaster. And if I lack attention from others, I getting Bratty.

    So, overall, I watch less porn but wants to play more and increase relationship.

    Masturbation makes me independent and I live my life kind of alone(for my wife, it's hard)

    with the cage on, it becomes different. not that I wont watch any porn at all but my goal switch to other things.

    I would add that I'm locked for almost 3 weeks, it's the first time that long for me. So, quite newbie even if I own a cage for 10 years. I could say that I'm addicted to porn and as time pass in chastity, I do look way less porn online since I got a lost of interest. But I didn't lost my libido.

    I could say that I switched my time to Chastity Mansion and fetlife. I would consider that as the desire to have relationship with others sharing the same goal.
     
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    One of my favorite things to do was to watch either a Lyla Storm BDSM or a Janet Mason porn video and grab a tube of pump lube and go to town. Right after my wife would leave the house (not every day but at least 2X a week), I would turn on the TV and scroll over to my video library, grab the lube, and rub one out. Then I would hop into the shower and remove all the incriminating evidence. One day she left and came back to retrieve something forgotten and found me red handed during my orgasm. It dawned on her why my interest in sex was waning and my loads were not as large. Here I had a wife who enjoyed sex and I was taking self gratification over mutual pleasure. The following she took me into the dungeon and tried to beat some sense into me, that lasted about 3 days.

    Several years ago we stumbled into chastity and started to experiment. Once I became somewhat accustomed to wearing the device she had a brainstorm. Every morning before she left for work I would have to put the cage on and she would take the key. I did have a spare one in a sealed glass jar and could only use it for emergency. I would be allowed to remove it after my evening shower and finish my cleanup supervised. By the following weekend, I was able to perform like a teenager and a porn star, nothing was safe on her.

    As far as watching porn, she allows me to take advantage of my bad habit and even look for more content. I have a great collection of Janet Mason, Barbi Sinclair, and Sandra Otterson (wifey's world). Except, now I get it set up, she comes into the room and ties me naked to a chair wearing nothing but my cage and starts the video. All the while she is either lying on the floor in front of me or in the bed getting herself or a girl friend off.
     
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    That's interesting so you would say it prevents you from being "independent" in pleaser and forced you to play more which helps in your relationship ?
     
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    So it is almost like a cuck expirance when you are tied to a chair?

    Does it become painful in the caige while you are being stimulated?

    Apologies for all the questions just find this very fascinating.

    Thank you
     
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    Yeah, that's how things go for me for now. It's something natural, my interest switch slowly through what I think is better for my wife and I.
     
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    That is good to hear
     
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    Master first put a cage on me because He said these balls and this dick were no longer free range wild boys. He owned them now, and He would be the sole decision maker concerning when, how, where, and IF they got milked.
    i discovered that abstinence from masturbation did a couple of things.
    It made me constantly needy for sexual stimulus of any kind, including porn on paper or video,
    but especially for Him.
    my inhibitions went crashing down in a matter of days or weeks and things that i would have found utterly humiliating or undesirable before never even registered on that scale any longer.
    What ever He wanted He got.
    We already had a clear written agreement of limits and trust and i had so often trusted him with my actual life that such lesser things didnt matter.
    i suppose it was just another form of masturbation.
    If what He wanted got me closer to a high and an orgasm even though i was locked down tight, bring it on Sir.

    But no, it was more than that.
    That makes it sound cheap and lowers the depth of what i had for Him.
    Master, owner, Beloved Man of my life, searched for and found at last only too briefly for those blessed years.

    So in my case, chastity turned me into His happy devoted body slave boytoy.
    It stopped my over masturbation is all.
    And my life became happy and filled with a joy i had never know before.
     
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    That is good to hear you are happy and filled with Joy .

    That is interesting what you said about your inhibitions was there anything that shocked you I that you were ok with doing?

    If you don't mind me asking
     
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    Yes it is a great way to control yourself. My wife put me in chastity just for that reason. My wife is a hotwife and I a cuckold male. But she found me on adult sites, and added chastity to keep me under control.
     
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    Hope that is going well for you Tony, does your wife allow you to watch her or are you not allowed to watch any sexual acts?

    If you don't mind me asking.
     
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    The 64K question, are you a cuck when your wife is doing another girl or playing with herself while you watch? Everyone article or definition says a cuck is a guy who either enjoys knowing or watches or is forced to watch his wife have sex with another guy. Maybe years ago when we were swingers I was a cuck, but this hasn't happened in years.

    As I have gotten older and went on blood pressure meds, erections are not like they were. I do get some growth from time to time, but nothing that becomes uncomfortable while caged. Now if my wife wants to prove a point, she will slip some sildenafil into my water. I can feel becoming flush so I know she is up to something. At that point I know its going to be one of a few things, I will be let out for sex, I will get a caged teasing session, or taken to the dungeon. When I have a full dosage of ED medication, I can hammer nails again. So I am like on breath away from bending the steel bars and it does get uncomfortable but worth it.
     
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    I suppose it is not a cuck experience if she is not with a guy, but I am definitely not an expert on the matter.

    Hope the medication goes well with your blood pressure .

    Has it ever gotten to uncomfortable that you had to be released early?

    Regards
     
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    I'm not allowed to watch, take part in , or even know who her lover is. I 'm not even allowed to see her naked , or partially undressed. We have separate bedrooms. I'm not allowed to touch her in any area that is normally covered by a bra and panties. That is for her lover or lovers only .
    I live my sex life vicariously through her. She will come home and if her lover did his job and satisfied her, she will come home and come to my bedroom. She will let me undress. She will unlock me . She will tell me in detail about her date , what he did to her, how she felt, how it made her feel. She will have me close my eyes , and have me imagine I'm her. So I become her in my mind. She will let me jerk myself off as she tells me. When I cum, she will allow me to shower and wash . This is the time that the cb6000s is left soaking in disinfectant. Then I'm locked back in.
    If she isn't satisfied when she gets home, which happens sometimes, not a lot , but it does happen. She will tell me in detail what happened what they did . But will not unlock me. The deal is by our contract, if she's satisfied , I get to orgasum. But if she is sexualy frustrated, them so am I.
    I can't satisfy her, or take care of her needs. If you look at my pictures you will see why . So this way I have a happy satisfied wife , and and my needs are taken care of.
    She is a hotwife, I'm a cuckold. She is dominant, I'm submissive . So this works for both of us.
     
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    That is a very interesting dynamic, you must be very mentally strong to be able to keep up with it.

    I don't think I would be able to be a cuck but I haven't had a girlfriend so I don't know maybe in the future I can't say.

    Glad you found something that keeps you both happy
     
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    Wow just had a Google for Lyla Storm and had to close the browser after a couple of mins I don't want to go down that rabbit hole
     
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    It sort of revs me up, knowing i can't get a release. Most of my 'porn' is pretty soft. Being fem, i love to look at lovely ladies in lingerie, foundations, pretty outfits, shoes, etc. Honestly, as much for the fashion as for their physical features. Also chastity photos, some BDSM, and lesbian love.
     
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    Ok interesting, I have a similar reaction to polkadot dress or body suits.

    Not sure what it is but I very attractived to the polkadot style.

    I understand that feeling about I not being able to released
     
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    Well it's just that I can not satisfy her. I do not have the stamina, control , or size to give a woman what she needs. Sex between us was nothing but stress and frustration for both of us. This solves the need she has, and relieves me from the stress of trying to provide to her what I can't.
     
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    Well I hope you are happier now, thank you for sharing on the thread
     
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    Quite a few in fact. The first one seems silly in retrospect. ‘Youre a ponyboy, else why did you buy all that gear? You will stop cutting your hair until I give you permission. It will be at least a year. You will have a ponytail worthy of your status as my pet.’ That fucking freaked me out. I worked at a bank. I am ex-Navy just like He was. Flattop was my cut of choice. Holy Shit. A year without a haircut people would think I had gone mad. But fuck I had an instant painful hardon in my chastity cage. Taking orders from Him always did that to me, and it wasn’t until later He told me that the reaction was a post hypnotic suggestion He implanted. By the time the year was over I had the most beautiful tail down to my waist. I kept until the day He died and in sorrow I cut it and donated it to Lock of Love in His name. Today I am regrowing it during the pandemic lockdown.

    I have never been into pain. He told me that there are differing types of pain and discomfort, and He wanted me to at least experience some of them. Our contract had limits there, unless I would agree, and of course the standard safe words would apply, but my faith in Him was so complete I complied, not without fear though. I discovered I HATE getting pierced, BUT I love having piercings! Pay the price, get the reward.

    I verified that I hate whipping and spanking but adore flogging and enjoy the deepness of it every time.

    One place where we diverged was on piss. He loved piss play, the idea disgusted me. ‘I want to work on that’ He said. ‘Eventually I want you to be piss boy at the dungeon.’ The piss boy carries a small pail for the evening and any Master that need to piss signals the boy, the boy kneels before Him, releases His cock from His pants or whatever, and He pisses into the pail instead of having to use the bathroom. Then you suck His penis clean and put it back into place. Some Masters like to save a little piss as a ‘reward’ and release it into the pissboys throat at the end. This REALLY FUCKNG SQUICKED ME OUT! OMG! my chastity cage made me do it in the end though.

    We started at home, taking it slow. Home piss boy for Master. What could be a better way to start. After the flip, I got to suck His beautiful cock! Im a gagless deep throat expert and He always loved that. There was always a tiny tear of piss left over, but I would suck the cock down my throat so fast usually I couldn’t tell. Usually. Then one day we were out in the yard and he signaled and instead of pissing in the pail He pissed all over me. It was shocking and hot and yellow and somehow I recognized His smell in it. “Piss for Me, pissboy!’ This became a daily thing for a while. He pissed all over my chest and I pissed out my cage.

    Then one day in the house, as I was cleaning His post piss cock, He pisses a squirt down my throat. In shock I went to pull off His dick but He grabbed my head and rammed it home deep and told me to keep swallowing. There wasn’t much more anyway, and then he deep fucked my face and came so hard, He must have been wanting to do that for a very long time.

    I will say that I never liked the taste. I still don’t. But it doesn’t make me sick to think about anymore, being pissboy at the dungeon was a fun time after that training since Man how many cocks I got to meet head to head, AND i made Him Proud to be His property.

    Other things too like out in public in my pony gear, He taught me how to be the TOP boy in a group of boys, so I guess that makes me a switch because some Masters like to be Topped by trusted bottoms from time to time… And in a group, when everybody is a sub, SOMEBODY needs to take control! And I discovered that I have a decent streak of Top in me too.

    There is so much we tried together. Fisting, tattoos, sounds, latex, breath control, poppers, lots of hypnosis, Bondage. Beloved bondage. About every kind you can dream up.

    The common denominator though, from the start to the end until this very day is chastity play.

    Though now that He is gone I carry my own key and continue in honor of the worlds of wonder He opened for me.
     
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