Change of mind

Been an interesting few days. My wife is travelling abroad to see family far and wide (work for me unfortunately). I needed to help in Court a few days after she left, which required unlocking my JailBird for security scans. So the evening before she left she had me stay put while she retrieved the key from her secret location. She then spoke to me in no uncertain terms about what was expected in terms of behaviour in her absence. No masturbation of any kind. Then she invited me to pussy worship. Even though the key was there, she did not unlock me, and we both had a wonderful time. A very hot experience.

A couple of days later I unlocked for Court. The JailBird had been on for over 23 weeks without any removal at all, (not for cleaning or anything, since cleaning was easy externally), so this was a big thing. Everything was fine. There were compression rings on my skin from where the skin had been scrunched up and a couple of slightly sore patches, but nothing worrisome [I have put a photo on my Gallery NewLife to be informative about the effect of a long lockup in a comfortable device with great attention to skin care.] There did not appear to be any significant size effects. I couldn't get a good erection but didn't try too hard as I didn't want to be tempted! I locked back up the same day so can't say anything more about erections or anything related. Most annoyingly Court was adjourned after just 2 hours...

 

Well we typically have a hug and kiss after sex, a sort of "mm that was nice" but quite brief. We do a lot of spooning cuddling in bed generally though, often with her hand draped over the cage which I find quite intense. I do agree, cuddling is great.

 

My wife has been off mega travelling seeing family while I have been working.
Australia, NZ and more. More than a month away but now returned. Our house guests have been around much of that time (extending the original plan, which is fine) and so I have been getting regular hugs from a beautiful woman half my age which is both lovely but also highly disconcerting, especially in my locked state.

After several days of my wife recovering from jet lag, yesterday I couldn't wait any longer for some pussy worship and plunged my head betwen her legs and started eagerly licking and caressing with my tongue, with us in a 69 position. Usually I'm invited to do this, so I wasn't sure what reaction I would get. Fortunately it was a good one and soon she was responding, stroking my inner thighs and circling the ring of the cage with her fingers. She came several times and then pushed my head away. After a minute to recover she carried on teasing, running her hands over my chest and arms, down to the ring of the cage, being careful not to touch my penis at all. After about ten minutes she said "that was very nice" which signalled time to stop.

It had been a long hiatus and it took me a good time to recover my composure afterwards.

 

A cold and dark winter afternoon, following a busy morning, nobody else around. A good chance to have a nap and snuggle in bed. When we woke up refreshed we enjoyed a nice session of her teasing me to distraction while I provided some nice oral orgasms for her. Before we got up to resume the day I said how nice that had been, a great way to spend a dark and cold winter afternoon. She replied "a great way to spend any time anywhere."
What a nice comment. Made me melt inside.

 

Yes. In the form of a warm embrace.

 

The end of November is a busy time for us with both our birthdays plus wedding anniversary. A bit before, I said to my wife "what shall we do about a cake? " Using her best FLR style she replied "you are making one," which turned out well fortunately. We celebrated our anniversary with a trip to see the Royal Shakespeare Company. Good fun. As expected, the period passed without any suggestion of an unlocking. But finished by her popping her head round the bathroom door and saying to me "I'm shaving my pussy sometime in the next few days and you know what I will expect when I do." A great tease: I've had that image in my mind continuously since then!

 

Yesterday, while giving her oral in the 69 position, I was particularly aware of all the really strong muscles contractions going on in her abdomen as she came several times. When she told me "enough, stop" I commented on that, saying how lucky she is to have such great orgasms compared to those of a typical male. She said "so you don't get such contractions when you spurt?" I pointed out that it was 21 months since she had indulged me, and as far as I could remember, I had no such equivalent muscle contractions that far from my groin. She replied "oh, that's too bad". Which did she mean, the 21 months or the contractions?!

 

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Yes indeed. I said to her this morning that I had read recently that sex communication gets worse as a relationship gets longer causing "needs" not being met. She said she thought communication should become intuitive, "you know what I want and I know what you need".

 

Well it is now more than a year since I was "permanently locked". The JB cage has proved to be totally unproblematic, has not needed to be removed for cleaning, and my skin seems to have fully adjusted to the presence of the cage. Milking and leaking provide (some) relief and security checks lead to an occasional unlocking (the last six months ago). It's been challenging for sure, and a very interesting experience which seems set to continue.

 

A little while after my last posting I was unlocked for a security check for travel to France. As explained above I had been in chastity for a long time. What changes were noticeable? The most obvious were the bar marks on my penis which resembled scars. Also I was maybe an inch shorter when erect. I had been expecting to be locked back up promptly but this did not happen; however, I was required to stay orgasm free. After a few days I noticed that the bar marks were still very obvious, but that my size had returned to approximately that before "permanent chastity" started a year earlier. The days passed and I struggled to stay orgasm free. Once back home, as I was about to lock up again, I noticed a split in my skin which took several days to fully heal. In total I was out just less than three weeks before being relocked. During that time I was teased and sorely tempted, but had managed to stay orgasm free. Just. So my next spell of "permanent chastity"began. I was pleased I had passed the test, but wonder how much longer I could have gone unlocked before temptation and frustration would have got the better of me.

 

Fifteen weeks since I was relocked. No cage removal at all. With no security checks on the horizon, this could be a *long* stint. Apart from for pissing, my cock has only one function now, to be the conduit for the spontaneous non-orgasmic emissions, drips and leaks. Unpredictable and potentially embarrassing. and increasingly frequent!