My wife recently returned from a long trip and we had the chance for some intimacy for the first time in 5 weeks. Afterwards, relaxed, she told me that she has had a change of mind on penetration and it was now back on the agenda (after over 2 years). Wow, no objections from me. But most if not all such occasions will not result in ejaculation for me. She said that she was sticking to the "between 1 and 6 orgasms a year" for me; I don't know how many or when they will be. And that for some or all of them the cage will not be removed. Nice to see her telling me what she wants and how things will be in a no-nonsense way!