Cant wear balltrap long term

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    I've been trying to get into chastity full time/long term for years and have about 15 different devices and have the same problem with each, to varying degrees.

    I get a bad raw skin sore under the ball ring. I've tried different sizes and different lubes but always the same problem. My scrotum is striped with scars at this point from the raw red sores that turn white with infection in just a couple days.

    I'm high and tight so the ring needs to be tight and/or the gap small or the balls slip out. Plus I'm a grower so at night it tries to tear my balls off (see pic in gallery) causing further skin damage. The most I've ever been able to go is just 4 days! By then it's raw skin with white spots. Sweating makes it worse faster.

    I've read just about everything there is to read on the web about wearing a device (that's how I found this great site 4 or 5 years ago) but I'm still unable to wear a device long term.

    I recently got a device with a smaller gap than most and that was helpful but still the problem persists. I'm going to try this one with a bigger ring to see if it stays on and is loose enough to not pinch the skin so badly. If that doesnt work I'm out of ideas, and I doubt it will make enough of a difference to get me from days to weeks/months.

    I have a full belt on the way that I bought out of desperation. Cheap chinese. After that I'm out of ideas.




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    Sounds like you're ready to consider a PA piercing and a tube-only device.
     
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    That's where I'd like to go, if I can ever get Miss's permission.
     
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    Ideas:

    Have you varied the materials? Perhaps you're reacting to something.

    Have you tried without lotion? That stuff weakens the skin.
     
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    I'm in the same boat. Typically after a few weeks the skin of my scrotum is so raw and tender nothing can touch it. I am still trying variations of different cages and different lubes/lotions and different panties. All down to being really high and tight and a grower.
    Best I can do for now is rotate beween cages because different cages affect different parts of the scrotum in different ways.
    Hope you find an answer (and share! :) )
     
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    Hi Giles, yes I've tried plastic and steel and while the steel is usually better it's still not good enough. I suspect that the chinese steel may be more pitted or porous on the micro scale which may harbor bacteria I dont know this to be the case and finding out would be expensive.
    If I knew it would do the job I'd pay the price but as a big maybe I cant.

    I dont even have a Domme anymore so that doesnt help. If I were in a committed D/s relationship I would get my dick pierced no problem, but on my own it's sort of a bridge too far.

    I've been trying the no lube method lately and it helps for a while but then the issues return.

    I've got the bigger ring for the good fitting cage coming ( the one with the gap measurments) - but the full belt should be here first, this month. I dont see me being able to wear it undetected, especially in summer, but perhaps in the fall/ winter.
     
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    OK possibly stupid question, but what's your hygiene routine?
     
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    Same here. Now just use a device for a few days before a special event as a token.
     
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    No it's a good question. I wash down there with a cloth in the shower by pulling some more skin through, washing it and letting it slip back under the ring after rinsing. Then I do the same when drying.
    But I do think it has something to do with bacteria because of how much faster it gets bad when I sweat.

    I also have a lot of flesh down there. Both a lot of scrotum skin (stretched out worse now from all the cage wearing) and fatty tissue in front of the pubic bone area making a " pillow". Coupled with the high balls it certainly complicates things. The many folds or "pleats" of skin passing under the ring all get pinched at the points of each crease under the ring and those points are what turn raw first.

    And of course the folds trap and hold moisture too.
     
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    I might be an outlier, but I got mine without telling her about it till afterwards. We were married for 27 years though at the time. She was going to be away for a week, so I built up the nerve and got it done. Happy ever since.
     
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