Can't have baby

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    So my and the wife have tried now for a month and still cant get pregnant. :(
    She saw her dr before the virus hit apparently everything was good down there for her so it's something to do with my Hardware. I knew my dick was worthless but I didn't think it was this worthless :(
     
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    Don't jump to any conclusions it's been a month. Entirely healthy couples can take some time to conceive. Relax and enjoy trying.
     
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    This is the 2ed time we tried we tried back in the summer for about 3 months and now with this coronavirus were doing it like twice a day every day and before that we were doing it once a day for like a month and still nothing. If I was going to get her pregnant it would have happened already.
     
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    I don't know maybe you're right maybe I'm just overreacting it's just I already know it's small and it doesn't please her. And now this I almost just want to cut it off balls and all. But I like to live so I won't
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    You may need to read up on human reproduction. The odds of getting pregnant for most of the month are not very good.

    It sounds like you are very much into humiliation etc. Worthless cock, wanting to stay limp, want wife to cuckold me, too small, can’t even get her pregnant. I get it, that stuff turns a lot of people on. Your mixing fantasy and asking for advice. Seems like you might be fishing for someone to engage in humiliating you.
     
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    Not all true yes I am into humiliation. However I do have anxiety issues and self esteem issues as well as a few other mental health problems. I just feel generally worthless, especially when it comes to my wife. She's like a god and am just not good ok. Like am not trying to bait anyone ok I just have a lot of thoughts and it's just easier if I just let em out instead of keeping them inside
     
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    And I'll admit I dont know a lot about this stuff I musta ditched health class lol but like it's just super stressful for me right now with all my mental health issues plus this virus. Like I cant function most days idk what i would do if it wernt for my pills they keep me going even if it's just adrift
     
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    Oh and I only brought that up in other thread cuz am just so frustrated it wasn't the main thought I had when I made the original post
     
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    Best wishes to you and your Wife
     
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    Firstly was your wife on the pill? and if so for how long. This does play a role in it. I too have anxiety issues and when we tried and tried for second child nothing. So we gave up stop putting preasure on ourselves 1 mth later she was. Also has your wife taken her temp every morning. Most women will tell you that there is a certain time of the month that they are more likely to get preg.
    Just relax and have fun and see.
    All the best to the 2 of you
     
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    This was us last year. We were trying an nothing. Once we stopped trying, and just let it take its course, there was the "+" on the stick.

    Don't worry, stressing about only makes it worse, relax and enjoy.
     
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    Thank you but all of this has made me realize I need to work on myself first. I need to get into a better mental state. How can I expect to care for another person, when I can't even take care of myself right now.
    It doesn't mean having kids are off the table forever just a bit
     
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    Hi man sorry to read you have mental health issues. I myself also had some issues I am out the other side and now am completely healthy and no problems and now I am looking after myself a lot better,
    Don’t be so hard on yourself and relax and you have a lot of people here in the mansion hoping you get back to been normal (what ever that is).
     
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    Several couples I have known who were trying so hard to get pregnant succeeded only when they took a break and stopped trying. My ex and I were using the rhythm method of checking her temperature to find when she ovulated to avoid getting pregnant. Then we both got a cold and had minor fevers and now I have a 16 year old daughter... So perhaps relax and enjoy the journey instead of trying so hard.
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    Banana's are supposed to be good for male semen but like multivitamin supplements they take time to reach a peak in the body before making any daily impact on you.

    Also each woman has a fertility peak in her monthly cycle and there is apps to help you track that or you simply track it via a written calander.

    Some men produce more semen quickly a day or two after ejaculation refilling the cup as it were and some don't they absorb it back in the body quickly.

    Another is maybe using a prostate massager during sex to help expell extra semen during ejaculation.

    Sex positions also can make a difference, deeper penetrative positions to get closer to the cervix and hold there for a minute if possible.


    Hope it all works out and try not to get discouraged as that negative mental state won't help you or your soon to be baby momma.
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    Wait for a bit anyway. You don’t want your baby to be part of the coronials!
     
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    Some couples try for years before it happens. Also trying a couple of times a day means that each shot has very little sperm and it has to find the hole to swim in
     
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    good luck and stay positive, that will help all in the long run
     
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    A month is nothing when trying to conceive. Chin up buddy.
     
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    And then there's the worries of miscarriages and other complications....

    I know of a couple in which the lady had around 7 pregnancy mishaps, between the births of their 2 healthy kids. But this is seemingly not the problem here.
     
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    I haven't told my wife but I think the tease and denial we had been experimenting with actually helped our chances to conceive by increasing my sperm count which had been borderline in the past! Don't get upset have faith. Good Luck!
     
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    Not by doing it everyday! Save it up!
     
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    Yes thinkin this thread is BULLSHIT
     
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    I don't think most doctors will even look at this unless you have been trying for 6-12 months.
     
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