Cages for well endowed guys?

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    Hey all, glad to find a place where I can ask these questions!

    My wife and I have recently opened up to more sexual exploration.

    We want to try a chastity cage on me, but we have not been able to find anything even remotely big enough..

    I am between 5" and 5.5", with a diameter of about 2.5", while flaccid,
    And I'm around 7.5" to 8" with a diameter of about 3.25", while erect.

    I also get extremely hard while erect. Like a solid rock all the way to the tip. I've seen people with erections that look quite soft compared to how I get.

    So our question is, do they make a cage big enough for me? Is it safe to cage such a penis this size that gets so stiff?

    Thanks in advance!
     
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    You’ll need to go custom.
    It’s perfectly safe!
    Keep the size snug. You don’t want any extra length. The tip should be at the end. Keep the width close to your flaccid girth.

    Have you tried any cock rings?

    You didn’t mention your base ring diameter versus your shaft diameter. That’s a factor too.

    Good luck. You really won’t find much off the shelf.
     
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    Have tried a couple rings, they just don't fit. 3" was the biggest available. How do I measure my base diameter?
     
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    I have the opposite problems an after trying all the popular off the shelf devices I went custom with Mature Metal. You lengthy will not be a problem as the cage should be as long as your flaccid size so as to prevent an erection. If I was as big as you my wife would not want me locked up. :) I think the real problem is not in finding a custom one but one that is not going to bulge through your pants when you go out. I want mine to bulge so it looks like I am bigger than I really am but it is only 1 1/4" long so it never shows.
     
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    Being big isn't all good.. my wife and I can't have any sort of comfortable intercourse. I got teased growing up because people always thought I had an erection when I most certainly didn't. And it outright scared some girls away, and didn't work well with the ones who were brave enough to stick around.
     
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    And I don't go out much anymore, I mostly will be locked while home. She works nowadays.
     
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    You are above average but not beyond chastity. Go to dhgate or aliexpress and buy a few different inexpensive cages to experiment with sizing. Smaller is better, believe it or not, don't let him get a running start. 7+ here in the A273-small.
     
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    Joking... Forgive me for rolling my eyes. They don’t teach kids in school anything anymore... or does all the blood go to your cock? ... ;)

    You can find your circumference with some string, or some rope and a ruler. Or a cloth measuring tape. Wrap it around your base, snugly, and mark where it overlaps, and measure the length. Divide by pi = 3.14159

    9.5” circumference gets you 3.02” diameter.

    A custom manufacturer of chastity could make you any size ring. Though they’d ask you to double check your measurements since your length and girth are beyond expectations.

    I think a “huge caged beast” would be fun. People conflate small penises with chastity for some reason.

    Get your measurements certain right first, then find a cage.

    Also make sure you’re measuring when you’re really flaccid. Wear clothes. Do some physical activity. Don’t think about your cock or chastity. Then whip it out and make some measurements.

    Your flaccid size seems rather large. So ensure you’re measuring your flaccid girth and length when fully relaxed, and not half hard.

    An open style cage would be fun for you.
    I now wear a cage that’s slightly smaller than my largest flaccid diameter - my glans - and I rest comfortably in it during the day. But I can’t fit into a solid cage in that diameter

    You’d have to contact a custom manufacturer directly as you’re breaking most drop down menus for options ;)

    I had my Contender made by MaleChastityNow.com via personal email. Mark handled lots of questions professionally.

    Congratulations on beginning your journey. When you do end up in chastity I’m sure there’d be people interested in hearing about it. Good luck!
     
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    Definitely completely flaccid measurements. Only smaller ever if it's pretty darn cold lol!

    My wife says flaccid I look like most guys erect.

    I do understand how to measure, I meant where do we consider the base? Behind the scrotum? Thats gonna be a big ring.. I can't even fit my hand around my "base" while flaccid.
     
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    please @Awek99 if you cud please put a piccy in the gallrey of your willy then we can see it and then it will be better for us to say whats best for it. i dont think it will be hurt just cos its very very stiff tho.
     
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    The base ring goes between your abdomen and ball sac, so that it where you measure. When you pull the string or tape tight, make sure you can still slip your index finger inside the tape to the first joint.
     
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    I think i should stick rigth here, i dont have as big as yours but it is bigger than the average, 5" soft and "only" 6.5" hard, to cage it only matters how it is soft, i have looked and all the cages are smaller than mine flacid and even i has seen others than can do it like

    https://onlyshecums.tumblr.com/post/174532328321/weve-never-tried-this-style-of-chastity-where
    http://cagedjock.tumblr.com/post/156065834126/the-number-1-reminder-your-mind-is-much-stronger
    http://curiouscris1919.tumblr.com/post/173768430426/for-anyone-who-thinks-you-cant-fit-an
    https://chastityfrench.tumblr.com/post/160130406397/never-say-its-not-possible-it-is-and-its

    I dont think we will be able to do that the first time we try but i dont know what to think
     
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    If you’ve tried cock rings that don’t fit, you know what a base ring is. It goes behind your balls.

    Go look at the steel and rubber cock rings on male-essentials.net
    I’ve bought from them before.

    They do sell a basic steel cock ring that’s 3” in diameter. Buy that and a 2.5” ring. They are cheap. Wear it for a while and get comfortable. It should be snug. Your balls shouldn’t get cold. You should be able to fit a fingertip under the ring for safety.

    http://male-essentials.com/Basic-Stainless-Steel-Wire-Rings-SSBS.htm

    You can also get other base rings to wear around your girthy shaft and just behind your cock head /glans. These are a few dollars. Very cost effective and are fun toys anyway.

    Once you’re comfortable wearing a base ring / cock ring and perhaps a cage ring / shaft ring then you can feel confident in buying a custom steel device.

    Your best option for an entry point in such a large size is fully custom. Go see Mark Zemanek at MaleChastityNow for a Contender cage. He’s probably the least expensive custom option you have. He’s also polite and professional - though anyone would be shocked by your measurements at first.

    http://www.malechastitynow.com/
     
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    Me and my wife wish I had a cock that big. She says if I did I could fuck her anytime I wanted and wouldn't have to stay lock up. I'm the same size as you flacid when im fully hard!
     
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    As an aside...i have found that after wearing a Holy Trainer most of the last year...that although I initially had a 45mm ring which fit....I must have "shrunk" as i had to get a 40mm ring.....which has been fine...but i am beginning to think that i may need to go to the smallest 36mm ring. Obviously something is happening to me by using a chastity device. :)
     
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    Another aside....... I used to think that bigger was better and was really jealous of guys with big cocks, but now I see it as a liability since I am no longer focused on it and, in fact, kinda wished it were even smaller! Funny what enough time in the cage will do to your value system!
     
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    One other advantage to smaller...it is that panties fit better :)
     
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    I'm 8" fully erect, and my device is the Curve. It's designed for the longer penis to be caged.
     
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    Contact Mature Metal

    They'll make one custom for you and the prices aren't bad. In fact once you screw around with a bunch of off the shelf ones you'll find that the MM is actually cheaper in the long run.
     
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    I agree, I was unlucky enough to meet men who was very "gifted" and it wasn't very fun or comfortable at all so I totally understand. :(
     
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    As do ladies jeans!
     
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    @Cuckoldhung you should get the smallest cage that is at all comfortable when soft. It will prevent those nasty erections, which in your case, are of little value any more!
     
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    To be honest, I think you doth protest too much. You're big but not that big.
     
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