Buddy system?

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    I wonder what ppl think of a buddy system, for mutual encouragement and wheel of misfortune to keep things interesting when having a lull with KH, basically when doing it alone..?

    I'm doing honour system at present so I'm relying very much on will power.
     
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    Not a bad idea.

    Could also be a good way train for longer term wear.

    This could work.

    Iso.
     
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    Could be an interesting idea. I'm sure a few would take this up
     
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    I'd be interested because i don't know when I'll have a KH. Wouldn't be able to join right away because my off the shelf cage doesn't really fit. Gotta save up for a better one.
     
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    I think this is a great idea . I'm sure there's lots of self lockers out there who would enjoy this .
     
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    As someone who self locks i would quite often quickly give in to temptation. My solution to this was I purchased two digital timed padlocks from a well known online store beginning with A.

    I then put both keys for my holy trainer onto a small padlock along with both keys to that padlock and close it. I then use one of the timed padlocks on that padlock and secure them up high in a closet where its out of reach of my cage. I set the time for 24 hours (for safety) providing all is well the following day i can then fit the second timed lock before the first runs out. And put the first padlock onto a USB charger and so on.

    Hope this gives others some ideas.
     
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    So what do you have in mind?

    Some type of app?

    Have us holding keys/numbers for each other? As long as it is not sexual in nature, I would be open to holding a key for someone if they needed help.

    I am a chronic masturbator and I find the just wearing a cage gets me to stop. All of my locking is self-locking because my Wife wants nothing to do with Chastity. I know others are in the same boat.

    I fully believe that they type of masterbation I did was an addiction. I was and still am addicted to the endorphin rush I get with an orgasm.

    Talking with someone or holding their key would be the same as anyone else asking for help to stay clean/sober/on the right path.

    Iso.
     
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    A support group would be a good idea to help each other stay strong. even if you don't give up control of keys.
     
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