my Wife and i have been together for 12 years, married for three. We have discussed just about all of our fantasies and kinks with each other. We have played with strapons and blindfolds and those erotic drinking games from the stag shop. So we are not total strangers to stuff outside of the realm of vanilla. Anyway, this year, as a lark i asked Her if we could visit a proDomme together. Surprisingly, She said yes! Well, the session opened the gates a little. She is now a little more dominant than before. Asking for more massages, leaving more directions to do some of the cleaning She used to do, and generally taking on a more expectant tone when talking to me. As of a day ago (last night, actually), She asked that i start using lower case when referring to myself and upper case when referring to Her in texts. Just in case, i've started here too. Better to be safe than sorry. i haven't disobeyed yet and to be honest, i have no intention of doing so. i took another chance a couple weeks ago and asked Her if She would let me get a chastity device (we used one in the session and i really liked the loss of control). Again, She said yes. We searched online together and opted to get 2. One from Craigslist from someone local and one from eBay. They both look very similar (if not the same), but having read horror stories about eBay Chinese purchases, we decided to hedge our bets. That's where i am now. Waiting for 2 devices. Both should be here by the end of September. The eBay one will take a couple weeks to arrive and the Craigslist one, we will meet the guy when he comes back from vacation in a week and change. i'm unsure whether Her dominance is a phase, residual excitement from the session, or if She really is going to take us on the FLR journey. Either way, i will enjoy (perhaps regret a little ) the scenery and scenario while it lasts. i also have pushed no expectations onto Her. i really do want Her to take it at Her own pace and don't want to rush or pressure Her. i've read too many things about wives getting burnt out or tired because of their husbands pushing too much. When the device comes, i will ask Her to click the lock Herself and take the keys. That's it. i won't make any rules or whatever, just let Her decide the flow. Updates to follow if/when there is anything to update. In the meantime, do feel free to message or ask questions on this thread. Sorry if it seems disjointed. i just type and let the words come out.