British expat, new to chastity

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    Just checking in. I found this place recently and I love it. I'm having my first experience of chastity and control. I don't use a belt or device yet, because they're not available where I am, so it's being done on the "honour" system, under the control of a professional domme. I'm on day 12, and I have just found out that I'm allowed to cum this evening, under quite strict and not entirely pleasant conditions! I'm so looking forward to it, as the last few days especially have had me getting very easily aroused, and feeling extremely frustrated. I also think I'm starting to get what they call "blue balls", which is something I never experienced before.

    Anyway, you'll probably see me around on here, and I'll keep you up to date on how I get on with chastity, and when/if I ever get a device.

    Steerpike.
     
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    Welcome to the site steerpike I am sure you will enjoy alot of useful information and friendships here.

    Mistress Michelle:sex020:
     
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    I'm sure too - there doesn't seem to be another forum quite like this one!
     
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    Mistress Watchful Dont believe the hype ;oP

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    Welcome and congratulations on your predicament!

    I'm glad you like the site, hopefully you will gain lots from it and our wonderful members.

    Can I ask where you are (approximately) that means you can't get hold of a device? :animal0008:
     
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    Not the ideal place for chastity

    Hello Mistress Watchful,

    Thanks for the congratulations. It's a very welcoming site. Unfortunately, I'm out of my predicament now. I signed up for a certain period of chastity control, and while it was certainly fun and exciting, it was disappointing in a couple of ways. One: I basically deciding myself how long the chastity period. I signed up for a week, although it did get extended to 12 days. Still, it felt a bit like "topping from the bottom". Two: it was a one off. After it's over I can do what I want, it's not on-going, although I can always sign up again. However, the domme was quite imaginitive in handing out tasks to be done, and in making the ending quite memorable (and somewhat painful!).

    It's a compromise for the time being, as I'm new to chastity, and I don't have a keyholder. Or in fact, a device to hold the keys to! I'm in the UAE, near to Dubai, so as you can probably imagine, there are no "sex" shops, and even ordering a chastity belt by mail order would probably get me into a lot of trouble! But I'll hopefully be back in the UK in the next few months, and I'll be sure to pick one up while I'm there. Ideally, I want to NOT decide when I get out, and I want it to be more ongoing. I.e. if I do get a treat, it should still be straight back into the device afterwards, not a nice period of freedom until I get back into the fantasy mood. Like now: I'm out, I'm free, but I'm not 100% happy with that! I think I'm the sort of person who would really like to work off a contract. Once I agree to something in writing, I know I'll stick with it.

    Yes, I think the site if wonderful. I like the fact that it has a lot of real people getting to grips with how to live with chastity etc. Since I want to make it a real part of my life (instead of purely a fantasy), I think this is the right place for me. I'm also very interested in the whole sissy maid scenario too, but at the moment it's purely fantasy, and I don't dress up or anything. Of course, I keep hearing "be careful what you wish for", and it keeps making me just want it more! :animal0028:

    I'm sorry to see your mood is "crappy"! I hope it gets better soon.

    Steerpike
     
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