Boi and gurl

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    I've seen this a lot in profile names. anyone know where it came from? It seems to be mainly a sissy thing, but not exclusively.

    I find it quite annoying, no offence to the bois and gurls! :)
     
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    I had just assumed these terms were slang... Maybe an inefficient evolution of txt spk.
    All the cool kids are at it on non fetish platforms.
     
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    It makes sense when you see teenagers saying it, but not 50, 60, 70 year olds :)
     
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    Ah, I had never considered it was the older generations.... Don't they have their own slang? :p
     
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    I've always seen gurl as a phonetic equivalent to girl, while at the same time delineating that there's still a difference, generally used for someone in the transgender umbrella that's not a cis female. That does make it low key derogatory for either the side of it being that a gurl is less than a man for not being hyper-masculine, while from the TERF side, it disregards those who are girls in all ways that matter save what may be between their legs

    As I have little experience with it, I had to look up the accepted definition for 'boi', and it seems to be normally considered the opposite. A descriptor for a butch femme or a female to male transgender person. It still has the potential to be derogatory, as it's identifying a person as not 'really' a boy
     
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    I thought bois were androgynous (almost universally short-haired) women. They are in other places I exist. I haven't seen men (in any form or fashion) using that term.
     
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    I went ahead and referred to wikipedia for that since, like I said, I don't have much personal experience
     
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    I always assumed gurl was a mix of guy and girl lol
     
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    I thought boi was what older homosexual dominants called their submissive younger male sex partners
    and gurl was just some guy who dressed as a woman and took a female role during sex with other men.
     
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    It seems everyone has their own definition of what they mean, and some just use the words because they like the look of them :)
     
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    You're right, it is prevalent among sissies, kind of an othering of sissies. To separate them from men and women.

    Outside of that, it is pretty infantilizing. Maybe a general humiliation thing?

    Lastly, it is common among doggo meme fans, that have adopted a butchering of the English language as a second language.
     
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    I believe it is an attempt to show non-binary reflection of gender/sexuality in a binary context with minimal change.

    E.g (and apologizes for the crassness) The gurl with her lady cock took the boi's pussy ...
     
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    Annoys the life out of me too, but then again lots of things about modern use of the language annoy me :D

    I'd thought gurl was the preserve of the sissy community too. Portmanteau (sigh) of guy & girl.
    Boi I thought meant androgyne of either gender. Exquisite.
    Sadly ruined foever when it got co-opted by flabby hairy-arsed seventy year old men trying on the wife's knickers while she's out down the shops.
     
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    Language moves and evolves sometimes despite our best efforts
     
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    In my experience, bois are bottom or possibly switch males.

    Gurl was used quite a bit on CL and other cruising sites to indicate that while one may look or present as feminine (or feminized) they are in fact men that are crossdressing.

    Some may find that annoying, but it's not nearly as annoying as having the daylights beaten out of you by someone that thinks they are flirting with a woman that turns out to be a man.

    Transsexuals and crossdressers are still being beaten and killed for being gay, even in 2018.

    And what difference does it make to anyone how some other individual chooses to identify themselves? This is supposed to be a sex-positive website, isn't it?

    And BTW, I have had sexual interactions with deeply closeted 70-plus-year-old married men, and I can tell you with unwavering certainty that they have feelings, are quite sexual, and that the closet has done nothing but shame and humiliate them their entire lives. They love their wives and know that their wives would be shattered if they knew the truth about them. So instead they suffice to fulfill their deepest sexual urges when their wives are away and there is no chance they can be caught. They cannot even openly contact me out of fear that their wives will find out about them. The men I know in this situation are trapped in a place that no one wants to be. It's sad. They grew up in a time that many today who are living their truth in their prime of life cannot understand. People that came before us paid those dues for us so we can have the freedom we have today.

    Show some compassion for people that are still paying dues while we have the luxury of being able to express ourselves as we choose. Not everyone has that ability in this lifetime. My heart goes out to these guys every time I meet them. It makes me grateful I have a supportive wife and that we are able to follow our bliss wherever it leads.
     
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    Well said!
     
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    I agree. I am a bisexual male who, as I grew older, preferred men to women. The overwhelming majority of men with whom I had sex wore wedding rings. Depending upon the stage of my life when you asked me about my sexuality I would honestly have said straight (until about 22), bisexual (until 55) and now gay, although I dress and identify as female.
     
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