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    subbutstillaman Senior Member

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    To the Sub Males,

    Does being in chastity make you lose your sex drive and desire?

    Or if it improves it how does being in chastity improve it for you?
     
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    It gets stronger

    The two times I have done chastity were both for 60 days and in both cases the drive grew stronger. In my case my inhibitions melted away and my bisexuality became more pronounced. I have always been addicted to porn and a chronic masturbator. Just because I can't do one doesn't mean I stop looking at the porn. So the porn gets me aroused and the wife benefits by me spending more time pleasuring her with my mouth, hands and anything else I can find. Over time I become more submissive to her needs while at the same time satisfying my needs for penile contact by using other people's penises. In other words I become a cock slut.

    I will be interested in seeing how others respond to this question.
     
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    Safe to say it drives me into sex over-drive. i too was developing an addiction to the feeling of the "release" that's brought about by the convenience of 'net porn and the freedom to masturbate at will.
    Like mantoy says inhibitions just seem to evaporate and my willingness to submit to anything Mistress desires increases exponentially. :tongue:
    The neat thing about chastity that i have found is that i can still have all sorts of erotic & arousing ideas popping into my mind but since i'm well aware there's no chance for a satisfying release they don't preoccupy me at the expense of focusing on other everyday tasks...work on the job, work for the Mistress etc...
    From experience i've found that without being "locked up" a prolonged period without release and the increased focus on all things sexual usually results in me relieving the pressure myself so i can get a clear head again and focus on other things. Followed by the "reset button" being pushed on the sex drive.:sad:
     
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    I'm another one that it sends into overdrive:tongue:

    I've been asked this question in person before by a friend in the BDSM scene, the best answer I could think of was that....... it feels like when your making love to a woman and your ready to come but your holding back till she has, that exciting in a minute in a minute feeling, well when I'm locked I feel like that 24/7.........

    No bad thing in my book, I'm sure it's different for each of us as we're all individuals so I'll check back to read other peoples answers....:bigsmile:
     
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    I know I'm responding to a very old post.... but this describes exactly how I feel and I wanted to see if this is common.

    Particularly this part: "Over time I become more submissive to her needs while at the same time satisfying my needs for penile contact by using other people's penises. In other words I become a cock slut."

    I also don't mind having my cock locked in chastity permanently since I get to play with other cocks. My wife doesn't like my cock (it's actually her property) and neither do I, we don't use it for anything. We both agree it's better just to keep it locked up (kind of like kept in storage) and we both play with nicer cocks.
     
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