Bio-Opinion Piece - "Real" male Chastity

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    This slave began experimenting / playing with the concept of enforced long term male chastity approximately in the year of 2000. For the most part it always was with the use of its computer / online which many of the uneducated believe can never be “real" enforced chastity. In fact it can be very real if not even more real than the games it continually reads about that are going on here with the vast majority simply having extremely tolerant and loving Wives / Girlfriends which are indulging in Their male’s fantasies to please their selfish desires.

    Over these many year’s technology has obviously greatly improved and so has of course the popularity, quality and security of custom made chastity devices. Women are also rightfully and growingly embracing Their confidence in Their Own natural born Superiority over the male species. With the advent of Skype and other instant online cam and messaging software communications available today, online enforced male chastity has become exceptionally very “real”.

    Online Ownership by a beautiful and dominate Female makes cuckolding entirely practical and takes it to an extreme level. Of course the Female will always be enjoying Herself sexually all of time while your useless member stays locked indefinitely. Being online means your member is absolutely useless to Her after all and nor does your sexual pleasure which does matter in the very least to Her. Why should it?

    Many years quickly passed and this slave’s interests steadily increased into its own growing desire for living a life of submission as a chastity slave Owned by a Female. On New Year’s Eve 2011 it was permitted its last unlocked orgasm. By then it was mentally and completely emotionally dependent on the approval of a Superior Female to be capable of physically having a guilt free pleasurable orgasm.

    Than in the March of 2012 it was made aware of what its true nature had become and it was to be a permanent chastity slave to Women. To serve, provide support, kindness, respect, devotion, happiness and amusement to Women. It has not been unlocked, able to have an erection or orgasm since. All that health talk about the need for having regular orgasms to maintain a healthy prostrate and so on is a complete and total piece of …. myth. A myth created by males for males own selfish pleasure and sexual gratification. This slave has been locked as of today for 2,186 days straight. That is 5.9 years!

    For example, those that claim they are being forced to cross dress by their Dominate, also a complete and total piece of myth. Over time we have a growing desire to accept our deepest and darkest natures and badly need to embrace them. Claiming and pretending that something you can’t admit to yourselves you secretly desire is being forced upon you by someone Superior is exciting but also hilarious to this slave. You are doing it simply because that is what you really need, what you want, what you must have to be your true self mentally, emotionally and sexually.

    Yes, this is a “voluntarily" permanent chastity slave now who completely understands itself and its purpose. Being unselfish, non-narcissistic, useful and worshipping all Females over and beyond its own perversions and embracing all things that stand for Female Supremacy for the betterment of all human kind. This is of course definitely not for the players here or something they can even mentally or emotionally understand who can't live a “real” male chastity lifestyle.

    When you are living a life locked in a chastity device solely and completely for the purposes of pleasing and being devoted only for a Female needs and pleasures and not for your own selfish, kinky and perverse fantasies that get you off sexually in some way which She is simply playing along with because She wants “you" to be selfishly happy, then it will never be “real”. It can never be real until it is no longer about your own ego maniac and narcissistic kinks.

    This slave does not have scheduled release dates or things it can do, must do to earn a release or an orgasm. It lives the chastity lifestyle with the joy of knowing its Female Owner calls all the shots, is always happy, confident and knows that She is Superior at all times and in every way.

    Absolutely, this is only this slave’s personal opinion and its opinion alone which it is extremely grateful to the Owners and Staff of Chasity Mansion for allowing it to freely express.

    Peace and happiness to everyone, whether it be playfully or seriously real.
     
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    It definitely started as a game for us, but now it seems very much more real! The pleasure Mrs Chaste receives from my tongue and her strap on have been my undoing! And the longer I'm left orgasm free the more attentive I am. Absolutely brilliant!
     
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    I fully agree that your experience helps to show what I have believed all along: Men do not "need" to orgasm. Yep, they sure want to, but need is an entirely different matter. The deeper I go, the more I realize this.
     
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    You are an inspiration to all of us starting this lifestyle. Respect for you, my Mistress is one that doesn't want me to orgasm....ever..but it is a difficult concept for me to accept, I used to be a chronic masturbator, but my life has improved and the life of those around me. I would like to cum but more than my basic desire I want to please my Mistress. I am starting to think that I can perhaps suppress my desire for an orgasm if I can make Mistress happy......the feeling I get when I get praise or she tells me I have made her smile.....omg I feel amazing. Thanks for posting this, it has really made me think.
     
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    No one else wants to call Bulls#!% on this? While it’s great that he enjoys his chastity life style and has seemed to progress to point that many will never reach he’s missing two very important points.

    One, there is no one right way to practice chastity. What works for one couple does not work for everyone else. So what if it’s a game? If it’s a game that brings two people closer together are they to be chastised for doing it wrong? I’m sorry, but his attitude seems to be that of a guy who’s reached such a high level in a video game that he thinks all the younger players are just a bunch of ‘newbs’. In stead of using his knowledge to help build people up, he chooses instead to berate them. I guess that makes him no more than a school yard bully.

    Second, it’s about what the KH wants, not the male. Some KH’s don’t want mindless, orgasmless slaves that refer to themselves in the third person. Many of them still want husbands, fathers, companions, and partners. The don’t want to be mistresses all the time. Sometimes they need someone to be strong for them and be their shoulder to cry on.

    Kudos to him on how far he’s gone. On the scale from selfish male to pure submissive he seems to have gotten close to top. Surprisingly, there are those of us who didn’t need chastity to keep us from being selfish. We didn’t need chastity to keep us from porn and masturbation. Some of us did all the things we do in chastity even before chastity started. What kind of man was he before the cage? Regardless of where he started he seems to have forgotten where he came from. He was new at some point as well. Perhaps most importantly, he should have remembered that you should always lead with kindness and love.

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    Breathe Be true to yourself

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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    well i have never ever met anybody that has clammed that they are being made to dress in dresses and things so that not rigt.
     
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    Panda2010 There's a fine line between pleasure and pain

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    Nicely said @jemima
     
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    What is 'real chastity'? A very interesting question and an interesting OP.

    We are all at different stages of our own chastity journeys. My wife and I are at the very beginning of our journey. So I might be a bit naive in what I am about to say. But here is my 2 cents worth.

    From what I have learnt so far, chastity means different things to different people. There is no single right way to do chastity (I suspect there might be wrong ways to go about it :eek:). The 'right way' of doing chastity differs between couples and relationships (and I very much include virtual/online relationships here). So, I don't think there is actually a concept called 'real chastity'.

    What is real for me might seem to be just playing to someone else. For example. I don't bother to count the number or days I have been locked, or the time since my last full orgasm. Does that make my chastity any less real than someone who does keep count? (And I am not casting any nasturtiums on those who keep count. That is there way. It just isn't my way.) And I am not looking to go months on end being locked up without orgasm (maybe this will change over time ;)). But again, I am not taking anything away from those that do it that way. Differences in the way people practice chastity cover a much wider scope than what I have mentioned (for example, incorporating household chores, punishment, etc, etc ...) But the above is just a small example of how my wife and I do chastity differently to others. But this doesn't make it any less real.

    I am not experienced in the world of online chastity, but I read a post from an online Keyholder the other day (sorry, I can't remember who made the post). She made the very valid point that she treats all her subs as individuals and varies what she does with them according to the nature of the individuals concerned.

    So it is a case of different strokes for different folks (pun intended - sorry it was pretty bad).:oops::eek:
     
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    NotSoMuch This chastity is delightfully uncomfortable!

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    Hmm some good point here. I do enjoy xdressing but I would enjoy it more if my wife would pick out what I am to wear and when. Sure not forced dressing but a bit closer to that fantasy.

    My wife is not per say turned on by me being locked up other than it builds the sexual tension and surrendering control. My wife does not approve of me having orgasms that she is not part of. She encourages as much edging as I want with or without her. However when we fool around she almost always wants me to explode in her. I have told her leaving me unsatisfied more often would add to the sexual tension which makes me more attentive to her, but in the moment she either gives in to my visible urge to cumm or needs it.

    It is not all about me, but she loves it when I am so aroused that my nostrils are flared and would hump the bed if I had to for release. However once I do release my urge resets and not as into fooling around for a few days. We are trying to find a good way of giving her what she needs and adding to the sexual frustration for me. I even bought a strap on to fuck her with in hopes it could help but so far have not used it.
     
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