Best captions without feminisation and crossdressing

These are all really hot!

 

These may be hot, but which ones would resonate with a vanilla wife and get her saying that is so hot!?

 

That's a fantastic question! If you ever find out, let me know.

 

I think that's a great question. I've been trying to imagine myself a year ago and what I would have responded to then. I think perhaps, something along the lines of, "This little key? I love the feeling of control it gives me, and I love knowing that it focuses his attention on me. What woman doesn't want her to be totally desperate for her?" And not accompanied by any explicit picture but perhaps a smiling happy, beleivable woman, with the back of a nice male torso slightly unfocused in the background, maybe with his head turned enough to see that he's smiling too.
Just a thought!
While I'm here, can I just say how valuable I've found these captioned photos - an amazing insight into the male mind - even though they're not all quite up my street.

Best wishes, Sal.

 

The one that shows the chaste man gifting his wife a Louis Vuitton bag.

 

I've been thinking about this question some more and realising how much my attitude to chastity has changed over the last year. We were introduced to chastity via a chance playful decision in an adult store. After some months of very occasional play, I came across this site and a lot of the imagery and discussion felt very offputting indeed. It seemed sad, and extreme, and the descriptions of long-term locking were quite upsetting. But I completely lucked out. My few tentative questions were answered patiently by people with sensitivity and good humour. They gave wonderful advice and somehow put the extreme stuff in context so I didn't worry about it. The whole thing became more playful, more fun and more joyful for us both than I could have imagined. A lot of the things on this site are still not for us, but I don't have the same negative reaction that I used to. More curiosity than anything.

And that's where I've found the captions really interesting. Browsing through them has been a quick way for me to get some extra insights into this world. Now, back to your question.

The thing that would have been the biggest draw for me a year ago (and is still right up there in the top few things for me), would have been if someone had pointed out that simply by the use of a little device and a key, I could become the focus of his fantasies. Instead of playing with himself goodness knows when and thinking about whomever, by popping him in a cage, even for a little while, he would spend much more of his time being excited by me. I think someone on this site did point this out but it didn't really sink in straight away.

Another part of this was understanding that I could give him pleasure by taking away his need to make the decisions. He's got a stressful job and other stuff going on in his life which means that ceding control to me, even just for a bit, is a relief for him.

So the kind of captions that might have worked for me would have been things like,
"Imagine him wearing a little device that causes all his fantasies to be focused on you", or
"All I have to do is pop this onto him. While he's wearing it, all his fantasies are focused on me", or
"My man finally admitted the stress of having to take the lead all the time. Now he doesn't have to", or
"This tiny key is surprisingly powerful. It turns his fantasies towards me and puts me in charge for a bit"
"It's not about the lock. This tiny key has brought fun and intimacy, and I love that his fantasies are now directed at me".

Or if you need something more explicit (for further down the line):
"It's not just his orgasms. This little key gives me control of his erections too. That part of him has become 'ours', not just 'his'. We both love that.

Ok, ok, I'm not a caption writer, but you get the idea.

As for the picture, if it were aimed at me, then please, no women without clothes on! Nor in super-high heels and masses of make-up. I'd suggest a woman aged at least 35, in ordinary, informal work clothes. ie Someone I could identify with! They need to look happy and reasonably confidant, that's all.

Sorry to go on - I use this site to get my own thoughts straight.

Sal.

 

Lovely captions. Honest

 

Mature woman? Check.
No fetish gear? Check.
Office clothes? Well, 2 out of 3 ain't bad.



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Actually, if it were aimed at me, it might work even better to have a picture of a decently attractive (but fully clothed!!) man (rather than a woman) with one of those captions I've suggested...

I might have to have a play with photoshop!

Sal

 

I prefer pictures of clothed women that are dressed in an attractive way, but not so outrageously that you wouldn't see them in real life. I like to imagine that I could actually see them.
My Tumblr blog is a collection of what I like: https://anasyrma-love.tumblr.com/archive

 

On this one, I would take out "It takes away all his power" and leave the other two lines. Taking away all his power would have been scary for me a year ago. But of course, I realise this isn't all about me!! Sal.

 

And this one, I'd change to "I always trusted him. But whenever he had his cage on, even his fantasies were only about me". Again - I do understand this isn't just about me but I think that a small library of very unscary captions that men could show their partners might be a useful resource. Sal