Benefits of being locked while at work

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    I wondered if anyone else had some stories on how they appreciated being locked in chastity while at work. I had a vanilla yet awesome experience at work yesterday.

    So I was to meet the six new employees on our graduate program. When I entered I discovered they were all women. Six confident young women in their business attire. As I talked to them I felt very conscious that my penis was locked up, and what that symbolized, submission to female authority.

    This was heightened when one of them asked if the graduate program had ever had an all-female class and I told her this was the first all-female intake. She made a joke that it wouldn't be the last and that was the way things were going! They all laughed and said things like "Exactly!" "Damn right!"

    It almost made me dizzy, to be a secretly locked man, shy supporter of female rule, and hearing and seeing these future female leaders openly celebrating their victory.

    I later got a chance to talk to the women in our office in charge of the program. I tried to casually mention about it being an all-female group. She broke into such a smirk and said no male candidate was even close to them, and she had noticed that female graduates are on the whole much better in interview. I joked that that would lead to most of the management being female in the future and she just stared and smiled and said "Absolutely." I decided to push a little further while appearing to act causal and I said that wouldn't be such a bad thing. She said she was pleased I agreed and it would be a very good thing! It was chillingly awesome to hear her say that. It made me wonder if she's actively seeking to engineer that.

    After work I drove to my partner's home and told her about it. I told her again about how female authority made me feel. She was smiling and nodding throughout and told me this was how it was now, women in charge at work and at home, that I couldn't go back and I had to accept and embrace it! She said about how great it was that women were finally taking charge more. I later did all her and her mom's ironing while we were watching the tv. Them two on the couch, the man, me, standing up doing the ironing to the side. I caught my partner stealing little glances at me and smirking. She told me in bed that she wanted me to do ALL the chores when I was there and not complain. She said she loved seeing the man having to do all the stuff women were previously forced to do and even her mom agreed that it would be nice to do those things less. I obviously was delighted and very happy to agree!

    So that's where we are. She said she will carefully mention to her mom that I want to 'help out more' so in future they should leave the housework to me as I'm there most nights anyway. It will be interesting to see her mother's response to that suggestion.
     
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    I work from home a lot... It's true what they say :)

     
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    I have felt wonderful being locked up in the work world. Being around women knowing you're under lock and key is enough to make you melt with pride and happiness. I love being in the company of women knowing I'm locked up and pantied.
    I think most men if honest would agree that we love being under lock and key of our wives or GF's. It makes me feel safe and protected.
     
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    Absolutely it certainly heightens my appreciation and humility to my female co-workers. You just have to swallow that male pride and accept and embrace female leadership as the future.
     
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    Not 100% sure but I think women "know" when a man's locked up. They sure seem so much friendlier. Like they have nothing to fear like being hit on.
    I love when another woman tells my wife she's trained me well. That makes me so proud. It makes my wife proud as well. Sometimes my wife will respond with "it was tough for him but we finally got there" they all laugh.
     
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    My wife is a very strong independent woman is her mid 50's and says sadly women are still nowhere near to being even on a level playing field in the world of work especially pay.
     
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    She's unfortunately correct, although we are seeing change in my work environment in the approx 30-35 YO group.
     
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    I can only dream of the day when, in the workplace, women know that the men there are caged. That single factor would completely upset the dynamic of the office!

    My only experience in dealing with women in a pulic setting who know I'm caged is at Lane Bryant, where all of the SA's in my local store know me and know that I'm caged (As a result of them questioning the bulge when I was trying on a knit dress once.) I agree that, when women know that you're caged, their defenses are down, they don't feel 'threatened' and you are treated so much differently. Feeling this way, I actually discussed it with a couple of them and they agreed that, with my penis locked up, I somehow am not seen as much of a threat! Isn't it a shame that women have come to feel so threatened?
     
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    Do you find you work improves when locked?

    It would be great to be in an office environment and know all the men were locked up and their efficiency improved :)
     
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    @L-u-c-y , I don't think there is any question that efficiency would be improved. If for no other reason, the mind of the men would be more focused on their work rather than constantly thinking about sexual matters. (Of course, some of us would be enchanted with envy of what the women were wearing, but, at least it would be more like "one of the girls"!)
     
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    I honestly don't think it improves my work performance no. As before I was caged it wasn't like I was distracted all the time. And a cage wouldn't stop those thoughts anyway.

    I'd love to say it was a huge help but haven't noticed a major difference so far!
     
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    Women under 30 earn more on average than men that age.
     
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    I don't know if a lock-up would improve their efficiency as a horny guy is a less focused guy.

    People that are motivated through sticks may do the task at hand; however, as I have seen rarely do it well or adapt well to the situation. I would suspect a lot of average to below average work.

    Of all the guys I have worked with over the years, it requires a single task minded focus without interruption, and having one's self locked up is a distraction by default. For a non-sexual reference, think about a guy that likes sports or drink, is he really focused on the tasks at hand ...

     
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    Where? My wife works in education and says certainly not in Canada?
     
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    My wife works in education in the US and pay is the same, male or female. It depends on education and experience.
     
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    I meant she has looked into case studies concerning wages in the workplace in general
     
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    I wanted to ask something regarding this, how do you balance working full time and also doing all the household chores? Where do you find the time?
     
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    Evenings and weekends. And I don't yet do absolutely everything, my gf and her mom still do stuff as it's their house. But most of the washing, ironing and cleaning the bathroom are left to me more and more.

    It's certainly a heavy burden but then many people across the globe do much more, particularly single parents.
     
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    You know one thing you might be able to suggest is that you want to learn to do something better (e.g. cook a certain dish) etc .... that way it gives you are a reason to provide assistance and then slide in for next time. E.g. Hey we made that home made pasta together, thanks for helping. How about next Wednesday I come over and make it for you and your daughter and then you can tell me how well I did ....

    Drumroll ... please :)

     
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    I am going to be working from home more going forward so there may be all sorts of opportunity ahead.
    Hugs
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    Oh ok. You must be having tiring days probably.
     
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    Sometimes yes. But when I see my partner smile with satisfaction it makes it all worthwhile.
     
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    I’m locked at work and always thinking about sex!
    And I certainly am more keen to what the women are wearing!!
     
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