Benefit to sleeping in chastity

It's not erections that cause the discomfort. It's just the feel of the metal against my legs. I become hyoer aware of it and that makes relaxation - and therefore sleep - difficult

 

Fascinating reading the comments on this post. I've not been wearing my chastity device for long but after a couple of disturbed nights I have slept well. Before wearing the chastity device I did take the precaution of sleeping with a cock ring and this did make adapting much easier.

I share with others the delicious feeling of waking to my penis filling the cage and the relief of first pee of the day. Before trying chastity I had no idea that these could be so pleasurable. Well worth the inconveniences.

 

This week has been the best week for me so far, I only wake up if I have to pee now, which I did before I was locked up anyway.
Started with a cb-6000s in November and it was hell at first trying to sleep, gave up a couple times. We ordered a HT3 standard in December and after there shipping the wrong size and getting it corrected I was locked in my HT3 since Feb 24/7. I lived with the painful wake ups and now it’s settling down. I’m happy it has cause I glad I’m locked up right and can’t ever touch her cock again. She wash’s her cock every night and locks it back up. I love my life more then I ever have before.

 

its a good job you has stop wearing the cb one in bed cos i dont know how anybody can wear them ones in bed. If you roll over and figet a lot in bed they can break and then split and then they pinchy your willy and it hurts a lot.

 

I sleep on my side or back so it wasn’t an issue

 

I certainly have been woken up in the middle of the night because of dreams and discomfort it causes. I do think the smaller the cage the less impact it has.

 

I am locked 24/7 so the cage is always on! I do get woken up sometimes by someone going for a pee, then coming back and deciding to tease my cock until it starts to bulge in its cage! If she can't sleep (which thankfully is rare) then I'm teased several times during the night. To be fair though it only happens if I haven't got to be up for work. Mrs Chaste always says "It wasn't me, you must have dreamt it or maybe it was the cock fairy!" Otherwise apart from needing to pee myself or erotic dreams, I don't wake up!

 

I feel the same too. I sleep better, and I can't really explain why.

 

Maybe you does it too much at a time, I would suggest you a method that you can adapt at your case.
Wear it the days for one hour or two, this for a week and not much more, just to get used to and perfectly know how to wear it and remove it.

During the week end or in a time where you do not work after wear it the night too, you should be tired but your former week of experience should tell you how to wear it comfortably like shaving, cream and so.
You need to feel well in it and do not sens it.
The next week wear it a lot more like 4 hours a day, more if you can and avoid discomfort.
Try it then the night and see how it works.
Yous should forget it during the day at that stage and does not feel encaged. If you feel it too much go and do some house-chore to think about something else, a good ground washing don't help erotic thoughts.

If you have a week of holiday it should be perfect.
After a week like this you will get used too and no longer feel it, it will be like a normal part of your anatomy.

It is a good things of not going too fast, maybe good for fantasy but not for reality. Your mind need to be bend and used to it and things will go a lot better if you do not force too much.

Good luck.

 

I've had luck with compression shorts, but my KH hasn't made me try to sleep in my cage for some time because it's always extremely uncomfortable for me and I'm always so tired the next day.

That being said we're both kind of frustrated with having to unlock it every night and relock in the morning so at some point when we have a slower week I might just push through and try for, say, 3 days. Then see how I feel.

 

This is an interesting idea. I find my cage comfortable for all-day wear but you're suggesting that at night my KH would just take off the cage portion, and the base ring would never come off?

I can't believe I've never thought of this, thank you. That's such a nice way to take a step to 24/7 wear.

 

I have found that wearing tight pants or a good snug thong works really well for keeping things closer to the body at night if you sleep on your tummy like I do or if you toss and turn a lot. Also make sure you pee before bed even if you think you don't have to. It took me at least two weeks of rough nights for the erections to stop hurting. Not it hardly gets hard cause he know he can't

 

Just a question, you sleep with a cage or not ? what kind of cage?

 

Been there! Done that never again! I'll stay locked for 24/7/365. Getting out an hard all night then back in is worse then weeks of staying in with no release I promise you that from personnel experiance

 

Yes I do. Every single night. I am currently in a Holy Trainer V3 small size.

 

My wife was initially against me sleeping in one of my cages and ordered me to remove it at bed time. She said that was so that it could breathe. I had a habit of wanting to handle the goods in the morning which I felt I needed to break. I think she preferred that I not, also.

So, to overcome this, I began staying up until she was asleep and then went to bed with one on. I did not have much trouble sleeping. Things have now progressed and I climbed into bed last night while she was still awake. She asked if that hurt or bothered me when in bed, and I answered No. She accepted that and did not tell me to remove it. So, some progress has been made in the reluctant FLR.

 

When I wore a ball-trap device I would eventually get used to it over night and not wake up in unbearable pain. But sleep was always disturbed to a certain extent. I didn't notice any positive benefit, quite the contrary.
It's one of the main reasons we switched to a ringless device and piercing.

 

I've been in 24/7 for two weeks now and I've slept through the night three nights running now.

I had been getting up 3 to 7 times a night with erection pain and had to get up and try to pee.

Just like what everyone said on the site, give it two weeks and it should calm down and allow you to sleep through.

I also lube up with olive oil before bed.

I've ordered another device with a smaller tube to see if this helps even more. Fingers crossed.

 

Well has mine says no too, disobeying her is also a kind of cheating. In a FLR you have to obey her desires, you better try to convince her, with time, that you can sleep with.

I guess she won't be happy when she will discover that.

 

I'm still relatively new to chastity but I had and continue to have no problem sleeping in it. I do experience more spontaneous erections at night than during the day, and most of the time nocturnal erections happen so that it is more difficult to urinate while sleeping.

I feel that managing your sleep patterns is key. I'm a horrible insomniac so I really can't sleep unless I'm really tired. I've tried every sleep aid under the sun but I'm just a nocturnal person forced to be diurnal by work schedules. As long as I keep a consistent schedule, I can manage just fine but I don't notice any difference whether caged or not. A long as I can get back to sleep, I don't care and it's easier for me to get back to sleep than it is to get to sleep in the first place. Perhaps not focusing on it is key, but I'd say that so far in my experience I'm more comfortable caged than not. Keeping things in place and consistent is better for me than things moving around freely throughout the night.

One interesting thing has happened, just before I bought my first cage. I had a dream about being put into a chastity cage with a small urethral sound, something that honestly doesn't interest me, and when I woke up I found a nice nocturnal erection that was causing the tip to push against the waistband of my briefs. Interesting how much subconscious mind interpreted that in the dream. It's obvious I had been considering it for a while!