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    This morning was a weird one for me. BK called me into the bedroom and told me she wanted me to pleasure her, of course I was 100% in on that idea. I pulled back the covers and got in between her legs and started to use my mouth on her. What was weird is that he took her iPad and placed it partially on my head and in between her thighs as her legs were bent at the knees. I asked her what was up and she told me to be quiet and concentrate on what I was supposed to be doing. I watched her hand and finger move from the left or the right side of the iPad, and then it hit me, she was playing a game. I’m not sure what game she played but she does like to play, used to be candy crush a long long time ago but I’m sure it’s something different now. I could look up between her thighs and see her face and her and her eyes. Her eyes and her finger moved all over the iPad as she played. Every once in while her eyes closed for a second and she moaned as I hit the right spot or maintain the correct speed for her pleasure. No matter how hard I tried, or how fast I went, she continued to play the game whith just subtle clues that she was being pleasured at the same time.

    She was totally ignoring me and using me as a sex toy for her pleasure. After a little while she put her iPad down and looked at me. I thought this was my cue take things a little further, but I was wrong. She said we were done and we went took a shower together. Looking back, it was really great. I’ve heard of being ignored but never had any experience with it. It was a lot of fun I hope it happens again in the future.

    Anyone else have any sexual experiences or stories to share about being Ignored?
     
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    I would love to experience this...even if only once.
     
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    I absolutely love being used too
     
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    tegelad Class and sophistication in all things

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    Congratulations, (not saying this meanly) you have been objectified :)

    Enjoy the head space, and the next time you are down there, think of a fantasy life like a Handsmaid Tale where men are only allotted 100 orgasms in their life and it is recommend to no more then 1-2x a year. Think about this where you need to take care of the wife/partner at a ratio of 100-250 to 1.

    Enjoy the fantasy thought and congratulations.
     
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    maybe she had you down there more for your benefit than for hers? Ya know something to keep you attentive and in the right frame of mind whether she wanted an orgasm or not?
     
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    I think your right, I know these are not the kind of things she usually thinks about. But I’m so happy she shared this with me. She is too good to me.
     
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    Never experienced this myself, but it's something I've thought about a lot. I recently dropped the suggestion to my wife that I could rim her while she lays on her stomach on the bed and reads a book or watches TV for however long she likes. She said it sounded like a nice idea, but time will tell if it's something she really wants.
     
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    My Mistress said she wouldn't be able to concentrate on a book or movie while being worshipped.
     
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    I have given oral to my Bride on several occasions while She is on the phone with other people. Judging by the difficulty She had on some of the occasions maintaining Her focus on the phone, I know it wasn't just about keeping me engaged. She has also looked at Her phone a few times while I am serving Her, but it is usually just temporary. When I am used like a tool I never complain and most always enjoy it. It is just another opportunity for me to serve. :p
     
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    I don't think my wife could either if it was her clitoris I was worshiping. She likes the feeling of having her anus rimmed, but she doesn't get off on it, so I think she could probably manage to read a book or watch something while I do it. I think most of her enjoyment from that would be humiliating me and putting me in place more than anything else.
     
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    I hate that I am getting tight in my cage reading this. At least you are in a place you love.
     
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    That's what I was thinking too.
     
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    Miss Shelly doesn’t totally ignore me when I’m pleasuring her not to the extent that she’s playing a game anyway. These are the times that we are being tested. Are we serving because we want something in return either a reaction or some kind of return stimulation. Or are we serving our Mistress’s because that’s what we do no matter how she reacts to it.

    Earlier in our Chastity journey we did go for months without so much as even touching each other but sexual intimacy was almost non existent than also.

    Simple question. Why do you serve her?
     
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    You there comes a time, at least from what I have seen and experienced that when a women
    understands that they are free to do as they please that can happen.
    Thanks @Mash2214 ,you say you don't have the words.

    I wouldn't feel any different doing that or rubbing Her back while She reads a book. If She asks for
    something look at it this way, you are not being ignored you were ASKED that is not ignored. I will
    give Her pleasure when She wants and enjoy the fact that I have the privilege to serve Her. Maybe
    things are about to change and she is just warming up. I don't look for a pat on the back, I know
    where I am and love being there. I am not insecure about anything, I truly enjoy serving Her. If
    it happens more often, you maybe be getting what you asked for, but not exactly what you were
    looking for.:eek: I'll stayed tuned.

    Thanks @Mash2214
     
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    Realistically there must come a time when being completely ignored will no longer work.

    I get the luck from the first few times it happens. I can feel that excitement. But can it last? Eventually everyone needs some form of connection, if only to gain reassurance that you're doing it right.
     
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    Kick - not luck
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Ive never understood the allure of this. Being used as a pleasure object is one thing, but what’s the point of going down on someone if they aren’t enjoying it? If they are enjoying it, pretending not to is a bit unnecessary for a dominant.
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    Very normal for us.
     
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    who said she did not enjoy either the oral or the control / domination / humiliation
     
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    About half the time she acts like she is turned on, but the other half, she might as well be talking about the weather, or what we are having for dinner, or just about anything but sex. It makes me feel very submissive and is a real turn on.
     
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    Love this. A couple times my wife and our old roommate would make me eat them while watching TV. Roommate loved that my wife couldn't ignore it, and loved watching her squirt on my face. Then she would make me eat her while she just sat back and watched TV. Used like a sex toy to her.
     
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    Love being used myself. Can't get enough! Love being cuckold as it provides opportunity to serve and be used by more than one person at a time. Wonderful! Women or men, doesn't matter to me, just want to be used hard!!
     
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    I have been told to give her the casual licking . She may doing work at the table or just relaxing on the couch.
    But I do love it when she has me lick her just for fun and giggle.
     
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    All worship is good worship.
     
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    Every time I read a new thread here, I'm greeted with a new concept. My toy has mentioned that he likes objectification...I wonder if this is something that he would enjoy. INTERESTING!
     
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