BBCS considering getting one

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    Good start :)
     
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    The behind barz has arrived,
    Now I'm no chastity newbie but the belt is a whole new ball game it's like starting from scratch again with chastity.
    my main concerns when getting the device was how hidden it would be in daily life and I'm pleased to say that so far all is good on that front, after a few nights of wearing it for a couple of hours to bed the belt in to a reasonably comfy fit today is the day for its first full time day in use.
    So far the main word is wow the feel is so much more dominating than the conventional chastity cage and its quite a mind buzz if I'm honest.
    I was unsure on using the rod at first as the option not to fit it is their but after a night of not using it and one of using it the decision was made and that is to use it as the slightest movement from it reminds you that your locked and you aren't getting out...
     
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    I'm still tweaking the rod on mine as it's putting slight pressure my lower back just below the waistband but that's my aim too. Rod in 24/7.

    Glad you are your belt are getting on :)
     
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    No question, for us, the bar adjustment has been the greatest challenge.

    The fit with the bar definitely raises the intensity a bit!

    My first few months, we didn't use the enclosure. Now that the belt fits perfectly (24/7 for days at a time) we are working with the bar again. Its close, but will need a few more adjustments (and probably a die to extend the threading, I think it may still be too long).
     
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    I had to ask for a longer one as my belt sits higher up on my hip bones. Once I get the right right I'll then wrap some proper waterproof round the thread as that's what digging into me. I suspect once that's done it'll be fine (and I'll be properly secured!)
     
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    I'm going to play with the rod length and tighten it slightly on the next clean up.
    I like things to feel tight.
    Nearly 12 hours completely locked down and just starting to get a bit of discomfort from the cage but think I'm going to stay locked and ride it out fingers crossed...
     
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    I would listen to your body and maybe release the rod + cage and make sure nothing is rubbing. I seem to get redness between the ring and top of the top on the left hand side and I'm still tweaking the belt to avoid it.

    You don't want to end up with an infection. You have all the time in the world to enjoy being belted :)
     
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    Wore it all of last night, had a couple of wake up times, so far so good today no pains any where it just seems to be when laying down but putting that down to the belt bedding in...
     
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    Yeah - I was the same to begin with but now I don't feel it all when when I'm lying in bed (on my side, back or front!)
     
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    Have you managed over time to stop the belt moving when laying down and reduce the gap between your skin, as I can in certain positions get my finger in between but don't want to adjust it to much as it fits nicely when standing up.
     
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    I had to keep going tighter. Then I lost a bit of weight and needed to actually cut the bands and drill new holes to achieve the correct fit again.
    If I have too much space when I lay down, the belt is too lose. For me, that extra space will end up with bits falling out from where they belong resulting in pinching and quite uncomfortable nocturnal swelling.
     
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    I've gone one hole tighter when playing with the belt but found that to be severely uncomfy.
     
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    Update time on the belt,it's took me time wise around 200 hours of wearing to get it to feel right alot of fettling and bending and I'm now at the point of total lock down with only access to remove the flat front daily for cleanups.
    I think what has helped in the bedding in period was 2weeks away from the belt which let my body adjust back ready for the next stint of breaking it in.
    My thoughts now on the belt are WOW escaping out of it forget it no chance.. The rear bar adds a nice feel when walking and makes you feel more submissive and reminds you of your place in life.
    At first I thought toilet visits would be a nightmare especially for numbers 2s but it's actually easier than going for a water release. That's still an issue I'm working on and I'm in the process of sorting something out with Sam.
    Once you've gone for one of these belts you won't want to go back to a standard cage once it's bedded in.
     
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    Has anyone else who's in the flat front belt getting a dull pain or had a dull pain in the sack region when sitting down, I'm trying to think of the best way to remedy this issue.
    If I'm walking or laying down no issues what so ever just when sitting.
     
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    Sounds like you might need to bend the cock ring out slightly. I had that as well and after I tweaked that part it was much better.
     
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    After I Took the belt of I've found a nice rub line going across the bottom of both balls, I'm thinking it's the back end of the flat cage putting pressure on them.
    Dilemma time now.... Do I wait for it to heal and try again or is it a case of not going to get on with the outer cage
     
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    Sounds like you're having very similar issues to me. I had to remove the cock ring as I was suffering horrendous 'ring sting' overnight. Now I'm getting rubbing on the underside of my cock where my cock goes into the tube. It's healing but it feels a bit 'whack a mole' at the minute.
     
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    I feel for you, it's not a Nice pain to have I've come out of the belt for a short period whilst it heals. It looks like I've been self harming the way the cut goes over by balls.
     
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    How much more expensive was it to get the funnel option vs a regular tube?
     
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    Well... I ordered mine after I got the belt so it came to around £500 for the tube. Given it sounds like they're potentially looking to offer that as an option rather than a custom order it may come down. In any event ordering it as part of a full belt should be cheaper too as they have to make the belt anyway.
     
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    Hi Aarb,
    How you getting on with the ring sting, I think that is the issue with mine, still letting my balls heal, did you find pushing the ring outwards relieve any of the pain
     
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    Hi.
    Sorry - was away for the weekend. Pushing the cage out has helped and I think it's just a case of getting used to it. It doesn't bother me half as much as it used to.
     
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    Abit of an update on the belt, I've now gone for a funnel inner cage and ditched the flat front for the design in the picture I've uploaded.
    This came today in the post and so far so good, nice and comfy when sitting and driving and no mess when peeing...
    Fingers crossed it won't be coming of for a good while as cleaning will be a doddle with good access for washing.
     

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    Looks more or less like their Bare Cage. Don't recall seeing one with their logo so prominent, though.

    I really like the idea of a funnel inner tube, but it's a huge bite. I was looking at a belt with a removable Hannibal 2, and that's 1000 pounds before having "Contents belong to Cocklocker" engraved. <g>. The funnel mod is another 50% and is only available in the default 36mm diameter, and we'd really prefer a larger tube. At some point, it becomes a game of "What do we sacrifice to keep this thing cheaper than a mortgage payment?"
     
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    I'm about £2300 into it now in total,
    But in my eyes it's worth it for the security and the fact its going to be very long term... I could spend more going to the pub in a year..
     
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