Funny story: I was asked to do a chastity class for the local BDSM community as I'm the only one really into it and started prepping and doing research. When I got to researching full belts something clicked with me. While previously full belts "weren't my thing" I suddenly found them very stylish and fantasized about them. So, on a whim, I ordered a My Steel belt a little over a month ago. It arrived yesterday! Very excited! So some basic full belt wearing questions: 1) Wearing. It's a little tight in places but fits snug. What's the typical "break in" period? Suggestions to combat chafing? 2) Has anyone done/recommend minor adjustments for fit? Like bending the band SLIGHTLY, etc? Recommendations on how to best do this? (Mine digs a little at the sides, on the hips.) 3) Where do the balls go? LOL! I know, dumb question, but I can't seem to find a comfortable spot for them! 4) Hygiene recommendations? The belt came with a rubber douche-like syringe; what should I be squirting in it and where? 5) Finally, shaving. I normally shave but the belt really doesn't provide adequate access down there. Is this something I should just give up? My wife's schedule in the morning really doesn't mesh with my own so supervised cleanings/shavings aren't really a possibility. Like I said, really basic questions!