I have a reasonable amount of experience with chastity with the CB3000 and a metal contraption sold by Regulation London (https://www.regulation-london.com/bondage/chastity/small-metal-chastity-3-ring-set). My problem with both devices has been ball-slippage. I have small balls so I either wear the rings so tight that I cut off circulation or I have them looser and the balls can escape - very frustrating! I've more recently been looking at devices which rely on a PA (I have a 4MM one anyhow) like the PA-5000 and some of Steelworxx's contraptions. My problem is are these truly effective for masturbation prevention given that they don't keep the penis in a downward arch? I'm cautious about getting into a situation where I can slide the device back and forth slightly to give myself enough stimulation to cum - that would be very disappointing! Any assistance would be much appreciated!
So I'm just guessing you are not thinking that Chivalry towards a WOMAN in a FLR is nothing more than admirable behavior towards woman. Apparently you are not aware that the code of chivalry is, at its heart, simply a handbook for good conduct. Chivalry was a set of limitations, which the strong and mighty (men, YOU) placed upon themselves with the realization that setting a good example sends a message which is far more powerful than any words on paper! So why is ball-slippage an issue? Why are YOU concerned about whether you can slide the device back and forth slightly to give yourself enough stimulation to cum? And yes that would be very disappointing, so why are YOU trying so hard to fail an FLR relationship? I'm just wondering if you wouldn't be much happier giving HER admirable behavior! Have you, a strong and mighty man realized that setting a good example sends a message which is far more powerful than any words on paper? Do you desire to adore a women and put her on a pedestal and submit to being under a woman's heel and her power? Perhaps your emotions need to be focused on HER your feminine leader at all times?” http://domesticdisciplinedigest.tumblr.com/ The Domestic Discipline Digest http://kiltgo.tumblr.com/ Knees I’d Love to Go Over http://kinkerb3ll3.tumblr.com/ Southern Belle with an ANAL Twist! http://spankables.tumblr.com/ So Spankable Just a thought!
while Patsey makes a point ... that any device can be defeated in a way that results in an orgasm and that you need to take some self restraint no mater the device There is most likely a device that is the right combination of "security" and function that works for you giving you the mental feeling of being locked (not escape) and limits the amount of self restraint you want to have. Hopefully some PA chastity wearers stop by to offer their experiences
@Patsey Belle Talk about an unhelpful bigoted answer! What makes you think that asking a question about the practicalities of wearing a chastity device and how it can prevent masturbation implies that the poster is involved in an FLR or even has a female partner? And who are you to even scold the male member of an heterosexual couple about his desire to find a device that prevents masturbation? @Lumos My experience has been that proper visuals/state-of-mind allied with some light touch of sensitive skin (or movement of the cage such as can be induced by a magic wand) will eventually result in a sort of orgasm, especially after about a week+ of denial. Now, it may not be a full-on orgasm, rather a ruined one. But I have yet to encounter a device that truly prevents self stimulation, although some make it painful enough that, depending on your response to pain, it may be dissuasive.
You actually hit the nail on the head, it's not for a lady, it's for a gentleman Thanks for all of your help, it's given me a lot of food for thought. I've been looking into Steelworxx more and more and I think their devices may be what I need. A good balance between support and security. Thanks!
I'm locked 24/7/... in a custom tube-only device(for similar reasons I can't wear a ball-trap device anymore). See my profile for pics. This style can be very secure, but the fit has to be just about perfect. It works by constricting to prevent erection, so if you don't grow in girth, it may not work for you. As usual with any device, YMMV.
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@Patsey Belle As always a great post and some great links , as you know I enjoy your posts a lot , thank you for posting