I have been in and out of chastity for some time now, mainly just for a little extra, but I am now understanding more and more about why etc. I have a new device a Holy Trainer V3, and I can wear it for longer periods, well by my standards not those on here that are 24/7.....to you I admire you all. I have been wearing my cage now for 4 days, and actually have found it very easy, but today I wanted to take it off, not because of pain or anything, I just wanted to remove it..........tell me, is this where real chastity starts? I would welcome any views on this. Rebecca x
Welcome to our community. Being in chastity varies from person to person. Many only do short time lockups, others full time, so your path is chastity too. The urge to remove it can be strong, but you have to listen to your body and desires. It may help if you decide when you first lock up, how long it will last. That may help you get past times when you want to remove it by giving you a goal to shoot for Good luck and enjoy.
Hello and welcome. Chastity sees a constant and unresolvable tension between wanting to remain in chastity and wanting release.
Hello and welcome. I second the comments from @MissyB about setting a time to shoot for. It’s all up to you.
Yes, what you really need to is to find Your rhythm. But don't sell yourself short, you can often go longer than you think.