Hello everybody, It's been a few months since I was last locked in chastity and a few years since I was last on this site specifically. I decided to make a new account since I could not for the life of me remember my previous account information. But I'm back and ready to jump right back into the deep end, because I honestly miss chastity. The tension, the rituals, and most of all community. So some background information about myself... I was originally placed into chastity by my then girlfriend now wife shortly after we started dating in 2009. She shared the typical back story familiar to many keyholders. We were dating, having a normalish sex life for the first few months, but once we were more comfortable with each other I expressed a desire to try out more kinky play and she was game for a little experimentation. I tried domming her, we both laughed. We tried CBT, the roommates complained about the noise. And eventually we stumbled onto cuckoldry and we agreed that looked like the right direction. Mrs. Roxxxoff was still pretty reluctant about cuckolding me for a while. I remember her asking a lot of questions. What was in it for me? I didn't really have an answer to that one for a long time. Was this some backhanded way of getting her to agree to an open relationship? Absolutely not. There was a lot to be nervous about on her end, so we decided to take it very slowly. Upon our research of cuckoldry, we discovered chastity as a baby step to see how she and I reacted to my sexlessness and her having control of our mutual sexual pleasure. Once we got that CB2K on, the game began in earnest. From mid 2009 to early 2011 we would casually play lock up and she would go on to host various male FWB at our small apartment in San Francisco. It was fun but nothing really stuck. That was until we confided about our lifestyle to mutual friend of ours who was down to play bull with us. It was at that point where stays in chastity accelerated from a night to a weekend to weeks to months. My longest stay during that time was about 6 months in device (we took it off for sleep and cleaning purposes) ((Technically it would be 7 months if I count the month I was still celibate when we had to replace the cheap plastic device that broke AT WORK!!)). During that stint we got married, I was locked for the ceremony and my best man was that mutual friend. I won't go into details about the honeymoon, but given the lifestyle we were living I'm sure you can infer why I spent that week home alone. It was also during this time that I started to experiment with sissy play, but that didn't last since I look absolutely horrid en femme. After that lock up period, we had sex for the first time in months and BOOM pregnant. And as usually with such circumstances our priorities changed. Cuckoldry and chastity was moved back to a every-now-and-then-weekender sort of affair for the next couple of years. Admittedly, I was a bit frustrated, but I understood the change enough to put the kink in the realm of fantasy and various tumblr pages. Eventually, we reverted to a vanilla couple and without a keyholder I lost interest in self locking and took up full blown porn addiction/club goon type stuff in my free time to get my weirdo kink fixes. And that was my sex life until the beginning of this year. I've decided to go HAM on self chastity as a change of sexual pace and a challenge. I have completed week 1 of a (hopefully) multiyear chastity stay. I know it's probably unrealistic to shoot for such a long time but I enjoy stretch goals as a motivational tool, so I'll see how far I can go and take it as a win. I'm mainly joining this site find accountability buddies, document my journey, and have a place to troubleshoot any problems that I may stumble across. Other things about me Outside of the realm of kink/sexuality I'm a bit of a meathead and a history buff. I enjoy powerlifting and am training to take up recreational rugby next year. I'm also trying to spend a bit more time on cultural activities. I look forward to interacting with you all PigBitch Roxxxoff