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    This was the first weekend with multiple orgasms for me since September 30 and I was not released from my cage. I will write the details later in another posting.

    my average is 7 days, but sometimes pushed to 14. 2X a year it’s 30 days for Locktober, and 40 days for lent. My wife does fancy a 2 month lock period, but may milk me several times during that cycle.

    I have been locked once with no release for 100 days without and orgasm or milking due to a misunderstanding and that has never happened again.

    the trick is setting expectation and knowing the cycle length and setting a mutual agreement. Of course she can read my mood and my mind and knows what I need and when, so sometimes it’s pushing home harder or giving me an early reward.

    a big part is trust......
     
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    I am self locked.
    I am getting older and my labido is in decline.
    I am also gender dysphoric.
    At this point, I wear a cage more to prevent unwanted erections than anything else.
    My desire for a Penile O is almost gone.
    My desire for an Anal O is pretty intense.

    You can take all of that into account when I tell you that I have had exactly 1 penile O this year,
    ...and that was a wet dream.
     
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    I mean of corce NO touching what so ever. Sorry, my mistake.
     
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    I am self locked and can stay 5-6 days in chastity without orgasm. But I unlock myself in night time.
     
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    After a week, I can have a quick release for supervised masturbation if I beg. Otherwise i'm locked for 2 weeks ish at a time ,
     
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    So 2-3 weeks is general average for all..
    And I felt that I am getting more orgasms than others
     
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    My latest cagefree orgasm, ruined, was in august and propably my last this year. Latest full orgasm was the summer of 2019. I'm aloud 2-3 ruined orgasms a'year. But milking is another thing.
     
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    Seriously?
     
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    Yes!
     
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    Enjoy!!
     
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    Haha, bare in mind that I'm 57, if this was 30 years ago it would'nt work at all I promise
     
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    Exactly, I am 25 and I can barely stay 15 days in it..
     
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    Understand, my two first weeks in 2010 was terrible and also the first 2 years. But my wife got tuffer with the punishment so now I can live with it, just!
     
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    Wow!
     
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    My lockup times are all over the place. My longest was just over a month, but I could go longer. The frustration and excitement of being locked down is addictive. For me, it has to be locked with no breaks. Not being able to touch or even have an erection is a mind game of its own. Breaks overnight, or for cleaning would ruin it in my mind, but to each their own.
    When we first started, I was limited by my wife (very vanilla, and she thought it was too weird), and also limited by poor fitting devices and irritation.
    Now we're about 7 years into this (on and off). It's still something I enjoy a lot and can't stay unlocked for long before I'm bugging my wife for another lockup. However she is much more into it since she realized it was a good way to get me to finish various projects around the house, and gives me motivation to pamper her with massages, etc. So she is much more involved in keeping me locked up longer, hiding the keys, not giving in and letting me out early. Also, I have a much better device (Lori 8C with retainer ring). So I've currently been locked for 3 weeks with no release at all. I might get a break for some play time on Saturday if I make good progress on the honey do list!
    Back to your original question, I'd say my average is 2-4 weeks. Hoping my wife surprises me with a longer lockup sometime - I would like to see how a 3 month lockup affects me / us. Don't know if I could do longer than that. A year or longer like some people here seems pretty daunting.
     
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    Same, I too can't stay unlocked for long. Now cage became more like an underwear for me.
     
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    Getting monthly releases for most part of this year, always self-locked save for cleaning.
    Nothing except edging after October though, was silly enough to make a twitter poll about it and of course only no cumming option won. Couldn't bring myself not to follow something I've initiated, so 2 month it is.

    Longest period without orgasms was years ago when I got a Dom partner with denial kink.
    Sometimes during anal or fingering I used to feel like I need to pee and soon seminal fluid was leaking, but I got no orgasmic feeling from it until I learned how to concentrate good enough. Something that took like 5 months for me to achieve.
     
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    I posted on here that I got a release monthly on average but my KEYHOLDER reminded of how wrong I was I have had 3 orgasms since March 12020. So in 9 months I have had 3 did not even realize it has been that long. No wonder if no cage i feel naked. Gotta love the cage and the denial.
     
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    I can totally relate to feeling naked without a cage on :cool:
     
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    yes that rigt and it feel very very funny and it keep make you feel that you have forgot things.
     
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    I habe been locked up for over 150 days without any release. My wife is clear that I wont have any chance of an release until next june.
    I am so happy to be able to fulfil her wish.
     
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    While I am still pretty new to chastity, I find myself getting way too used to it, my longest without O has been 2 weeks and consecutive locked days 33. Last week I convinced my KH to allow me a couple days out to hopefully reset and feel the frustration again. Partially worked but over those 2 days only got erect from manual stimulation or while sleeping, never from visual or mental stimulation. We’ve continued cage free nightly edging so far and I’m somewhat getting back to tight cage frustration naturally during the day.
     
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    Frustration is normal..
     
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    Agreed, just wasn’t feeling it as quickly, as much, or was just too used to it. Even on play nights I’d find myself rooting for denial over an orgasm just so I could feel the frustration for the night.
     
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    Im not 24/7 and short time chaste so i say my average is 5 days...longgest is 1 month
     
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